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MMXX2020 49M
145 posts
2/13/2020 12:07 pm

I am speaking for myself because I really do not know whether the majority of men on the regular dating sites are only looking for a brief experience and on the assumption that this is the case here. For sure there are bf material out there as there are also women who are looking at a more wholesome and lasting relationship like you do.
I find it impossible that you hear from some guys such blunt comments like too bad you are native" or "too bad you are not thinner" or "too bad you are not cuter". If you are not their cup of tea at least they should refrain from such statements that show total lack of maturity and people’s skills. Either you have a magnet and you attract the wrong types or the problem is in your search area (where the availability of single men as you have said is scarce and where the majority of these men have a very thick attitude towards women.


MMXX2020 49M
145 posts
2/13/2020 1:08 pm

I understand what you mean.. I believe that what you face has to do with the area you live and not with your appearance, your skin colour or your age. i was reading your blog a few years ago through a different account. From your writings, you have a very pleasant personality and a good sense of humour. Your body looks fine, your age is fine and I just think you are just at the wrong place. Yes it is home but it seems it is full of thickos (therefore try not to let it get under your skin) In a bigger and more cosmopolitan city you would not have such issues.


MMXX2020 49M
145 posts
2/13/2020 1:37 pm

Vancouver? It has a population of less than a million! The problem is you are fishing on a small pond. The supply is limited. In bigger melting pot like London or New York (thats what I mean by cosmopolitan) I bet you wouldnt have any problem whatsoever in terms of attracting the other sex (not that everyone is good there but the supply is a lot bigger and all types coexist and mingle.


MMXX2020 49M
145 posts
2/13/2020 1:58 pm

I am not suggesting that you have to try New York And who says that the people who complain in New York have the confidence or the personality or the luck. But I believe the problem is not you but your surroundings. There is an issue with availability, stereotyping and narrow mindedness. If the guys you have met over the years behave and talk like that no wonder you feel that most are looking for a fleshlight.


MMXX2020 49M
145 posts
2/13/2020 2:17 pm

It is understandable. .. Your situation reminds me a bit the recent news about the The endangered wolf that walked 8,712 miles to find love. Did you read about it?


Jules1590 51F
6487 posts
2/13/2020 10:03 pm

Given what you've described, I can understand your desire to engage a pro. I'm sorry you've had to deal with such moronic and callous behavior. But yes, meets can and do happen after 45. Good luck finding what you need. YOLO.

J


Southfrkfshr 57M
73 posts
2/14/2020 4:54 am

Oh Flower I am sorry its like this but I think a lot of it has to do with the age we live in. Life was simpler 25 years ago and I for one would like to go back to no cell phones and being connected 24 7.


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