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11/13/2019 11:56 am |
I keep it very local my wife's bed! Become an Apollorising58 watcher!
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They do make Jet planes ya know!! XOXOXO!
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Sorry that your long distance lover did not work out... Perhaps you and him will be together again. Has he told you that he loves you JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART
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ya know? no matter how hard I try... I just can't feel HER, through the phone. ... no matter how hard... I try... ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I don’t have a preference of one over the other but I’ve had more long distance relationships than local the last 10 or more years. My job has me away from home often and usually two weeks at a time. I would appreciate being able to be make a short drive to see my lover but there is also a nice rush of feelings that come as I drive into her city. There’’s a build of anticipation as you get closer to the day you’ll see eachother but parting ways doesn’t feel so great. It’s not for everyone but every situation is different. Sometimes you’re forced to make the best of what you’ve got and the challenges that come with it.
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I've had both,. The long distance one wants me more than I want her, and the close one isn't as interested as I am? WTF? At my age, I don't care about the distance, I'm just worried about finding my way home
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I've had long distance relationships, one I keep in contact with today. Went to high school together, best friends, the prom...seemed like timing was always out worst enemy- one was single when the other was dating. Lost touch when we went to college, reconnected at a reunion where we broke away and made love....she was going through a horrible divorce, stress of becoming a single mom and she knew I was not ready to commit. We traveled to see each other on and off for awhile, I backed off when she met a guy who treated her and her 2 children well. It was fun, hot but tough being long distance.....we did hook up again a few years back when she was visting some friends, should have married her.....
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I would have kept in contact with the long distance man except facts: he wanted me to take on his religion ( NOPE) and he is now deceased. But it was fun while it lasted and many good memories. He was the first ti take me hot air ballooning (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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why go the distance, it plenty right under your nose
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No long distance relationship here unless you call from bedroom to the next " long distance"  The relationship I'm in now has lasted 20 years "longer" than my first one...so far! 
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I have had both long distance and local relations and, being a man who loves his solitude, much preferred the long distance relationships. Local relations were great in that sex was just a snap away, but it also meant having people around when you wanted to be alone. I think my marriage only works because my wife ignores me most times. To have sex with my friend she has to drive an hour each way when we don't decide to meet halfway. BTW, my wife was my long distance (3 states) lover before we moved in together.
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At the end of the day, there is NO such thing as a long distance relationship. I don't know why people want to pretend there is such a thing. Also, you've made a previous point... men and women cannot be just friends. If you look back on your blog, you'll that the men who said , "They can be", are having sex with homosexual men, and some are old with erectile dysfunction. So sure, those two varieties of men can be just friends with women. it still boils down to the chemistry no matter the distance...... Sure the chemistry may be there[ for a while] , but you and the guy are not in a relationship. Connection and chemistry knows not the distance, and does not care, does it? ...."Thought" [connection] is instant/infinite and knows no bounds. However "Chemistry", is finite, and after 15 or 20 weeks apart the chemistry fades to nothing. So then the "Thought" fades and is replaced with "Thoughts" of those much closer. It is only we humans who let it get in the way..... ... We don't know that for a fact. Do you go the distance, or do you keep it local? ... What does that matter? Relationships are local. Not local, are one night stands.
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They do make Jet planes ya know!! XOXOXO!
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11/13/2019 4:16 pm |
I couldn't get the ones that were local to work. Would never risk long distance.
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At the end of the day, there is NO such thing as a long distance relationship. I don't know why people want to pretend there is such a thing. Also, you've made a previous point... men and women cannot be just friends. If you look back on your blog, you'll that the men who said , "They can be", are having sex with homosexual men, and some are old with erectile dysfunction. So sure, those two varieties of men can be just friends with women. it still boils down to the chemistry no matter the distance...... Sure the chemistry may be there[ for a while] , but you and the guy are not in a relationship. Connection and chemistry knows not the distance, and does not care, does it? ...."Thought" [connection] is instant/infinite and knows no bounds. However "Chemistry", is finite, and after 15 or 20 weeks apart the chemistry fades to nothing. So then the "Thought" fades and is replaced with "Thoughts" of those much closer. It is only we humans who let it get in the way..... ... We don't know that for a fact. Do you go the distance, or do you keep it local? ... What does that matter? Relationships are local. Not local, are one night stands.
