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Truly sorry this happened, and yes, it happens all to frequently. Some people just aren't satisfied, or even comprehend that they have a good thing going. Re reading that last sentence, it doesn't make a lot of sense, but then again it does. In any event, best wishes for a Happier New Year!
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Ouch, I thought my butt hurt. Looks like your now ex will be suffering from that butt chewing you gave him for some time to come. Well done Love! Have I ever been cheated on while in an exclusive relationship? Ah yeah, does the sun rise in the east and set in he west? Did it hurt? Way more than I care to admit. Have I ever cheated while in an exclusive relationship? No, because exclusive means just that for me..exclusive. The man is a fool, it's one thing to be in this life style and play the field, and another to ask a woman to be your one and only along with refraining from showing her stunning good looks off and doing the same. Not to mention cheating on you to boot. Quite simply the man is an ass and your better off with out this albatross hanging about. I know your angry, and hurting, been there myself more times than I care to remember. But you my dear lady will get over this, of that I have no doubt. I wish I could take the pain and frustration away for you. But Life isn't easy and it hurts sometimes. Paraphrasing " what hurts us can only make us stronger" You are already a strong woman, stunning, vibrant, smart and one hell of a looker. Any man, myself included would feel himself very lucky to be able to call you his love. So, smile Joy! The hurt will pass not all men are idiots. Hugs!
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I was horrified to read of the betrayal you have suffered. It is impossible to understand a person who promises one thing and then does the exact opposite. I hope once the anger has subsided that you will get on with your life, as that is the most important thing. Keep well and focused on the other good things in your life “For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.” ― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Much like this site Visit my Blog for my adventures.
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Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive Damn your post makes me so angry JOY! How someone can be such a fool to cheat on such a lovely and sexy lady, is beyond me. However I know you are a Strong Woman, far stronger than the loser that cheated on you!! Always here for you Visit my Blog Older but no Wiser and find out more
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So sorry this has happened to you, too. You ladies have no idea what has happened with people from this site. We gain your trust behind a blank screen, but which one are you talking to? So many profile names by the same person, you ladies don't even know until you are finally face to face with them and the other women find your info in there phone and the balls fall. Sometimes it takes years. I hope it wasn't that long for you. My wife found out pretty fast about the last one when the same guy showed up under different profile names, so she is done with this site. Not much sexual play here, but a lot of mind games. Be careful out here!
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[image] Dear Joy, One of the worst things someone we care about can do is to betray our trust. Once this happens it can be so hard to ever trust again . This is his loss..he lied to you, he lied to the other woman..and no idea of how many others he did this to. Healing Hugs & Positive Energy, Ana6
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Hi Joy sweetheart! Yes I did cheat but it was more like I know what your doing it's ok. What your talking about is betrayal. Telling you not to show yourself because he did not want to share you with others. Then to share himself with another lady just sucks Joy! Get him sweetheart. Butch PS video is very nice I could tell you were enjoying yourself!
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Is this recent? How close were you two? Never cheated in my life. If I'm with a particular woman that I have deep feelings for, I don't have the urge nor inclination to be with another woman, even if she doesn't mind me having another lover. Thoughts from the Garden...
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I am so sorry my sweet friend..SHAME ON HIM!!!! and one more thing..TRULY HIS LOSS!!!!!
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If you cheat your relationship is over. Hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Not married exclusive relationships but have been in both with people that a relationship was developing. Teen, twenty and early thirties years; should have had open relationships during that time, but that was not a openly discussed item like it is now, here and other such sites. I am sorry to hear this blog content,,it was one of my worries from one of your prior blogs. Hugs. I have to agree with Butch's statement about exclusivity.
