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shadowtoo69 65M  
953 posts
6/21/2017 7:53 pm

I would prefer to be told no thanks or I am not interested. But some people just do not understand I guess. Luck to you in your search and try blocking them on the second message.


fun4us667 35M/35F  
20 posts
6/21/2017 8:14 pm

Tell me how it is too! Saves times
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fun4us667 35M/35F  
20 posts
6/21/2017 8:14 pm

You go girl!


hd20075 54M
100 posts
6/21/2017 8:26 pm

HI i can tell ur a class act after reading you profile, and that you deserve so much better! its guys like that, that make it hard on the good guys that have respect and treat you like you should be!! good luck in your journeys!!


Heathen_G 61M
7863 posts
6/21/2017 8:48 pm

What the hell!!? ..... People have gotten way too sensitive.

There was nothing negative about your reply, "...I'm looking for someone younger".

He's 50.... yeah he got caught in some major sociological pussification.


Red_Elf 47F  
618 posts
6/21/2017 9:08 pm

I finally just set up an auto responder to deal with all this crap, because I tired of it. Sometimes manbabies even get pissy with my auto responder.

AdultFriendFinder could, quite honestly, improve the environment around here by setting up an online culture that discourages this behavior. That could include a variety of disincentives:

1) Members can only send one message to another member until there has been at least one response.

2) There could be an auto responder reminding members that no one is required to respond to their indications of interest, encouraging members to contact other members of interest if they don't get a response within a 48 hour period.

3) There could be better programming that encourages members to use autoreplies for people they aren't interested in that also puts a block on further responses on the other side when they do.

These three small changes could probably clean up a lot of the garbage we wind up dealing with, because heaven knows, AdultFriendFinder can't train these men how to actually treat women.

MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

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Red_Elf 47F  
618 posts
6/21/2017 9:10 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    What the hell!!? ..... People have gotten way too sensitive.

    There was nothing negative about your reply, "...I'm looking for someone younger".

    He's 50.... yeah he got caught in some major sociological pussification.
For once I actually agree with you.

That being said, manbabies throwing mantrums when being denied the attentions of females, regardless of how or why, are a constant force in my life, and the lives of most of the women I know.

Male entitlement, especially male entitlement, knows no bounds.

MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}


horstmeat 50M
43 posts
6/22/2017 12:37 am

Any time you initiate contact, you are setting yourself up for rejection for a million reasons that you have little control over. If someone is that thin-skinned, then they should probably not be initiating conversation.


FMAOPLS 67F  
27025 posts
6/22/2017 1:05 am

You might want to read the Terms of Reference. Unless you have received permission, you could be in trouble for including this person's handle and calling them out publicly.

I do agree with the point you're making though.

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just4fun9188 42M
102 posts
6/22/2017 1:58 am

Damn atleast you took the time to respond. Some people


s2ndegree 61M  
9736 posts
7/1/2017 12:30 am

    Quoting Red_Elf:
    I finally just set up an auto responder to deal with all this crap, because I tired of it. Sometimes manbabies even get pissy with my auto responder.

    AdultFriendFinder could, quite honestly, improve the environment around here by setting up an online culture that discourages this behavior. That could include a variety of disincentives:

    1) Members can only send one message to another member until there has been at least one response.

    2) There could be an auto responder reminding members that no one is required to respond to their indications of interest, encouraging members to contact other members of interest if they don't get a response within a 48 hour period.

    3) There could be better programming that encourages members to use autoreplies for people they aren't interested in that also puts a block on further responses on the other side when they do.

    These three small changes could probably clean up a lot of the garbage we wind up dealing with, because heaven knows, AdultFriendFinder can't train these men how to actually treat women.
You all should push to ban any fifty year olds from
joining the site.Having dead people around is just creepy!
Or you could always not open what someone you just dumped
wrote back with.Uninterested is uninterested, isn't it?

Using more than all the road!


Red_Elf 47F  
618 posts
7/1/2017 1:41 am

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    You all should push to ban any fifty year olds from
    joining the site.Having dead people around is just creepy!
    Or you could always not open what someone you just dumped
    wrote back with.Uninterested is uninterested, isn't it?
What is hilarious is your reply came back on top of a whole series of interactions with a dude bitching about how women don't respond to him if they aren't interested.

Damned if we do, damned if we don't.

It's not about "age." It's about respecting someone's right to say no for whatever reason makes sense to them. Men, by the vast majority, don't. It doesn't matter how we reply--too far, impractical because neither can host, not my type. It doesn't matter. Men don't respect what we do regardless of what we do.

MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}


SultryandSweet4U 41F  
12 posts
11/26/2017 9:51 pm

Most men take rejection for lack of a better word badly.
So we're automatically supposed to like someone ? I think not.
No matter whether it's regarding age, physical attraction not being there, different interests etc....
Your response was tame in comparison to some of the responses we have received here.

We always take the time to say we're not interested and we do so politely.
To be attacked in return for being honest just doesn't make any sense ?!
It's childish and immature to say the least.

Cheers


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