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I think you will do what I would do- return the items no matter how lovely they are. It will only hurt for a short time and your decision will be respected becuase it is who you are (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Wow... tough one! I understand your need to return them and get all your reasons (valid, by the way) but he may not. Good luck!!!!!  You can visit my blog here FreddiesFling!
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it depends....does it come with strings? do you want a relationship with him again? If you don't want any relationship with him or it has strings, then return it asap with polite note explaining why! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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As sweet as this gesture is, it's also misguided. He either didn't believe you when you said he's not for you or he things he can browbeat/coerce/bully/bribe you. Neither of those are endearing traits and for me they confirm your judgement of him. Guys simply can't impose their wants and desires on women. I know how feisty and determined you are so he's misjudging you in thinking that sending you a gift will win your heart. Have pity on him and let him down gently but be firm that you made your mind up and if he respects you then he'll accept your word. Of course the right thing to do is to return the gifts. He may still be able to get a refund from where he bought them. Read my blog here guy4frot
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You have to do what is right for you my friend, if it was for your birthday or Christmas I would probably say thank you and keep them. But if you think there is more to it than that I would return the gifts and thank him and tell him why you can't accept them. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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Return to sender for sure. No room for question. If they were gifts unaccompanied by that note, keeping them would be your choice, but with a note like that, they gotta go back. Good luck ~~~~~~~~~ The lover you'll never not wish you didn't have - or did... I forget.... what was your name again.... look...a squirrel
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Hmmm . I don't know. .. It's a very nice bracelet/anklet  I'm a big fan of blue Sapphire and aqua marine and have bought more than one over the years for women and never expected them back no matter what happened in the end. I bought it for them, wanted them to have it. He clearly can't have any illusions about the nature of your relationship and will feel bad when you return them. But you're a big girl. ..er, grown up woman, Joy, your call for sure. I also like blue topaz as well  Standards are people too.....kinda 
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I would wish Happy Birthday ever day Sexy!! Love your recent profile pic!! Sweeet..Sexy Legs!!
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You're not obliged to return the gift and keeping the gift won't mean you're obliged, but returning the gift will reinforce the message you've been trying to tell him. 
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Do what is right for you [as I know you will]. In your shoes [well my feet would probably hurt] I would return them and say thank you but I cannot accept them. Best of luck. Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it
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I think you have made the right choice....if you accept them you are keeping his hopes alive that you might reconsider his offer of moving in....by politely saying no, you are gently letting him know your feelings haven't changed....Good luck with this....B.
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Hi Joy... well... now you are taking me too far... so... really... are you kidding me... ok... so you must not want him... but, you did enjoy him... and, may still n the future... sometimes... I really think that you are writing me subliminal messages... what with the blue ankle bracelet... you know that blue is my fav color... and... women give me gifts all the time... I don't ever recall not accepting them... but... I don't consider them "strings"... just sayin'... even big blue... while scary to me... it still seems like it is sending me a message... reaching out to that far away lover... wanting him to rescue you from the missing touch... that feeling that you've only experienced reading my blogs or my responses... that dream-state you go into... the biting of the lip... the touching... that deep, slow sigh... thinking... why is it like this... well... it could be that... or it could just be that everyone that meets you adores you... Miley Cyrus - "Adore you" Ah, hey, ah oh Baby, baby yeah, are you listenin'? Wondering, where you've been, all my life I just started living Oh, baby are you listenin' oh? When you say you love me Know I love you more When you say you need me Know I need you more Boy I adore you, I adore you Baby, can ya hear me? When I'm crying out, for you, I'm scared oh, so scared, When you're near me I feel like I'm standing with an army Of men armed with weapons, hey oh When you say you love me Know I love you more When you say you need me Know I need you more Boy I adore you, I adore you I love lying next to you I could do this for eternity, You and me, were meant to be in holy matrimony God knew… To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!! 
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Author, Listen to your intuition. Go with you gut. It told you that he is not"The One". You also told him truthfully how you feel. Tell him again that you are where you want to be at this point in your life and have no intention of changing anything. Complement him on his good taste and return the gift. Very important : No apologies. No I can't accept it. Simply say that it is beautiful, but you DON"T WANT it. You also may want to revisit this.Should I Stay Or Should I Go Surviving A Narcissistic Relationship "Rules for happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”― Immanuel Kant .
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Ah, the forecast is dull, with a chance of dishwater.......
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I think you will do what you feel is right. I think you should find out why he sent them and what he had in mind. A gift should be just that a gift. It should not be something to coerce someone into doing something. That is a bribe.
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am sure he is a good guy but grown-ups know when no means no 
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Material things can't created love, love is something that just happens!
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talk to him......... it may be his way of saying he loves you for all you had together an for all you opened up in his life an showed him.. tell him how you feel an see what he says... if it can be a gift saying thank you an that your always special to him in life an expect nothing.. its a great gift.... if its a way to try an buy your interest an expects play time from it, or that he cant let go, its given for wrong reasons...
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They are beautiful but I don't think I would keep them. I would have to return them. If you keep them you are keeping his hopes alive. Is that what you want???hugssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Yeah, Joy. Tough call, but since he knows youre not gonna change your mind.. send em back. You had a wonderful tryst, but now it is over, and time to move on.... kisses
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That was very sweet. As a man who has done this type of "offering" to someone who didn't feel the same way, I think you should keep it. Thoughts from the Garden...
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Re Gift!!!! lol I am a mean guy....
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