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When People Slip Away.  

Oceana1969 58F  
206 posts
12/27/2014 11:33 pm
When People Slip Away.


Have you ever had a really good friend and then they just disappear with no notice. You ask them what is wrong and they don't or won't answer so you are always left wondering? Yeah, well, I'm there. It hurts when we are left in the dark when everything seems great..and then, gone.

I shall pick myself up once again but it gets harder and harder and I"m about to say screw it all. I wish I could be as casual as many are on this site....but I can't.

HappyChick43 52F
1042 posts
12/28/2014 12:03 am

My thoughts are that many are here to fill in time. They're great at expression and chat but that seem's to be about it. More often than not it's the men that tend to do it. When they're passing time, they're doing just that. Women hold onto the happy nice feelings we get from the small amount of attention given over. When the guy signs off and disappears into real life, the happy turns into not happy and on it goes.

Mars and venus really do exist, just takes a bit of understanding on both sides to make it a happy balance.

Plus, even for the short amount of time you spend chatting and getting the happy nice stuff count it as a bonus, far too many arseholes on here just wanting to bring everyone down to their miserable level.


Negril43 71M
4037 posts
1/20/2015 12:29 pm

Hate just hate if you set them free they will come back i just hate hearing that . makes not a lick of sense if they love you they would leave in the first place . They only come back cause they couldn't do any better so they don't want to be completely empty handed .


Icy_Hot 60M  
49 posts
7/22/2015 8:12 pm

To never have closure is the worst ever!
I have said ... too many times ... that I envy those who yell and scream and have wicked arguments...

For at least there is something to point to!

In our phosphor driven world... we are nothing more that typography and icons on a screen.

How easy to simply turn your back on text.

Except that we are not!

No matter the form the relationship takes, a RELATIONSHIP is indeed what happened.

And there are consequences to treating people like the wrapper that McDonald's food comes in...

We may never see the end of the story...

But karma is alive and well...

Our hurts are real... our scars take too long to heal!

But in the end...

It is because we were willing to commit that gives us the final strength!

Risk not, gain nothing.

Old and quaint but deadly true!

I am alive ... because I opened my soul to you!

I will still be alive ... because I did!

My hurt is real...

But neither has my journey ended!


Oceana1969 replies on 9/15/2015 10:48 pm:
Beautiful..Thank you.

CumSlutPet 54F
43 posts
3/9/2017 12:08 pm

This saddens me more than I can say.


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