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Since you want monogamy and your friends (AdultFriendFinder and vanilla) know it as well as the identify of your lover, then you have a right to be upset with them if they still pursue him. In your shoes, I would want to know why they would still try to secure his interest. If you find their answers to be lacking, then ending the friendship would seem to be an appropriate step. I would also clarify with your lover about his intentions - does he still wish monogamy or not? If his answer is yes, then you could ask him how he's been dealing with the females interested in him and what he'll do about it in the future. If his response is unsatisfying, tell him that. If he doesn't make say more, then consider whether to continue with that relationship. Open communication is definitely the key, even if it brings out undesirable answers.
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If my friend does not know then she can’t be liable for interacting with him. If she does, it is on her to not engage unless it is just a friendly thing. For me, it boils down to how he reacts. People flirt all the time. It is up to each side of the couple to ensure the other that they are being true. Social media makes it hard on a relationship. Much luck with this. If you both want it, it can work.
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Someone who asks you to block their ex from being your friend is not a friend but just an aquantance. She then proved it by blocking you. You shouldnt have to warn friends off, your lover should be doing that. All it takes is "I am with someone" message. There is no reason for you to change, people know you and need to accept you as you are. Also having red hair is a bit of a give away that you might have a temper. LOL “For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.” ― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Much like this site Visit my Blog for my adventures.
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Hello sweetheart No need to apologize Joy. I did see the post on FB don't understand her problem with you and being friends with her ex. She dose not want him or she would still be with him. Being friends with someone a long time you just don't stop being friends because it's her ex. Not to sure I would like someone trying to hit on my lover and would tell them! Butch
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ESTAS EXQUISITA
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Do what you feel is right and if you loose her as a friend so be it. Then she wasn’t a real friend hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Just as a side note, while I understand the impluse many have, I've never understood the drive some have to make friends and near-friend "choose side" in a break-up. Clear sign of insecurity. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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5/17/2018 9:30 am |
Well Your red swimsuit hanging on the line got My mind dirty.. I love hanging My clothes outside to dry..specially My bedding...The smell is awesome. You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!
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Good morning my friend you have to do what is best for you!!!
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5/17/2018 9:46 am |
They should know.
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I would let them know,,but the real problem is the "lover" ; if he is chasing then let him go or use him for a booty call if you desire too. If he is not letting your women friends know he is sort of spoken for then again let him go; unless you don't care. Him being a friend is one thing but being a lover is different. I guess this all depends if the relationship is open or closed. Closed and playing does not work.
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The lady on FB; that is a rough call; it might just be a social media friendship she wishes to close and not a personal one. I had a similar situation for a short period..a couple were arguing on FB and living apart. I left it alone and stayed clear of it all and both are still on my FB list. Some people got axed by each of them because of agreeing with their postings. That couple patched their differences up for now but I steer clear of them when possible.
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Hi Joy. you always take me further... with or without the drama... I tell my children... that they are my daughters, and that I love them dearly... even though two of them did not have the operation... I have even named them Diedra, Dorothy and Dani... although... only one was born a true woman... the three of them are my little divas... my drama queens... I have dramamine pills in my car... I have to dole them out so frequently... to get rid of the drama from my children... the block feature is so easy for me... maybe, its because I am so easy going... maybe, it's because... there are so many people in the world to have a first with... and, others that need to have a first with other people... like the movie contact... "if it were just us... it seems like an awful waste of space..." but, that's just me... and, that's all I've got to say about that... hmm... Jacob Whitesides - "Why Can't We All Just Get Along" Why can't we all just get along Hey you, the world is on fire I'm so sick and so tired Of this blood in the water, blood in the water Words turn into explosions I'm so up in emotion I thought we were brothers, thought we were brothers Love and forgiveness Love and forgiveness How we forget it How we forget Why can't we all just get along Do we wanna be here ten years later Singing the same sad song It don't have to take our last breath To admit that we're wrong Why can't we all just get along We blow in like a hurricane We kill all the good And we hurt one another, hurt one another Don't take this life for granted We need second chances As hard as it is (Come one people now) Why can't we all just get along Do we wanna be here ten years later Singing the same sad song It don't have to take our last breath To admit that we're wrong Why can't we all just get along I see a city where the haters go I see a city we're all still talking I see beautiful lights That turns battlefields into paradise I'll be the first one to lay down my gun And I'll be here waiting for you to go That can be peace and love can be found together There's got to be common grounds Why can't we all just get along Do we wanna be here ten years later Singing the same sad song It don't have to take our last breath To admit that we're wrong Why can't we all just get along Why can't we all just get along Do we wanna be here ten years later Singing the same sad song It don't have to take our last breath To admit that we're wrong Why can't we all just get along... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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