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The Balance Between Sexy And Slutty When You Have Big Boobs
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The Balance Between Sexy And Slutty When You Have Big Boobs Like most women when I was younger I was always very disappointed with my breasts. They were small and I was never satisfied with the way I filled out a dress. But eventually I made the decision to get a breast augmentation and my life has never been the same since. It may not seem very enlightened to admit but having large breasts are very powerful tools when seeking mens’ attention and even finding dates or sex partners. When you first get used to them your first instinct is to rush out and buy a new wardrobe of clothes to help show them off. After numerous attempts to strike the right balance between sexy but still classy and downright slutty I came up with a few rules and I’m sharing them in this blog. Keep in mind these rules are what worked for me. Other women may have their own and I welcome any new ideas. No one ever has the right to slut-shame a woman just because she enjoys showing her breasts off and this blog is meant as a resource and not a way to put other women down if they made other clothing choices. The best thing about big boobs is they can actually empower the women who have them. I found both men and women quickly notice if you’re sporting a pair of DDs or larger and they treat you very differently then they do women with smaller breasts. Usually this is a good thing. As you would expect my new boobs gave me more options for choosing sex partners and when I made the decision to share my new and improved body with someone I could perform many more sex acts that only a big breasted woman can do. I can also use my boobs as a makeshift purse or cupholder for the remote control or a cup of my favorite beverage even though it’s not my most ladylike look. I can’t remember the last time I bought my own drink in a bar or club and I’ve even been allowed to cut in line at the DMV, which probably saved me half an hour. All this is great but I have learned the biggest impact on my life was that my augmented boobs give me much more attention than before and this means I have to devote much more time and effort to manage what people think of me. It’s not all peaches and cream when you’re busty. Having large breasts can put you at many disadvantages people may not be aware of. Both men and women won’t take you as seriously. Either you’re a threat or perhaps you’ve turned down a potential sex partner who won’t let you forget? I had two coworkers’ wives ask the boss to invite me to leave the company. Both coworkers apologized to me and agreed not to be alone with me in the office or during business<b> trips. </font></b>I had always been irritated by players and their mind games before, but once I got larger boobs I become a prime target for every sexually aggressive guy I met. On dates most men, even the nice ones I met through my church, assume they’d be able to have sex with me. Even though i never dress provocatively I’m routinely asked if I had ever worked as a stripper. While many people think big breasts are more desirable society is still very leery of women who are seen as flaunting their sexuality. No matter how appreciative people are of your boobs, there will be times when having too much, or in this case, showing too much, of a good thing can be bad for you. I don’t want people to think Im complaining. Having big boobs is awesome! I got my boobs done because I wanted more attention, especially from men. I just didn’t realize how different people were going to treat me and am acknowledging some of the challenges involved with adjusting to my situation. By dressing classy, busty women limit, even if they don’t eliminate, all the negative attention that can cause a lot of headaches. When I was developing the ideas shared in this blog I worried all I was doing was covering up my new boobs to the point where I’d start to regret getting them. Eventually I realized you can’t hide really big knockers and by using a few tricks I could flaunt them in such a way so as to to appear classy but with enough sex appeal to enjoy the attention they bring me. Maintaining good posture such as keeping my back straight seems like a small thing but it makes a huge difference. It has helped me change the types of subtle signals my initial body language was sending and helps take the weight off my back muscles. I am a born sloucher but resisting the urge gets easier over time and after six months I never had to think about doing it. Body language I avoid is arching my back in public to stretch my shoulders or leaning forward when I’m talking to a guy because it causes my boobs to sort of dangle off my chest. Good posture doesn’t cost a thing and I love that but it also positions my boobs front and center. In the right bra and outfit they can’t be missed. A friend told me recently the first thing people focus on when they see me are my breasts and that’s exactly the point of all this. I wear a lot of tight, form fitting tops but rarely show any cleavage. These tops include anything from a t-shirt in the summer to a tight sweater in winter. I avoid multi-colored tops if i don’t want to camoflage the shape of my breasts pushing out against the fabric. Combined with a nice underwire bra for extra support and to get maximum lift, my boobs sort of jut out and can’t help but be noticed without seeming to be a desperate cry for attention. Finding good bras in my size is a major challenge and I have to pay $100 for a decent one. The best bras for me have reinforced straps to avoid digging into my shoulders. If wear the right bra and the fabric of my top is tight but still stretchy I can get my boobs to visibly jiggle or gently role on my chest when I walk but the effect can only be noticed by someone looking directly at my chest. I never wear botton-down blouses unless they have been altered. If I don’t take this step the shirt is either too baggy or too tight across my chest, which causes the bottons to appear to be straining to keep my boobs contained. I end up buying blouses that fit my chest and having them taken in. The tailor I use charges between $20-30 per shirt to don the job right so it gets expensive. I rarely dress to show my cleavage but when I do I only show an inch or two of the tops of my breasts. This works well because it is a subtle way to catch people’s attention. Sometimes I use highlighting powder on the ample parts of my cleavage so when the light hits them in just the right way everyone within my immediate vicinity will have to stop and look. One of the most popular tricks to subtly bring attention to boobs is to wear a necklace that hangs low between my breasts. I find myself playing with the necklace with my fingers when I’m bored and this seems to draw even more attention to that part of my body. It’s a lot of fun using my breasts to get attention but anyone reading this needs to realize some of the attention may be unwanted. It’s not fair to dangle your breasts like bait and then scold men who respond. Most men eventually figure out when a woman is using her body to manipulate them. These are just a few of my thoughts about this topic but I’d love to know if you have any of your own. Thanks for reading! |
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5/3/2019 11:07 am |
Being subtle adds to the sultry side of having big breasts. Yes guys love seeing someone like you show off, but when you have a guy and you know you are going to have fun..as a guy, finally getting to see what you have for real after the subtle dress or showing little cleavage, it makes the whole experience that much better
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