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These are opinions you’ve formed possibly from something that hasn’t worked for you or because you’re not willing to try. Saying relationships are local and anything else is a one night stand doesn’t really make sense. Care to explain how just because you have to travel to spend time with someone classifies it as a “one night stand”? I work with men who travel to work while their wife and kids stay at home in another province. I wouldn’t say that’s a one night stand and from what I can see some of them balance their relationship well. I think going the distance is a choice two people make in the early stages of whatever involvement they have with eachother. There are certainly more challenges revolving around getting together but not every situation is the same. I think there are too many factors involved to say “at the end of the day, there is NO such thing as a long distance relationship.” Saying relationships are local .... "Relationships" are local. and anything else is a one night stand .... If they're not local? ... There can be several ways to call it, besides a one-night-stand, but it sure isn't a relationship. Care to explain how just because you have to travel to spend time with someone ..... I don't. If I travel for another reason, and she's in port, then maybe I'll drop buy for some sex. I work with men who travel to work while their wife and kids stay at home in another province. ....But they come home at night, or stay a few days in the other province. I wouldn’t say that’s a one night stand and from what I can see some of them balance their relationship well. .... More of a marriage of inconvenience. You can also bet , of the two of them, one or both are having affairs, if they're separated too long. I think going the distance is a choice two people make in the early stages of whatever involvement they have with each other. ..... Of course it is. But it is not a long distance relationship. These people are separated by time and distance, this is not a relationship. I think there are too many factors involved to say “at the end of the day, there is NO such thing as a long distance relationship.” .... No. Time and distance apart, does not make a relationship. Long distance relationships do not exist.
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Hi Joy thanks for taking me further with the long distance or local dilema So: Do you go the distance, or do you keep it local? I've done both What are your own experiences or thoughts on both of them? There's good and bad with each one. Have you had more success with one than the other? local is preferred Have you had a long distance relationship yourself and if so did it work out for you? I've had several long distance relationships, you just have to make the time and plan further ahead Did you regret it or do you miss that long distance lover still? all my lovers are ex-lovers, I miss them, they are not friends, some have come back and we never missed a beat reminded me of this one Bruno Mars - "Long Distance" There's only so many songs, that I can sing to pass the time And I'm running out of things to do, to get you off my mind (Oh ohh) All I have is this picture in a frame That I hold close, to see your face every day With you is where I'd rather be But we're stuck where we are And it's so hard, you're so far This long distance is killing me I wish that you were here with me But we're stuck where we are And it's so hard, you're so far To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!! 
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Sure they are one-night-stands... or maybe a booty call.... as for "Who"... many suckers would do that.
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In your opinion it does, but not everyone else's opinion .... So.... then that means everyone else is wrong. You're certainly free to disagree with me, but unless you can convince me otherwise, long distance relationships do not exist. ...no one travels only for a booty call or one night stand ... Yes they do. Leave work Friday, arrive at destination, stay over one or two nights, back home by Sunday evening. unless they travel for their job and looking to hook up while out of town.. .... They do that , too. One-night-stand/booty call.
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Hi Joy My GF is about 90 minutes away right now it works out very good. Not to close and not far away. Butch 
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I am still seeing my lover at a distance she is having a hard time financially so it is sometimes difficult, we have managed a year now and see each other about twice a month.
