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tomtom55401 56M

12/11/2015 12:39 pm

 This guy must be hot or you wouldn't even be asking this question. Not knowing you, other than readin your blogs, I'd guess you're the type of woman who wouldn't allow a guy to put a shelf life on her. You probably like to have things become more intense/ erotic as time goes by..... If you become a 3-month member in this club then what happens at the 70 day mark? Will you be constantly wondering if today is the day he dumps you? Ultimately you have to do what you're comfortable doing, and what you feel is best for you.


khuz69 55M
77 posts
12/13/2015 10:53 am

 make 3 months be "clock time". If you meet for 2 hours, take takes two hours of the 3 month clock. Texting/emailing don't count, but calls do.

Also, email me when the time is up..


CuriouslyPervy 58M
28 posts
4/10/2017 8:17 pm

 I live by the exact opposite timeline.. that I only hook up every 3 months ... maybe that was what he was actually talking about - hence the extreme hardness that he was displaying for you when you left him in the parking lot!! \8


SensuDom 63M
42 posts
5/6/2017 3:26 pm

 I've found that many live by the 3 month (or less) theory, whether they say it to you or loud or not, whether they know it or not. I'm not sure if it's an ADHD approach to sex, a lack of interest or ability to connect, or just where someone is at that point in time. It's just not my world. I don't find it worth investing time and energy in a good thing to only to move on to what one hopes will be another good thing. It's been my experience, if the first time is good, the second, third, and tenth time has a good likelihood to be great, and great can lead to amazing. Life is too short for good when amazing is possible.


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