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scott6250 61M

2/18/2019 12:03 pm

That was a great way of getting things going in the right direction from the start.

"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
2/18/2019 12:05 pm

Great blog my friend and you know one of my son's girlfriends I didn't get to meet until after they married or else I would of told him don't do it. The other son I really liked his girl friend but come to find out she wasn't much better. She is always causing issues and stirring up shit within the family.

We should do this with all of our kids boyfriends and girlfriends. I can't stand one of my daughters husbands, the other daughter she divorced the bad rubbish and I have never met her new husband. But as long as he treats her right and she's happy that's all that matters to me.

I hope you have a great start to your week my friend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
2/18/2019 12:06 pm

I want to add something to my other comment, you know we can't always choose the spouses for our children, we just have to grin and bare it and hope that it all works out for them. I don't get involved in their marriages unless I am asked too, as they pretty much know how I feel..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


bull_in_florida 65M
966 posts
2/18/2019 12:19 pm

All so true and all so very applicable. BUT,

Once they are married - unless one or the other is abusive - parents should stay the hell out of their kids marriages.

I can't tell you the number of marital problems that I had to deal with my troops and their families.... because one or more of the parents/in-laws were overly involved (meddling/favoritism) in the marriages. And, the worst time for them to do it...was then they would do it.... holidays and deployments.

So, as much as I agree... I also draw the line. I don't want to know, don't need to know... the petty and daily BS problems that either of my kids and or their spouses have with each other... because I don't want to take sides and create problems later in the family unity.

When parents are anchors for the storms... instead of the creators of the storms... life is a whole lot better.... at least it is in my world!


Freeonereturns 63F

2/18/2019 12:36 pm

A friend that is in the movie business tells that Stiller is the biggest asshole in the industry. Thinking he’s all that etc.. not that it matters to me but nice to know. De Niro put himself on my shit list with his disrespectful rants lately.

I don’t hold any “Star” in high regard to be honest. Why? They get chance after chance to read somebody else’s words until they trip on getting it right. Working for months being treated like a king or queen and for the top actors they’re rewarded a life’s salary of someone working a hard 40 each week where one mistake might be their last.

I’m in ahh of him or her and so goes my respect.


OrangeBoner4Fun 63M

2/18/2019 12:47 pm

Hey Joy! Love this post!

My old Profile got deleted and wanted to reach out to you and knew your Blog was the best way! Used to be CNYMale4Fun but had to re-register and create a new Profile.

Lost 3500 points and over 1600 Friends but I'll be fine...haha!!

Neil


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
2/18/2019 12:51 pm

Meet The Parents is a great movie... Some scenes still make me laugh, even after seeing them 20",
times.
My daughters and I always had open discussions about boys and thighs like that. Who knows if they did any good...? But I managed to share my pov.
Meeting my gf parents...? Eeee... I think I may have messed up, once or twice.... Oh well... 🤔😁😱


Story435 76M
3791 posts
2/18/2019 1:04 pm

Hello Joy!
Yes I remember meeting my wife's parents for the first time wow! I was scared to death LOL! But it all went very good!
I never had to worry about me two sons that was easy. But it I had a girl would have been much different I'm sure!
Now my granddaughter is going to be different I'm sure. Granddad would be very protective of this girl and all the rules would applied just switch them around for a girl granddad would be an ass to protect his granddaughter LOL!
Butch


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
2/18/2019 1:51 pm

Never needed to go through the meeting of the parents. I think that would be unlikely now, unless I met a 25 year old, or her parents were aged over 94.

Baffies

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Basilikummen 47M
1006 posts
2/18/2019 2:48 pm

Unfortunately, my family ties have never been that normal. I would say that, "We put the 'fun' in dysfunctional," but to be honest it's more like, "We didn't kill each other and mostly that's because we stayed out of each other's way."

My sister married the violent school bully (and druggie) because he knocker her up without ever even so much as telling me that she was dating him, let alone asking for my opinion. Or our mom's.

My mom suddenly one day sends me an invite to her wedding and an appointment for a tux fitting without even telling me that she's been dating, or for that matter asking me when I would be available, being thousands of miles away. (In a weird way I was kind of glad though because decades after my dad's death, she still hadn't even gone on a single date, so it was nice that she must have finally started dating again. Marrying someone I've never even met? As long as she's happy.)

I was so emotionally scarred that I never even dated once all through school. But even if I had, I wouldn't have been able to introduce my date to my grandparents (who wanted to be my surrogate father after he died, as he was their son) because my mother told them to stay away from us because they made the foster kids that she brought into our home so jealous that they became violent. Because the correct solution to that situation is not getting rid of the violent foster kids. It's telling the parents of our deceased father to stay away from my sister and me.

At least I was polite enough to introduce Wifey to as much of my fam as I could reach before we got married. (Even if some of that was purely by accident when a family party happened to be at the same day, time, and place as one of our dates. "Basil, why are those people staring at us?" "Huh? Oh, fudge.") But there wasn't a single family member that I would have asked for, or for that matter allowed an opinion from. None of them were there when I needed them, so why would I let them influence my life choices now.

And hell, last I knew, I still had a pair of first cousins doing a lot worse than kissing. Not that I care. The worst that could be said is that they're only hurting themselves, and the best is that even if "wrong", the world still needs more love anyway.. In that I refuse to use Fake (Security) Book, it's hard keeping tabs on the generation of cousins born after I grew up, so they may have finally broken up. (Being amongst the oldest of my generation, I barely know a good half of my family these days.) But it just goes to show how ... non-traditional my family is.