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11/14/2019 11:23 am |
Went for a walk in the park and saw a woman sitting alone on a bench, I smiled and said hello as I passed. I continued my walk about a hour and when I was on my way back I saw the same woman still sitting there. Once again I waved but when she looked up I could see the tears in her eyes. I decided I would go over and talk to her. Hi, my name is Jeff, how are you I awkwardly asked. I'm fine,just a little emotional today,just collecting my thoughts. I asked what about the tears and she replied just lonely. A Beautiful Woman like you lonely ? Yes, Not alone,but very lonely. I sat down next to her and asked if she wanted a friend to talk to and she nodded her head Yes. We talked for awhile and I tried to make her laugh, a few old corny jokes to break the ice. I did manage to get her to smile and it felt good inside. I told her this park is my favorite to take a walk and relax and she said she comes here often. I had to get home but told her we can talk next time I see her. Can I give you a hug ? Yes you may, so we stood up and wrapped our arms around each other in a delightfully warm embrace. A few days passed and I just couldn't get the thought of her out of my mind so by chance I went for my walk. As I came up on the bench I was surprised to see her sitting there,but this time I saw a faint smile. Hello, how are you. She replied "better". I had to admit I came for my walk but was really hoping to see her. She laughed for the first time and asked what took me so long,she was there every day hoping to see me!! We both laughed as I reached out to hug her. Mmmmmm I like your hugs, nice and warm, tender yet strong. We sat on our bench and shared our thoughts for awhile again and I admitted to her I was lonely as well, not alone but lonely none the less. She smiled a big smile and said "May we Never be lonely again" I couldn't help but to agree. We shared another hug but this one was longer and much warmer than before. The next day the anticipation of seeing her again drove me insane, I went straight to the park to find her. The bench was empty and I was empty. As I made my way back to the parking lot I heard a horn beeping. It was her !! She got out of her car, reached in the trunk, pulled out a blanket and a picnic basket. She said are you ready to find "our spot"? Yes !! We walked along the path and laughed and teased as we picked places to hide. Finally we reached a spot we agreed on and spread out her blanket and sat down. The woods were deep but the sun shined thru just enough to see the glow in her face. We sat and talked, had a bite to eat, and then just laid back on the blanket and wondered about life and what brought us together. I put my arm behind her and she snuggled right up against me. I stroked the side of her cheek as the sun light lit up her face. Then it must have been fate as we turned and both reached for a kiss. It was a soft kiss but oh so warm. I think we both felt the comfort as we embraced in a deep long kiss with our bodies so close together. I sensed the desire we both had and began to massage her back. She whispered that feels so good. I told her shhhh lets enjoy our time together touching,kissing,caressing,massaging but not talking. She giggled but agreed. I held her tight kissing her deeply and was running out of breath. So passionate were the kisses, deep, long,with our tongues teasing each other. Our bodies pressed together and I could feel the excitement growing in my pants. What do I do now ? She seemed to be enjoying the moment so I made the move to caress her breasts. I felt no resistance and just a hint of desire as my hands caressed her. She reached out and began to run her hands over my chest, fair play I thought.I reached to undo her blouse but she stopped me and slowly, seductively undid it herself. Her lace bra was basking in the sunlight and the anticipation was too much, I had to reach and undo,set them free, see them in the soft warm sun. I wanted to say they were so Beautiful but I'm sure she would have shhhhh'd me. I played with them tracing the nipples with my fingers and lightly pinching the soft flesh surrounding them. Tease, tease as I watched them get hard and stand out in the sun. I just had to tease them with my tongue, twirling around and gently sucking on them. Nibbling and teasing as the bulge in my pants continued to grow. She was now reaching to massage my growing bulge as I slid my hands between her thighs and rubbed over her soft mound. We are both gasping with anticipation as we rub our bodies together and grind our hips against each other. I've got to have you I exclaimed, I want to feel you,taste you, I want our bodies joined together as one. There it was that Shhhhh I was waiting for....lol. She reached down and undid my jeans as I reached for hers. Once again she pushed me back and with swift precision she seductively undid her jeans and slid them off. There we are in the warm sun almost naked bodies twitching,grinding,pressing together. I reach down and feel her moist panties inviting me so I slide them down and slide out of mine too. Without a word she reaches down and grasps my thick hard shaft. OMG I think to myself, it feels so good to feel a woman's tender touch. I reach down myself to feel the warmth and the dampness of her soft pink pussy. I slide my fingers down and spread the lips exposing her to the warm sun rays. I slowly wiggle around and face her Beautiful pussy. Her wet warm pussy in my face and my throbbing thick cock facing her. We tease each other, I taste the sweet juices flowing from her as she tickles me with her tongue. I'm going insane with lust and desire as My tongue glides over her lips and darts in and out of her sweet honey pot. Feverishly I stroke her inside with my fingers as I lick and suck on her swollen clit. Her juices are flowing,her back is arched and she gives me the moans of pleasure I so want to hear. She is begging me to fill her, to explore deep down inside her,she wants to feel me inside her, throbbing and and thrusting my thick hard cock stretching her and giving her waves of pleasure like electricity flowing down her spine. I want to feel the fire burning inside her, the wetness of her juices and the strength of her muscles squeezing me and pulling me deeper. I slowly slide my big head towards her tight pink bud, teasing her by rubbing the head against her till I feel her trembling with delight. She welcomes me as I inch my way inside slowly but deeper with every stroke. I can feel her squeeze me and I can barely hold myself as it is such a incredible feeling joining together as one. We are now thrashing our bodies together moaning and feeling the swelling of my cock as I'm ready to explode inside her filling her with my sweet juices. I feel her twitch,her legs trembling as I pound deep inside and release with a gasp, a moan, I hope only we can hear. She releases me and lays back exhausted and smiling as if the cat just swallowed the canary. The glow about her face is astonishing in the bright sun and I am smiling thru my exhaustion as well. Not a word spoken but the intense pleasure we have brought one another cannot be described. We lay there for a moment naked,our bodies exposed to the dimming sunlight and just hold each other as if in a dream. Is this for real ? It must be. I Hope So. Two lonely people sharing a lust, a feeling, the thought of just being desired is so intense. We must get dressed so hopefully nobody heard or saw us in our moment of passion. We help each other as we are both so tired but the overwhelming passion of the moment kicks in and we gather ourselves together. We walk back hand in hand and as we get to the car she leans on my shoulder. She whispers in my ear just how great I made her feel and I reply with a passionate kiss. You have made me feel like a man again I reply,I miss that and you just gave it to me. She whispers back it felt so good to be desired by you, to feel the feeling running through my body and setting it on fire. We fall into each others arms and embrace in a long passionate kiss. The sun is about to fade as we say our good byes but till we meet again that feeling will last deep inside our dreams and souls.
