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when the boyfriend gets kicked out and has sex with someone  

mistress1169 52F
50 posts
4/28/2018 10:32 pm
when the boyfriend gets kicked out and has sex with someone

ok. I have a question. when a boyfriend gets kicked out ,told you don't want nothing to do with him. He ends up sleeping with one of his single girlfriends he ends up hanging out with. when he goes back to you but neglects to say anything to the single girl he has been hanging out with .when he come back over to have sex again. how is it her fault for sleeping with your boyfriend?
I feel like if you really cared about him fucking someone else you wouldn't kick him out all the time. and the last person at fault is the single person who is not the one committed to someone.
whats your opinions?

mistress1169 52F
40 posts
4/28/2018 11:26 pm

 Wow really though i would get more feed back


dig76301 65M  
126 posts
4/29/2018 12:57 am

 What? Everything after he gets kicked out is irrelevant . Thought that meant it's over, so who ever he's with is no longer the girlfriend's concern. If she takes him back knowing or not, that he has been fucking around, that's on her. Move on or accept what the situation has become. And your role in it. Don't make it about who's right or wrong the damage has been done. Real simple, move on. Save yourself the headache's .


dere969 42M
8 posts
4/29/2018 1:07 am

 it's the guys fault in this situation. if you kicked him out there must of been a reason so I wouldn't let him back in.


cplforfun6974 54M
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4/29/2018 2:44 am

 hmmm i have to ask my wife


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
4/29/2018 4:08 am
when a boyfriend gets kicked out ,told you don't want nothing to do with him. .... The bf/gf relationship is over.

He ends up sleeping with one of his single girlfriends .... She's not his girlfriend. He just just knows this other woman will putout , so he dates [has sex with] her.

when he goes back to you ....Why would he go back to you?

but neglects to say anything to the single girl he has been hanging out with .... He doesn't need to say anything to the other girl. They were only dating [having sex]. Since dating is not exclusive, and he was just banging her, not committed to her, in anyway, she doesn't need to know who else he is dating [having sex with].

how is it her fault for sleeping with your boyfriend?.... She didn't bang your boyfriend. The "Boyfriend" status ended when you kicked him out. There is no fault here.

I feel like if I really cared about him fucking someone else I wouldn't kick him out all the time. ..... Well apparently you don't care, or you think he won't fuck someone else. Also, he isn't your boyfriend. That ended the first time you kicked him out. After that , any taking him back, is only agreeing to date him [have sex with him].... or days when you don't feel like having sex? You hangout together....but he isn't your bf. Not any more. That's done.

and the last person at fault is the single person who is not the one committed to someone. ..... Not her fault. If you're looking for "Fault".... look in the mirror. You ended it when you kicked him out the first time.


mistress1169 replies on 4/29/2018 11:42 pm:
I am not the one who kicked him out or took him back. Im the single friend that is a girl he banged. no he didn't have to tell me he was back with his GF. But when he stops by to bang me some more . Telling me he was back with his gf would have been respectful. but your right its not me who should take the blame i didn't know he went back and as far as i knew she kicked him out. Were he had been after the few days we spent together was not my concern but knowing he had been back with his gf again for the time he was not around may have been different when he came back for more sex. who really knows but I don't feel like i did wrong by sleeping with him.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
4/29/2018 4:18 am
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He shouldn't need to fuck around so fast. .... LOL.... He can if he wants to, especially if he 'can' fuck around. He likely already had an established harem, - women he has dated before, women he knows will putout.

and chose a loser/player. .... He's getting tail... so he is not a loser in that regard.... and nothing wrong with being a player. Especially if he's good at it.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
4/29/2018 4:24 am

 mistress1169 replies on 4/28/2018 10:46 pm:
but am i the one to blame?

Yes you are the one to blame. You kicked him out. He no longer is your bf.

Now , "Why" you kicked him out , is not important. The point is, you made the choice to terminate the bf/gf relationship , by kicking him out.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
4/29/2018 1:21 pm

 whats your opinions? .... If Lala is right, then you sure don't communicate well.

Bottom line here is still, "The fault belongs to the woman who kicked him out". He can go fuck anyone who will do it with him.

mistress1169 replies on 4/28/2018 10:46 pm:
but am i the one to blame?

That depends. Who are you?

The single woman who refused to have sex with him? .... Not your fault.

or the single woman who did have sex with him?... Not your fualt

or the woman who kicked out her boyfriend [him]? ... Bingo, your fault.

If you are the woman who kicked him out [for whatever reason], it's your fault he is out fucking around.

So retell the story, and this time be clear about what's going on.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

4/30/2018 12:04 am

 My impression is that the only person who is completely aware of where the varied relationships are is the guy,

He got himself asked to leave and came to you.

He went back again her and hid that he had also been with you from her

He came back to see you again

Accept that it is him and that you are both letting him get away with things that if you were the 3rd person you would say, Oh No you can't be that way.

If he had been an open and honest adult with both you and this other woman likely he would have gotten less sex but everyone well except for maybe him would be less upset.
Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
4/30/2018 1:26 am

 mistress1169 replies on 4/29/2018 11:42 pm:
I am not the one who kicked him out or took him back. Im the single friend that is a girl he banged. no he didn't have to tell me he was back with his GF. But when he stops by to bang me some more . Telling me he was back with his gf would have been respectful. but your right its not me who should take the blame i didn't know he went back and as far as i knew she kicked him out. Were he had been after the few days we spent together was not my concern but knowing he had been back with his gf again for the time he was not around may have been different when he came back for more sex. who really knows but I don't feel like i did wrong by sleeping with him.

Telling me he was back with his gf would have been respectful. ... "Respect" has nothing to do with this. If he told you, you might have refused him. He didn't want to take that risk, so he didn't tell you. Anyway, I doubt he is still her bf. Once a woman kicks a guy out, that situation is on very crumbly ground now.

but I don't feel like i did wrong by sleeping with him. .... You're right, you did nothing wrong. You were just dating.


mistress1169 replies on 4/30/2018 7:10 pm:
Thank you!!

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