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Great questions hun and I hope you get the guys to answer honestly. And I hope you enjoy your weekend.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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I'm sure there are some guys, or even in some societies/religions where mum will decide who the son is allowed to date either because "that's just the way it is", or the guy is unable to decide for himself.
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Women have the final say so. But looking and reaching out and contacting can be done by either of us. She knows exactly what I like and I know what she is acceptable of. But as with any play time, we both have to agree or its a no go. So far all experiences have been good to great with women. Same goes for when looking a couple or a single guy. Except 2 guys turned out to complete Richards when we met up and are forever blocked now!
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My experience is it’s always been shared responsibility. Woman has a say but so do I. If we both don’t feel it it doesn’t happen. Guess I finally grew up. MDonson Kiik Myonguy
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I'm pretty sure I've not had a woman calling the shots for me regarding a date. I do recall some of my mates (guys) getting me hooked up with girls during my teens though! 
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My understanding of the phrase "Women Call the Shots" is mostly based on legalities. For instance if a woman says not to sex, or a date then it is no because a guy cannot legally; force her to have sex, or force her to go on a date. There are laws restricting those kind of things. Or to put it another way - no means no. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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When I hear from one of the women that I contact I'll let you know. Please don't let me be misunderstood.
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5/8/2021 10:46 pm |
Smart men know to let their woman call the shots. It is a partnership and everyone needs to participate in the decisions, however deep down in, she needs to know that her wants, needs and desires are fulfilled. Some men are shallow and do not see nor understand this. I have found that if she is happy then my happiness will follow.
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No OF COURSE women don't call ALL the shots, principally not the one about initiating a date (in most cases). BUT I'm going to say that in the vast majority of the cases when a dating situation did not lead to sex, it WAS the woman's decision - NOT MINE. ( So women call all the shots on what really matters!  ) I honestly cannot recall a situation where is was the lady that initiated the date, so I can't help answer that aspect of your questions. Happy Mothers' Day lady. A Special Offer on This Extra Special Mothers Day It Was Kind of Funny Actually PinkPastels, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Post - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets – Anything you write here is just between us
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I think I may move to Atlanta  
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well damn, I don't want to call ALL the shots. That's too much work, lol But I I think I know what you mean, the interest is there when the man iniitiates, so if it's not returned, then it's the the woman calling "ALL the shots", at least in his mind, even if the first shot was fired by the man Regardless of who intiiates, it should be shots lobbed back and forth. When the ball goes out of bounds, game over.
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BiggLala replies on 5/9/2021 12:37 pm: "Legalities" says you, sour grapes says I. I think these men are just pissy knowing the women THEY want don't want THEM...so they blame the women So, you're really talking more about preferences and how people react to rejection. But you also proved my point. The women did call the shots and rejected the guy(s). When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I hope women have some power. Now if they will just use it for good.
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In the early stages of any relationship, being an old fashioned old git, for me it would be the lady who would set the agenda and the pace. As things develop then it would be a mutual thing. I've come across many cultures on my travels where men often think they call the shots but the reality is that it is the women who do. Especially in those cultures where I, with my western based conditioning, might have preconceived notions about women being down-trodden....... Also, snogs, McBiggles, many of 'em!!
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Well that is exactly why she sets the agenda and the pace, isn't it? Wouldn't be the first time, in fact my big boy breeks have had a few such outings in the past......though no' under the kilt mind!!!
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Indeed McBiggles. On initial contact where exchanges are being made, then the pace and agenda would be the girl's to set. But if there turns out to be no interest on one side or the other, then there are no shots to be called, one way or the other. Just reading the comments, agenda and pace mean (to me) different things than deciding where to go for the date etc blah. Those sorts of decisions would depend on a multitude of things, and might be by mutual agreement, or I might like to try to surprise my girl, or whatever....... Also, any merr ay yer lip and ye're gettin skelped!
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Hey Lala, .........Ummmm, I’m completely lost,......but I just dropped by to say High!........ Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
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Missie Lala. I have been around a long time, I can't remember any time that it was any where close to "she calls all of the shots". I think that mutual respect should say that there should always be give and take.. I have found it a pleasure to be with a woman that has this mutual respect. As "Lindoboy" says the pace can be tilted qaa bit , toward here feelings but not to a ridged point.. I think any time one or the other calls all the shots, it is time to move on...I just was not raised to be in that kind of relationship.. Bonus Q....Never.I think I can spot one that would be that way and just not go there!!! And I have points for you any time you need them!!!! Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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sometimes i wonder if i am being overly picky... the profiles with no photo and no PM photo... SKIP! the profiles of couples with a man contacting me... and again no photos... SKIP! copy /paste... SKIP! someone did contact me who seemed to have read my profile and i replied. so my profile is about being a big foodie and wanting a companion i can do lunch and convo with... the guy mentioned what restaurant he was at. it was not in the tourist district. i'm in savannah GA. and it was good spot. i go there on the regular. so i replied. he gave me some more details about him as i can't read profiles. i'm 5'. it's on my profile. he says he is 6'5"!!! i know i cannot coordinate with someone over 6'4". i was honest with him on why i was not pursuing this and he didn't indicate wanting to do a platonic meet and greet. so we wished each other well in a civilized end of convo.
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6/29/2021 3:54 pm |
To all females: When was the last time that YOU asked a man out on a date, YOU paid for everything, YOU tried to initiate sex with him, and YOU were rejected? Now reverse that. How many times the opposite? I think this makes the point, presuming the reader is female and honest. Perhaps an oxymoron. Many women complain about being sex objects, blind to the fact that men are success objects in our culture. http://www.revolucionantifeminista.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/how-can-women-make-the-rules.pdf https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mCNWC3qohfY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qrUCtkpCQjQ Wake up. Who is John Galt?
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