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LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
10/15/2018 9:02 am

As a man, I can tell you to much talking about a past spouse, of BFs, lovers etc, turns me off, unless I ask a pointed question in that regard.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
10/15/2018 9:46 am

I can't think of any stories off the top of my head. I'll look forward to reading what other people say because I could have used a good strategy for this, earlier this year. I was dating a guy and I just wasn't feeling it for him (sexual attraction-wise). But he just kept being patient with me! I finally had to be the one to tell him it wasn't going to happen...


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
10/15/2018 1:04 pm

So.... no. I'm thinking that I've been rejected but only when I didn't want to be. I don't think I've actively made myself appear rejectable to someone I was getting to know and then decided I didn't like. I just quit making the effort to communicate/spend time with and they just drifted away.

I'm guessing you're not talking about the whole safety at a club or bar thing where you intentionally fart a lot or talk about your heavy flow to keep some psycho dude from being interested.


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
10/15/2018 2:49 pm

Long, long ago, in a galaxy far, far away, in a time before internet dating...hell before cell phones or any of that...I met a guy that I thought I was interested in. We talked and there seemed to be mutual interest. He asked me out. Yay!! I was excited! He came over to pick me up. His car was not very nice....and smelled bad. Umm...OK. We went to a fairly nice place to eat. He talked. A lot. And it was mostly about him. The evening ended with him taking me home. He said he'd call. He did! And he talked...about himself and his car. Endlessly. How great his car was (piece of crap) and how magnificent he was (or not). Finally, in one of our phone conversations I had pretty much had enough. He said something that really ticked me off. I responded with "You know, opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one." For some reason that made him mad. He quit calling. Mission accomplished!

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


helen_damnation 61F  
2487 posts
10/15/2018 3:27 pm

Not really a problem I have had much. Usually a sassy response scares off anyone who might be interested...And I am good at the sassy response. Written at least.

I am the only Me you get.


TrucknLuvn 59M/41F  
1622 posts
10/20/2018 1:09 am

Let's see... Where do I begin?

Back in the day... Well, my more promiscuous days... I used to be a bit of a bar fly. Well... Actually, I was one of the "woo girls" you'll see at the club on a Friday night. More often or not, I would get hit on by a dood that I found to be undesirable in one way or another. I was the type that wouldn't turn down a free drink (or six) and at the end of the night, I would get the inevitable proposition.

After a while, I had my "out" down to a science.

I would tell them one fact about myself: I am allergic to latex.

Most doods only keep latex condoms on hand, so of course they ask if I came prepared.

My response: No, I do not have any polyurethane condoms with me, but that's totally okay! I'm not on any birth control and I've been wanting to have another baby anyway!

Worked like a charm, every single time!

♡Jess: The Trucker Babe

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Want more? Be sure to check out my blog: TrucknLuvn!


TrucknLuvn 59M/41F  
1622 posts
10/20/2018 11:33 am

This is Joey writing again, La La. I hate selling out all the guys just trying to get a little squirrel but if I was a chick and wanted to get rid of some loser, I would get a male family member or coworker to call his number and ask who the fuck is he and why in hell is your number on my wife's phone?

As I proofread this it occurred to be that if I was a woman I wouldn't throw away any Damn cock. I'm sure that same loser would grease my palm with a few Benjamin's for a little sniff of my goodies. I'd be a rich ass bitch.

♡Jess: The Trucker Babe

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Want more? Be sure to check out my blog: TrucknLuvn!


traveljunkie13 56F
11089 posts
10/22/2018 5:14 pm

Usually all I have to do is be myself.

And then there’s the guy who I was absolutely brutal to and basically told him to go fuck off and he still kept coming back.

We been together now 7 months


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