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12211male 56M/101F
267 posts
10/30/2019 10:52 am

Wow, because I have cock photo as my main, I’m the “ bottom of the barrel”...guess that goes for the pussy photos as well.? you should sign up with P.O.F. P- rudes Of a F-eather..

EvanBilly 58M  
42 posts
10/30/2019 10:52 am

Never heard it put quite that way 'mechanical sex" but I get it . What happened to the fun in getting the other person off. Kind of a microcosm of the world we live in.. we love our selves more than others... not what you can do for me but what we can do together. Have a wonderful day.

sj8365 55M
17 posts
10/30/2019 11:02 am

I always think there should be some chemistry between people. you can't be attracted to everyone. otherwise why bother...Having sex just to have sex is kind of pointless and meaningless

idblueswoman 61F  
657 posts
10/30/2019 11:02 am

Great post. I think it's men in general. Too much pornography watching and they think that's how sex should be. I think what you & I seek requires a bit more of a connection than just bodies connecting.

ChrisOnHere801 43M
28 posts
10/30/2019 11:30 am

If you want to feel appreciated and pleasured, look for someone who feels under appreciated themselves.
Personally, I love helping bring a woman to climax. It's so erotic, and I love the look in her eyes immediately afterward, it's really satisfying to me. Of course, I like to get off myself, but I know if she is satisfied then my turn will come. Sex is always better when there is some interpersonal chemistry and connection with the other person. It doesn't have to be a full on romantic relationship, but some connection feeds attraction. Maybe this makes me strange as a man, but it's true.
I'd say, try something different. Instead of waiting for guys to look at your profile, look through the guys and reach out yourself, if you haven't already.
Good luck.

hillcountryman60 60M
154 posts
10/30/2019 11:40 am

Keep looking someone will catch your eye,

AnewWoman 61F  
122 posts
10/30/2019 12:09 pm

Spot on post, so don't feel alone. Over the years I've met a couple few men here with the chemistry and emotional side of things to make for more enjoyable experiences, and I suppose that is what keeps me here in hopes others may come along. However most want to tell you to go to match or p.o.f. if that is what we seek. They don't get it. They think we all want the same thing they do and somehow if we don't want THEM and their dick pics, we must therefore be on the wrong site. Of course then we have to hear them bitch and moan how nobody wants to meet. Life is tough.

Desir4Fire 45M
2220 posts
10/30/2019 12:22 pm

Ms Flower,
I truly feel your pain.
I had a friend that called the action her and her husband take as clinical sex.
It's just basically all the motion without all the emotion...
The sexual healing without the feelings.
You truly need a deserve something deep, intense and satisfying.
Something kinky and orgasmic
It will be yours

EnigmaInitiative 51F  
2713 posts
10/30/2019 1:10 pm

I truly don't think dating sites are the answer anymore.

I've found great sex here on Passion, but only found REAL connection with a FEW.

It's more difficult nowadays with Fake Plastic People playing pretend. Puffing out their chests like they're {insert whatever here} when what they really are is confused.

I almost feel bad for them.

You and I know where good sex comes from: Consent, Chemistry, Connection, and Communication.

But, in an online world where people often pretend to be something they aren't, how do you tell who is authentic?

I have thoughts on that, but I'm busy with halloween stuff and am just taking a break to relax a bit.

Happy Halloween

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Chook6983 36F
2 posts
10/30/2019 1:13 pm

100% true

Leegs2012 47M
51206 posts
10/30/2019 3:47 pm

My Swing group has a Kinky Men in it. Age range 30 to 50. If you lived closer I would love to bring you to one of one of our party's!!

Leegs2012 47M
51206 posts
10/30/2019 4:27 pm

    Quoting Leegs2012:
    My Swing group has a Kinky Men in it. Age range 30 to 50. If you lived closer I would love to bring you to one of one of our party's!!
All good points you make. You might have a lot of fun with these Men for a party situation. Nice guys

EnigmaInitiative 51F  
2713 posts
10/31/2019 4:19 am

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2019 7:10 pm:
There is only one guy that I can think of that could fuck well on the first night. We played together for 6 mnths bec of that. Lol

But the rest, made me eventually question my sexuality, and beat on my sexual confidence.


I've been with a few that fucked well on the first night. One was J, and that went on farrrrrr too long. We weren't emotionally or intellectually matched, just physically. I'll be honest, I know now that I should have left him long before he moved out of state.

I became complacent with him. Apathetic even.

I did question my sexuality, that's how I ended up NonBinary.

I've always been bisexual but leaned heavily towards men because of NURTURE. We grew up around the same time frame, you get what I'm saying here. It just wasn't as acceptable. Shoot, the first crush I had was a girl at twelve.

Now? I won't even date straight men. They're too binary. Hell, I even broke it off with Eagle in my Secret Agent Man Story. He's too in his head about heteronormative sex. He even started talking like he wanted a OPP (One Penis Policy), and I was like...