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To answer your question about "did it hurt" Yes in some relationships from back then it did, other's made me angry, such as what is now an x wife, all I can say is guilty feelings don't feel good. This song reminds me of those early years. George Michael Lyrics "Careless Whisper" I feel so unsure As I take your hand And lead you to the dance floor As the music dies Something in your eyes Calls to mind a silver screen And all its sad goodbyes I'm never gonna dance again Guilty feet have got no rhythm Though it's easy to pretend I know you're not a fool I should've known better than to cheat a friend And waste the chance that I've been given So I'm never gonna dance again The way I danced with you Time can never mend The careless whispers of a good friend To the heart and mind Ignorance is kind There's no comfort in the truth Pain is all you'll find I'm never gonna dance again Guilty feet have got no rhythm Though it's easy to pretend I know you're not a fool I should've known better than to cheat a friend And waste the chance that I've been given So I'm never gonna dance again The way I danced with you Tonight the music seems so loud I wish that we could lose this crowd Maybe it's better this way We'd hurt each other with the things we want to say We could have been so good together We could have lived this dance forever But now who's gonna dance with me Please stay I'm never gonna dance again Guilty feet have got no rhythm Though it's easy to pretend I know you're not a fool I should've known better than to cheat a friend And waste the chance that I've been given So I'm never gonna dance again The way I danced with you Now that you're gone Now that you're gone Now that you're gone Was what I did so wrong So wrong that you had to leave me alone?
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1/5/2018 2:10 pm |
Wow, maybe when you said trust he heard thrust and took It to mean it would be ok to have an open relationship! Become a Apollorising2057 blog watcher!
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Total scumbag. May his dick go limp.
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I hear what you are saying about someone controlling us...it is not going to happen.
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To answer your question about "did it hurt" Yes in some relationships from back then it did, other's made me angry, such as what is now an x wife, all I can say is guilty feelings don't feel good. This song reminds me of those early years. George Michael Lyrics "Careless Whisper" I feel so unsure As I take your hand And lead you to the dance floor As the music dies Something in your eyes Calls to mind a silver screen And all its sad goodbyes I'm never gonna dance again Guilty feet have got no rhythm Though it's easy to pretend I know you're not a fool I should've known better than to cheat a friend And waste the chance that I've been given So I'm never gonna dance again The way I danced with you Time can never mend The careless whispers of a good friend To the heart and mind Ignorance is kind There's no comfort in the truth Pain is all you'll find I'm never gonna dance again Guilty feet have got no rhythm Though it's easy to pretend I know you're not a fool I should've known better than to cheat a friend And waste the chance that I've been given So I'm never gonna dance again The way I danced with you Tonight the music seems so loud I wish that we could lose this crowd Maybe it's better this way We'd hurt each other with the things we want to say We could have been so good together We could have lived this dance forever But now who's gonna dance with me Please stay I'm never gonna dance again Guilty feet have got no rhythm Though it's easy to pretend I know you're not a fool I should've known better than to cheat a friend And waste the chance that I've been given So I'm never gonna dance again The way I danced with you Now that you're gone Now that you're gone Now that you're gone Was what I did so wrong So wrong that you had to leave me alone? The ex made me more angry than hurt ,,we were married,,,we got married because a child was on the way...thought we could make it work,,we both liked a lot of the same items. I was glad that we ended that one!! She was expecting another fellow's child before the divorce was final, she was expecting before we separated. No biggy and no anger about that,,in fact I see my son's half sister all the time at family functions,, What is funny, at a family function a couple or years ago the ex accidentally told me she had been sleeping with a buddy of mine while I attended night school. Eh, glad they got laid and had fun,..why fuss about something that happened years ago...I just get a laugh that she slipped and said it. LOL Heck had they asked we could have had some MFM fun.
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1/5/2018 9:10 pm |
You do not deserve to be treated that way Babe..You are the type of Woman that is all a Man needs...I am so sorry You had to get played like that.. You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!
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That is really shocking! So sorry my friend. I have never cheated on a woman, but I have been cheated on and it's gut wrenching. Funny women are incredibly sexy!
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I am so sorry. Just believe this too will pass. I know it hurts but life is just too short to waste on arseholes
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Its difficult when you trust in someone and they betray you and the relationship you have. You are a vibrant, beautiful woman with better things in the future in-store for . With the me year will come a new beginning. You will be having a HAPPY NEW YEAR
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1/6/2018 9:18 am |
So very sad to know that another Man did this to you. Especially the way you found out and the details. I never cheated when I was in an exclusive relationship or married. I was cheated on at the end of my marriage but we were already in the process of a divorce and sleeping in separate rooms.
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Hi Joy. ... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Sorry to hear this news, but I know without a doubt the way you feel. I too was betrayed by someone I cared for very much. Why some men are not happy with the good women they had is beyond me, but it is their loss. I too will eventually try to trust and love again, as you surely will. We both deserved better than what we've had..... Hugs sent to you my friend.... Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I haven't cheated on anyone but I have been on the receiving end myself. It was a shock to say the least.
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