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Correct, and the way I have been feeling these days, I'm lucky I can walk!! LOL!
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Went for a walk in the park and saw a woman sitting alone on a bench, I smiled and said hello as I passed. I continued my walk about a hour and when I was on my way back I saw the same woman still sitting there. Once again I waved but when she looked up I could see the tears in her eyes. I decided I would go over and talk to her. Hi, my name is Jeff, how are you I awkwardly asked. I'm fine,just a little emotional today,just collecting my thoughts. I asked what about the tears and she replied just lonely. A Beautiful Woman like you lonely ? Yes, Not alone,but very lonely. I sat down next to her and asked if she wanted a friend to talk to and she nodded her head Yes. We talked for awhile and I tried to make her laugh, a few old corny jokes to break the ice. I did manage to get her to smile and it felt good inside. I told her this park is my favorite to take a walk and relax and she said she comes here often. I had to get home but told her we can talk next time I see her. Can I give you a hug ? Yes you may, so we stood up and wrapped our arms around each other in a delightfully warm embrace. A few days passed and I just couldn't get the thought of her out of my mind so by chance I went for my walk. As I came up on the bench I was surprised to see her sitting there,but this time I saw a faint smile. Hello, how are you. She replied "better". I had to admit I came for my walk but was really hoping to see her. She laughed for the first time and asked what took me so long,she was there every day hoping to see me!! We both laughed as I reached out to hug her. Mmmmmm I like your hugs, nice and warm, tender yet strong. We sat on our bench and shared our thoughts for awhile again and I admitted to her I was lonely as well, not alone but lonely none the less. She smiled a big smile and said "May we Never be lonely again" I couldn't help but to agree. We shared another hug but this one was longer and much warmer than before. The next day the anticipation of seeing her again drove me insane, I went straight to the park to find her. The bench was empty and I was empty. As I made my way back to the parking lot I heard a horn beeping. It was her !! She got out of her car, reached in the trunk, pulled out a blanket and a picnic basket. She said are you ready to find "our spot"? Yes !! We walked along the path and laughed and teased as we picked places to hide. Finally we reached a spot we agreed on and spread out her blanket and sat down. The woods were deep but the sun shined thru just enough to see the glow in her face. We sat and talked, had a bite to eat, and then just laid back on the blanket and wondered about life and what brought us together. I put my arm behind her and she snuggled right up against me. I stroked the side of her cheek as the sun light lit up her face. Then it must have been fate as we turned and both reached for a kiss. It was a soft kiss but oh so warm. I think we both felt the comfort as we embraced in a deep long kiss with our bodies so close together. I sensed the desire we both had and began to massage her back. She whispered that feels so good. I told her shhhh lets enjoy our time together touching,kissing,caressing,massaging but not talking. She giggled but agreed. I held her tight kissing her deeply and was running out of breath. So passionate were the kisses, deep, long,with our tongues teasing each other. Our bodies pressed together and I could feel the excitement growing in my pants. What do I do now ? She seemed to be enjoying the moment so I made the move to caress her breasts. I felt no resistance and just a hint of desire as my hands caressed her. She reached out and began to run her hands over my chest, fair play I thought.I reached to undo her blouse but she stopped me and slowly, seductively undid it herself. Her lace bra was basking in the sunlight and the anticipation was too much, I had to reach and undo,set them free, see them in the soft warm sun. I wanted to say they were so Beautiful but I'm sure she would have shhhhh'd me. I played with them tracing the nipples with my fingers and lightly pinching the soft flesh surrounding them. Tease, tease as I watched them get hard and stand out in the sun. I just had to tease them with my tongue, twirling around and gently sucking on them. Nibbling and teasing as the bulge in my pants continued to grow. She was now reaching to massage my growing bulge as I slid my hands between her thighs