Dude, I don't want to fuck women you picked out. If I want a woman, I'll find her myself and ain't no man gonna be involved.


Because men don't understand women as much as they'd like to believe.


You know I am.


aflower2c replies on 10/30/2019 8:52 pm:
Yes. But party sex is completely different than the sex that would feed my sexual soul.

Party sex is just for fun.



Happy Halloween

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Snaughty042 44M  
2 posts
10/31/2019 4:35 am

Not all of us just 'go through the motions' .... every partner I've had has involved some connection and mutual respect / satisfaction.
If she isn't satisfied, why would she shag me again ?!

EnigmaInitiative 51F  
2713 posts
10/31/2019 10:15 am

aflower2c replies on 10/31/2019 10:54 am:
Lol, yes, as someone that has been bi long before I even knew what it was, men have a real hard time understanding that I am attracted to both men and women but I am not really that interested in fmf/ffm. I either date women or date men, I don't date women to catch a man.
Nowadays I just identify as heteroflexible.

Agreed, too many men have the ffm/fmf fantasy that most of us women don't share.

I don't mind Fmf, but I ain't fucking the couple..I'd just direct, because....fun.

I do love a good mmf in whatever configuration though....something about seeing men together just "gets me going".

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travellerabc123 50M
3730 posts
10/31/2019 12:02 pm

I'm your man!
Too bad you are there and I am here.

Embrace the suck

travellerabc123 50M
3730 posts
10/31/2019 8:39 pm

I'm all about emotion and intimacy!
Not sure where you got your info on me.

Embrace the suck

kzoopair 68M/67F
25704 posts
10/31/2019 11:38 pm

It ain't about the size of the boat but about the motion of the ocean, baby, ya'all know what I'm sayin'? You feel me, darlin'?

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kzoopair 68M/67F
25704 posts
11/1/2019 12:33 pm

aflower2c replies on 11/1/2019 11:30 am:
My ocean dewatered, now its just mucky salt flats. Lol

Kinky! Now we're talkin'! I perform best on a muddy track.

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smoothmooves2 46M
26 posts
11/3/2019 11:11 am

I wish I knew you when you were meeting...

1seeking1 54F
2962 posts
11/6/2019 12:06 pm

Thanks for sharing and I so agree.. sadly men seem to start having issues starting in their 40 s. Not sure where else to find them I am in the same boat as you. Beat of luck..

stopbyandsayboo 48M
967 posts
11/6/2019 1:47 pm

Hi Again

Its so nice that someone on this site knows the difference between mechanical sex and passionate sex... Thank for sharing that post... You made my heart smile


nilartx 29M
1 post
11/7/2019 5:15 pm


stopbyandsayboo 48M
967 posts
11/11/2019 2:10 pm

Happy Monday

I am positive you will find someone as awesome as you are



stopbyandsayboo 48M
967 posts
11/11/2019 7:28 pm

OMG... I am totally picking up what your laying down LOL

And the best past is to find one person and grow trust, spending quality time together.. Before you know it the sex becomes making love


waterdrop00 52M
127 posts
11/21/2019 6:17 pm

good post... yes, women can have "mechanical sex" anytime with adult toys ...so tolerating a real life "mechanical pump" has to be unacceptable ... I guess the other popular dating sites may provide opportunity for "intimacy"... these adult sites promote the "mechanical fuck" meetup ..... so I guess women should carry a condom and an oil can.....idk?

themandalorian2 45M
8 posts
1/17/2020 11:27 am

So, what are the other areas you are looking to connect? Can I find you there??
; )

Sirfpyar1930 32M
7 posts
1/19/2020 1:55 am

Don't know about when can I get

GreenEyedGuy1968 51M
104 posts
1/19/2020 6:06 pm

Oddly enough I had only full body (clothed) and face pics on my profile for almost 3 years.
Because I kept reading profiles that basically said they preferred face pictures.
I had about 100 views for 5 pictures.

(I actually posted a poll to ask about this just about the time I switched the pictures.)

The object here is to talk to people and get together, and my previous plan wasn't working so around New Years I stuffed those in their own folder put up dick pics in their place and people are actually talking to me now.

I don't really get it either.
But good luck in your quest, Lady.

GreenEyedGuy1968 51M
104 posts
1/20/2020 8:52 pm

aflower2c replies: "But you are now attracting the kind of female you want. Most likely nsa/anonymous sex seekers, or recently divorced/separated."

Ummmmmmmmm… you'd be surprised, I think.
And I would love to tell you more.
However, I fear the Kamloopians have left a shitty taste in your mouth for anyone else out there who actually has a brain and a dick pic.

Ski6923 37M
14 posts
2/10/2020 12:18 pm

A lot of people don’t like to meet up

author51 57F  
88483 posts
2/18/2020 12:27 am

    Quoting  :

Funny as we both blogged about more mainstream vanilla sites compared to this one..I wish you the best in finding precisely what and who you are looking for and hope you do find it, whatever site brings you success...

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