I never had kids of my own. My ex-wife failed the pet test, so I wasn't about to stop using birth control and end up fighting for custody some day. And Wifey came with a hysterectomy and her own adult-aged (but not minded) kids, both of whom were ... sexually advanced ... back when they were kids. One of whom went on to drop out of college to smuggle drugs cross-country with a trucker. The other of whom distinguished himself by spending a lot of time in prison for repeatedly doing bad things while on drugs rather than do anything with his life. Even today, over a decade later, only one of them even acknowledges me as Step Dad, and that took effort. And she's about to move from living in her real-dad's home to living in our home because real-dad has gone dangerously senile. When she grows up enough to move her and her daughter into a home of their own? Anyone's guess. I'm happy to help. I just worry about her and her ability to function in that little thing called reality. And if we can straighten out our granddaughter before she learns too many bad life lessons. Fortunately she's only 4.

So all around, I've never really been in a meet the parents type of scenario. I really wish I had grown up in a family where that were reality. Would have been nice. But with the family I have, I think if anyone in any of my family's possible meet the parents situations were to even smell a hint of judgement that another has any right to say a thing about what they have chosen for their life, it'd be a global nuclear meltdown scene in the making.

Ah, family.

So I'm glad that you have that. You got a momma-bear moment. One well earned, no doubt. You have to be a momma to have a momma-bear moment.

Thank you for giving me hope that society in general isn't broken, just my family.

Even an herb as sweet as basil is nothing without its bite.
Lord Basil


Apollorising58 63M

2/18/2019 3:59 pm

Great movie, in JOY always!

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clittywhisperer1 59M
1415 posts
2/18/2019 5:54 pm

I am so glad I have blessed by the creator with an amazingly .peaceful , normal ,life other than my moms bi polar depression for 50 yrs ,and my nieces anorexia .My kids are sane , very very sane .Neither younger son is interested in girls at this point , 21 and 25 , math genius level , find girls annoying and stupid lol. daughter was talked to by dad at 13 , guided on what to look for in a fine young man after a couple of flakes ,and a super awesome young man pounced at his first chance after waiting since 6th grade ,they were in 1oth ,her and 11 him . they are still together ,he is an engineer she got her masters in music and teaching last year ,they will move to florida after 2 years in nJ as she finished school and he worked . awesome young man . oldest son got away from mom at 19 after trade school , he met and married a nice woman 8 yrs older with 2 kids , he was 21 ,my grandson has autism ,and my son jumped right in to parent . i feel for those who have challenges I did not have to face , It gets better eventually .kids become adults and must choose their own way .


HoHowdy 62M
1279 posts
2/18/2019 6:35 pm

My first really serious girlfriend, we dated for four years, I am shocked that her mom and dad didn't just shoot me. We were way too young, so when it didn't work out it was probably for the best. I wish your son the best, but a caring mom goes a long way.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
2/18/2019 7:30 pm

Hi Joy.

thanks for sharing another side of you...

I always want the best for my children...

reminded me of this...

The Beatles - "The Word"

Say the word and you'll be free
Say the word and be like me
Say the word I'm thinking of
Have you heard the word is love?
It's so fine, it's sunshine
It's the word, love
In the beginning I misunderstood
But now I've got it, the word is good
Spread the word and you'll be free
Spread the word and be like me
Spread the word I'm thinking of
Have you heard the word is love?
It's so fine, it's sunshine
It's the word, love
Every where I go I hear it said...

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lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
2/18/2019 8:28 pm

I was treated as a member of the family the first time I met the Mrs father (her Mom was deceased) Out of years of her dating before I met her (at age 36) I was the first person her father liked and accepted.


hrdallnght4u 67M

2/18/2019 8:32 pm

My Daughter is still Daddy's little Girl.. and I did Teach Her how to shoot...

You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


Er0tic_Desire 45M

2/18/2019 11:36 pm

I love rule number ten from "Rules for dating my son". Hahahahaha.


Outdoorguy762 47M
31 posts
2/19/2019 10:35 am

I can't stop laughing at the "condoms prevent minivans"thanks for the words of advice😘😘


wantaplay8 71M
5606 posts
2/20/2019 4:33 pm

I have met 5 set of parents..they all liked me...what they did not know was good for us!
I kept it short with my children...don't get blind drunk, don't get knocked up, and be nice. Two out of three got knocked up young...the third I worry about him and dating. 27 and he dates no one. I told them all the opposite gender can be just friends, not this I love friend stuff as teens.
One the upside of knocked up young is the 5 grandchildren are entering into their 20 and the youngest is 16. Now I got to deal with the grandchildren's beaus...sheesh! 5 grandchildren and 3 are women or almost women. I bristle a bit when they bring the boyfriends about.


_IKanCu2_ 105M

5/7/2019 1:59 pm

Oh boy.
Pretty heady topic.
][ wish only the Best Happiness and Futrue for (\/)y kid*z.

They have their row to hoe, what they plant, they must harvest .
Whatever happen*z, ][ will alway*z be there for consolation or consultation.
][Ka/\/ judge for no one but (\/)y self.
There is much to learn, just as there is much to teach.
Do the Best of Your ability and understanding, alway*z !

Do as You would be done by.





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