and rubbed over her soft mound. We are both gasping with anticipation as we rub our bodies together and grind our hips against each other. I've got to have you I exclaimed, I want to feel you,taste you, I want our bodies joined together as one. There it was that Shhhhh I was waiting for....lol. She reached down and undid my jeans as I reached for hers. Once again she pushed me back and with swift precision she seductively undid her jeans and slid them off. There we are in the warm sun almost naked bodies twitching,grinding,pressing together. I reach down and feel her moist panties inviting me so I slide them down and slide out of mine too. Without a word she reaches down and grasps my thick hard shaft. OMG I think to myself, it feels so good to feel a woman's tender touch. I reach down myself to feel the warmth and the dampness of her soft pink pussy. I slide my fingers down and spread the lips exposing her to the warm sun rays. I slowly wiggle around and face her Beautiful pussy. Her wet warm pussy in my face and my throbbing thick cock facing her. We tease each other, I taste the sweet juices flowing from her as she tickles me with her tongue. I'm going insane with lust and desire as My tongue glides over her lips and darts in and out of her sweet honey pot. Feverishly I stroke her inside with my fingers as I lick and suck on her swollen clit. Her juices are flowing,her back is arched and she gives me the moans of pleasure I so want to hear. She is begging me to fill her, to explore deep down inside her,she wants to feel me inside her, throbbing and and thrusting my thick hard cock stretching her and giving her waves of pleasure like electricity flowing down her spine. I want to feel the fire burning inside her, the wetness of her juices and the strength of her muscles squeezing me and pulling me deeper. I slowly slide my big head towards her tight pink bud, teasing her by rubbing the head against her till I feel her trembling with delight. She welcomes me as I inch my way inside slowly but deeper with every stroke. I can feel her squeeze me and I can barely hold myself as it is such a incredible feeling joining together as one. We are now thrashing our bodies together moaning and feeling the swelling of my cock as I'm ready to explode inside her filling her with my sweet juices. I feel her twitch,her legs trembling as I pound deep inside and release with a gasp, a moan, I hope only we can hear. She releases me and lays back exhausted and smiling as if the cat just swallowed the canary. The glow about her face is astonishing in the bright sun and I am smiling thru my exhaustion as well. Not a word spoken but the intense pleasure we have brought one another cannot be described. We lay there for a moment naked,our bodies exposed to the dimming sunlight and just hold each other as if in a dream. Is this for real ? It must be. I Hope So. Two lonely people sharing a lust, a feeling, the thought of just being desired is so intense. We must get dressed so hopefully nobody heard or saw us in our moment of passion. We help each other as we are both so tired but the overwhelming passion of the moment kicks in and we gather ourselves together. We walk back hand in hand and as we get to the car she leans on my shoulder. She whispers in my ear just how great I made her feel and I reply with a passionate kiss. You have made me feel like a man again I reply,I miss that and you just gave it to me. She whispers back it felt so good to be desired by you, to feel the feeling running through my body and setting it on fire. We fall into each others arms and embrace in a long passionate kiss. The sun is about to fade as we say our good byes but till we meet again that feeling will last deep inside our dreams and souls.
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"Different"? Not really. Just the intimate details [with some general overlapping]. The fact of each and every situation is, there are persons, separated by time and distance, each [maybe] having thoughts of each other. And as 15 to 20 weeks pass, [without they being together] the feeling of togetherness gets weaker and weaker, and as each week passes , the chances of a more realistic pairing -relationship- [much closer] has the chance of happening, to both, or just one of them. There is no long distance relationship. This doesn't exist. They [the persons involved] may "Long" for each other, for a time, but there is no relationship when apart. That is just a physical fact. Sure, you can argue, "What is apart", and we can get into that later.
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