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kauldronT0017 43M
178 posts
1/27/2016 6:50 am

I'm sorry that the guy was so disrespectful. It does sound a lot like his ego was a bit bruised. It's a shame really. Finding an equilibrium between each and every relationship is not always easy. It's really great that you were able to connect with someone that genuinely puts a smile on your face. I think everyone needs a little of that in their lives.


LincolnImpinger 70M

1/27/2016 6:53 am

WTF?

What a totally disrespectful move on his part. I'm of the same vintage, and there are plenty of people who don't have a problem with those of us in our 60's and geez, why bother somebody like you who's stated her preferences?

You were way too nice.


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
1/27/2016 7:15 am

do believe that everyone should be treated with respect, and should also have good manners


KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
1/27/2016 8:25 am

I forgot to tell you that I write this to people who are out of my preferred age ranges - "I have a preference for certain ages. Just like some people can be into legs, or into blondes, I'm "into and get turned on by" people in this age range. It's nothing against you, you just don't fit that particular preference". Believe it or not, people who can be dicks about other things seem to understand this statement much better.
Of course, your mileage may vary...
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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
1/27/2016 8:54 am

Joy good for you! Some guys just don't get it on here. I would have blocked him too.. Good you are communicating with some female bloggers on here too. That is wonderful. Your age cut off is just right! You dealt with this idiot same way I would have hugssssssss V PS Have a great day!

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lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
1/27/2016 9:46 am

I'm not the least bit offended!


08540Tantrafun 60M  
1072 posts
1/27/2016 11:04 am

Usually it is a narcissist who call others narcissist. What they are looking for is an inverted narcissist who would provide with them the drama they crave. They like to get a rise of other people. Attention positive or negative, it doesn't matter to them. Best thing to do is to be indifferent.

Our brain architecture makes it biologically possible to express deep feelings of attachment for one partner, while one feels intense romantic love for another individual, while one feels the sex drive for even more extra-dyadic partners. When biology and psychology are same, it is magic. This happens between people who's brains are wired similarly and share the same core values. If your new good friend is like that. You will notice that you two uses same words, like similar brands even taste in food. With such people you can talk for hours or not speak a single word and still communicate.This is why raising ones consciousness is important. You don't attract what you want, but what you are. Become the right person to attract the right person. So happy for you. Such friendships are priceless.

"Rules for happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”― Immanuel Kant .


cwazywabbit009 59M
6313 posts
1/27/2016 12:32 pm

Name calling reveals their true character. Happy you found a FF

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citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
1/27/2016 12:44 pm

Keep your friends close. As for that dickhead; he's morose


kauldronT0017 43M
178 posts
1/27/2016 1:51 pm

never compromise your standards, lol. My birthday is in march btw. That way the passing thought you had still fits within your position. Stick to your gun and continue to be awesome.


pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
1/27/2016 2:36 pm

Yah, the judgemental fools are always roaming around here. I've dealt with my share that don't like me for what I put on my blog. I set them straight or just ignore them. You're a terrific lady!

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
1/27/2016 2:39 pm

You are going too need a man for that fantasy. So...

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
1/27/2016 2:54 pm

Phew! The first guy wasn't me! I'm no gentleman!

But that business of finding a friend here who you just love right out of the starting gate- I can identify with that. It's a great feeling!

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vabeachhotwife 62M/62F
394 posts
1/27/2016 3:35 pm

Sometimes, it's quite enjoyable to meet someone else who also has an open and healthy attitude about erotic encounters. Even if the conversation doesn't end up in the bedroom .............. which is always a better outcome.......... the company is still appreciated. It's as much about the intellectual contact as the physical...........


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
1/27/2016 4:16 pm

Come over here and let me kiss you....you sexy woman.. you!!!


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
1/27/2016 4:30 pm

You have given me courage to write my first blog and it will be about rudeness and disrespect. Sorry you had such a hassle-sometime I might blog about being stalked by someone from here. Keep your attitude in place love it

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08540Tantrafun 60M  
1072 posts
1/27/2016 4:36 pm

"I do not need to become the right person.I already am the right person. "Well Author, I am not there yet.I have fixed myself physically, emotionally and spiritually. Now I am going for the gold. I need to get there financially as well. 62 people own as much wealth as 3.5 billion of the poor people. But there are 10.2 million American families(9% of all families) that have a million dollars in wealth not including their house. i am not one of those families. So I am busy in that pursuit as an entrepreneur. So my free time is limited for romance and relationships. My youngest starts college in Sept. Once he is in his dorm and my company is well established starts building wealth, I will be free to pursue my hobbies.

"Rules for happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”― Immanuel Kant .


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
1/27/2016 7:50 pm

Glad you made a connection with another blogger sweetie. I have made some longtime friends, and online friends here too.

Thoughts from the Garden...


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
1/27/2016 10:38 pm

Hi Joy.

Out of your entire post, I focused on this statement...

"PS..Since we are both bi curious and my bucket list is to try a FFM, you are the one woman I would think about trying it with as I feel comfortable with you and truly like you."

It is clear that she must be melonlicious... If you mix that with perky, then I complete the triad...

just sayin'...

so you're sayin' there's a chance...

forever the optimist...

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JUSTWANTTOPLEAE4 72M
1720 posts
1/28/2016 10:13 pm

ANYONE THAT THINKS THAT A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE SEX WITH THEN JUST BECAUSE THEY WANT IT ARE MORE THAN DICKHEADS!! (GOTTA DROP THAT SUBJECT BEFORE I GET CARRIED AWAY!) AS A MAN THAT KNOWS THAT WE WILL NEVER GET TOGETHER FOR ANYTHING EXCEPT POSSIBLY TO CHAT OVER A DRINK I REALLY ENJOY READING YOUR BLOG AND KEEPING MY DREAMS JUST THAT---DREAMS! THANKS FOR SHARING YOUR JOY!!


Jay10063 60M
196 posts
6/29/2019 5:51 am

There are assholes everywhere, you just can't let them get in the way of crossing the path of some gems. That means sometimes we get exposed to shit (assholes are known to spew a lot of this), but hopefully the gems will make it worthwhile.


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