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sarahca63 61F  
47 posts
9/6/2014 8:07 am
sitting, waiting

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naughtyred1958 65F
816 posts
9/6/2014 9:02 am

The telling will be if you hear from said person within 24 hours, with some valid reason. Did you text to say running late? Could be he was not willing to wait more than 10 min and left. Not likely but possible. But if that you should have had a message by now. Sorry but this happens again and again. But then those type complain about no shows.

Naughty and so enjoying it!!


Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
9/6/2014 9:15 am

Some guys are like that: chase and/or chicken out. The problem is that it puts a bad feeling on you. Guys who want to show up will have a harder time with you.
Looking at your profile, you are sweet and nice looking.


Cum to my blog and respond. Have a great kissing fun time.


itaintagame 56M

9/6/2014 9:16 am

Yeah that can suck, just keep it moving thats all.

Please, just call me diggy.


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
9/6/2014 10:39 am

I'm genuinely surprised that guys seem to be chicken, like this. If he had turned up, then surely a quick call or text to ensure you were on your way was in order?

We have enough mad rants to endure in female blogs without these guys going out and giving you lot genuine grievances!


534fun 71M/70F  
7 posts
9/26/2014 10:17 am

just know how you are feeling this happen to us once b4 so we like to have phone number b4 we meet because if we say we are going to be there we will


sarahca63 61F  
5 posts
10/8/2014 7:36 pm

Well - I did hear from him about a week later - saying that something had suddenly happened and was unable to make it -


swimdad1 71M

12/26/2014 5:28 am

Even though replying to an older post I am amazed at how some people can be so cruel, when all it would take is a phone call to cancel.


sirleet 75M
36 posts
1/11/2015 6:38 pm

In this day and age there is no excuse for not calling/texting you that he coudn't make it. His excuse a week later was lame. Something happened?
Took a week to tell you. Have you talked to him again? Talk to me; I will treat you much better. Lee


aNotTooBadGuy 57M

4/9/2015 10:23 pm

"something had suddenly happened" ... it would take a direct nuclear hit on my crown jewels to miss out on a date with you ...


LusciousPearl 54T
38 posts
4/29/2015 8:38 am

Sexy!
It happens to everyone.
Doesn't matter how hot n sexy you are *(and you ARE!)
Just try and keep me from meeting you!


photon46 76M
339 posts
11/8/2015 10:06 am

It takes a certain amount of something to not show up then call a week later. After all, what is more fundamental? Nothing.

Chuck


looking4awhite 68M
28 posts
12/27/2015 4:40 am

All I have to say to that person is thanks, now maybe I have a shot and I'll show you how it's done. If you are not into to someone to the point that you are a no show and no call to a setup date then all you need do is just be a real man and say so.


clitliqr 69M
56 posts
4/19/2016 2:57 pm

I have been stood up twice by the same AdultFriendFinder profile holder. In this case I have suspicions that there is no "chickening out" involved. I don't believe that this profile is real at all. Some appear to be complete fictions. I have reported it as phony to AdultFriendFinder.

This must be really unusual. Why would someone pay for a gold membership only to pretend to be someone they are not? Well, it takes all kinds.

I do think one should be in good communications with the person(s) you are meeting. Things can go wrong. So the question is this: did you have each other's phone numbers? If you just use AdultFriendFinder messaging, it is a lot more cumbersome. Kik messenging works well, too.


free3004 66M
203 posts
11/30/2016 7:55 pm

What a pity!...he could at least call you!....poor man politeless!


elli_vegas 74M
3 posts
1/14/2017 9:55 am

A rule I follow:
Always have the cell number of the person you are meeting.
Confirm meeting/date the day before by TEXT message.
Confirm meeting/date about one (1) hour prior to meeting/date.

If no reply, forget about it. Those people are just not worth it.

elli_Vegas


Down4anthing4u69 59M

5/2/2017 4:52 pm

It was his lose Sarah! It was probably a good thing he didn't show because he didn't respect your time, you as a person and he broke that trust you had built up. It seems that it happens often on this site and it's unfortunate. I've had it happen several times and while it was a blow to my ego, I always recovered. Next time, we can go out and I won't stand you up! Take care babe!


altlooking 69M
322 posts
10/13/2017 8:27 am

I chatted for perhaps over an hour with a woman and we exchanged a bunch of photos. Her and husband's profile had many pics on it. Sh finally said they had put in a new hot tub and for me to come over and enjoy it with her. I got her address and phone number, and said I'd call her when I was around 10 minutes away.

The drive to her place was around 45 minutes with traffic. So about 10 mins out I called the number. A woman came on the line who I didn't recognize. I quickly figured out it was all a scam. I did even circle past the address she gave me and didn't notice any hot tub.

I drove home and got back on AdultFriendFinder. She was gone. Send an email asking what happened and got no response. I sawher here on IM a few times in the next week, and of course she didn't chat. Tried the phone number twice again and got the same older woman who didn't know anyone by the gal's name.
About a year later I was telling that story to a local friend here and he asked who she was. When I gave her handle here, he said "Oh, I've heard of her, she and her hubby have thrown a few parties. She likes to screw guys around".

So live and learn. I make it a point to get an address in advance and ask a few questions about the property that I can check on google maps. I'll also get a phone number which I call right as I leave to confirm. If they don't answer, or if someone else does, the car gets parked. Never had a problem with this procedure. There are waaay too many flakes and fakes here now, and you gotta keep from time wasters.


Apollorising2057 63M

12/31/2017 4:55 pm

Happy New Year!

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hungdaddybod 53M  
13 posts
7/13/2019 11:10 am

should choose me id never stand you up, unless it was to help you up after i had exhusted you


Happytooluvonyou 54M

8/2/2019 11:13 pm

That sucks, I had the same thing happen, but I had phone conformation, drove 4 hours for nothin, I did stay at a very Nice Hotel though. in a Pirate themed room


Micronesia72 51M
19 posts
9/22/2019 10:13 am

Being off and on here for 15 yrs, have made some great friends and occasional playmates. Had my share of fakes and flakes. Men go thru that as well. If you changed your mind about meeting, you could call and say that, or "cold feet"! Most ppl going to understand.


Califgoldenrod16 69M  
43 posts
3/8/2020 4:47 am

I know that this is after the fact, but had we gotten off to a better start I guarantee things would have been different!! It's never too late....EVER!

KVB


soljaboy209 69M
11 posts
12/10/2020 8:55 am

This happened to us in August. He texted about the time he should have arrived. It was his second time doing this so he's now blocked; too bad for him.


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