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  To thine own self be true- Spokeshave , erm I mean Shakespeare.Wanton_Wench If you apprehiate this blog,please give a   or a
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I'm always myself... I don't know how to be anybody else Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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It should only make sense. How can you possibly enjoy the time together if you're having to constantly keep up a facade that you invented to hide behind? And if your lover has accepted that, it feels so much better... knowing that it's really you that he / she is wanting to be with. That being said, there's nothing wrong with the occasional break from reality. Fantasies can be an intense experience. For some, a little role-play adds to the excitement (as long as you aren't trying to do that all the time). Of course, for an intelligent person such as yourself it's easy to do so without forgetting who you really are. It's not just the beauty of your face. Or the sensuality of your body. It's the intelligence of your mind. The strength of your character. The wisdom of your soul. And the empathy of your heart. From a man's perspective, those are the things that make a woman truly special.
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"It is what I look for in a man as well.." Good point. I sometimes forget that it goes both ways. I tend to be more focused upon the woman, and let myself flow naturally.
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i would think it would be a lot of stress and work to try to be something you are not. but there are so many that do just that. how do you keep all the little lies straight? how do you present yourself if you actually meet? it will all come out in the end to no good for you. i do not understand people with the age thing. they think they have to act a certain way at a certain age. like they can't do something at a certain age. they should be doing this at a certain age. not me.... i am 56. i am the property manager at a youth adventure camp. during the summer there are 10 to 12 college kids for staff. they are amazed when they find out my age. they cannot imagine how i keep up with them and have more energy than they do many times. i am told by my "old" wife that i cannot do this. i cannot keep up with them. i cannot do this i cannot do that. but even the staff tell her that they cannot keep up with me most of the time. i do not understand all these societal limits on what someone can do at a certain age. i might actually get old some day but i really do not think so. maybe when i am 100 or so. age is just a number. attitude is what keeps you young.
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I am myself here.....I'm to old to try and be something I'm not! ......I like Betty White's advice! 
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, NEVER EVER trust anyone that you have met from the net until you have: Looked deep into their eyes, Watched their lips move, and carefully listened to the sound of their voice, and have studied their body language. Meeting 'strangers' from the net is always difficult, try arranging to meet them at one of the many 'Munches' or 'Meet n Greets', that way you can always see how they react in normal social situations, and for both of you, if you don't hit it off straight away, there are plenty of other people around to talk too. x
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Optimistic people make the best lovers. Intelligence is sexy. Humor is sexy. Seduce my mind and my body will follow. The observant make the best lovers. Confidence is sexy. All things women are telling guys. So guys are going to be what women want, more often than not many women continue to fall for it over and over. Just be yourself, Why the fuck do women keep saying they want something else then?
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Yes, be yourself right from the start. You should say that in bed, you fart.  
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If I had to reveal my sexual history on a first date, it would be a very long date!
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There is a huge contradiction in your post. The cliche "JUST BE YOURSELF." is terrible advice to most people. You grew up as a daddy's girl with loving and lovable people. You are also very resilient. For you being yourself is a great thing. But what about those who were physically or emotionally abused as kids, or not nurtured. They survived by creating fantasies, a persona that helped them cope with their traumatic existence. Now as adults out of habit they hold on to their persona, even though they are no longer needed and are holding them back from a happy life. Those people should reinvent themselves as a new being and become who or what ever they want to be. So much of our actions and behavior are unconscious. We can increase resilience or decrease it. To make any change, the first thing we need to do is to admit that we have a problem, don't like where we are at at this stage in life and truly move toward our ideal goal. "I love (being) me with or without you." From this statement it is clear that you have an internal locus of control. That you are confident and resilient, not needy. Most of the people are not as lucky, confident or resilient as you. The last thing they should be doing is to be themselves (which is a persona, which even they don't like) and become a real person first. They need to do an exorcism of their mind. Consciously eliminate the errand viral programs that run in the subconscious. Get rid of fear and negativity first. Learn to love themselves and accept themselves unconditionally and stop being needy. Once they make this critical change from "external" locus of control to" internal", only then will they know who they are and can be themselves. . "Rules for happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”― Immanuel Kant .
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Bravo.. I have been saying this very thing for years, people really do meet here and you should always be yourself and be true to yourself. Like I tell everyone here, I am not all that or think I am all that or 10 bags of chips like so many do here. And I have to say MEN especially appreciate that..So thanks so much again for telling it like it is!!! Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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yea...I am who I am....I don't like games and especially don't like people who play then! This site has too many fakers and gamer players! I go with the flow and I am who I am! I like others who are honest and forthright! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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I've heard that line but still like it
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Hi Joy... You always bring salient points that I consider before meeting someone... While only meeting one woman from this site, it has been by choice... As others for some reason or another have not been that same one thru communication or lack thereof. I've been me, and they've been themselves. We just didn't connect... Sometimes, I have said 'no thanks' to open invitations, usually because the distance has been the problem. Other times, I believe that people's talk is bigger than their appetite... So, there must be a happy medium somewhere.. My luck has been with non-cyberspace people, and you know me, I'd rather be lucky than smart. So, I haven't put much hope in finding my same one here, but I don't rule it out... Nice post!!! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!! 
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Too HARD trying to be someone else ..... trying to remember who you are supposed to be, so why bother. It's taken me a long time to get here, being me [50ish years to be exact] so being me is what people get, smart ass and all Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it
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I'm just me. What's a 53 yr old supposed to look like? I better find out soon....lol. You look great young lady. I always meet with no expectations and no pressure. It does make it easier and more relaxed. Had to play Alan Parsons "Games people play"
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