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tomorrow201910 69M
12 posts
1/19/2020 12:48 pm

Thanks for sharing your story.


searching1962T 61M

1/19/2020 12:48 pm

Being with you would be joyful! Hopefully things will change!


Breastlover48 63M  
145 posts
1/19/2020 12:58 pm

I liked what you wrote, it makes me think or remember ... The true joy you will ever have is what comes from your inner self .. Never let anyone take that from you .. because guess what ... no can unless you let them. I see you have it in you ... The Joy is and always will be yours.


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
1/19/2020 1:06 pm

Thank you for sharing, at times I also feel jaded , site can be so..all the liars and cheaters. Also learned some joyful things, can be hard at times to remain optimistic here. You are so right, one can never have too much joy.


countrygal848 74F

1/19/2020 1:47 pm

I wouldn't say I'm jaded, however I have come to realize that some people use a site like this to express their most base feelings. No filters, be gross as they want because of the anonymity. If you were to meet those same people in real life, they would no doubt be polite.


WHOZFUN444 50M

1/19/2020 2:52 pm

Interesting and accurate post. I share many of your sentiments.


Story435 76M
3791 posts
1/19/2020 3:27 pm

Hello Joy!
You are right there are some assholes on this site and that's to bad. Some us are here to find love and have a good time. I think we all have learned some things being on here.
Butch


insatiable_man2 65M
2032 posts
1/19/2020 3:52 pm

Never going to happen with me!
Night Night Shortcake


Adultfriendthug 27M
1 post
1/19/2020 5:16 pm

Thanks Aton to share your experience.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
1/19/2020 5:24 pm

Here is a microcosm of life at large, we get out of it what we put into it. Karma has a way of being where it needs to be. Many have learned to develop a thick skin for sanity while online~~


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
1/19/2020 7:38 pm

If anything this site will speed up the process of of having doubts in people. It's not so much I've become jaded, as it is I've become less naive, and more aware of the world, and how people in it are. That my own small view on the world, and how people should be, don't exactly mesh. That being said, I've met some beautiful people on here as well.

Thoughts from the Garden...


handymoi 54M
23 posts
1/19/2020 8:21 pm

Don't be jaded don't be blue,
Most on here appreciate YOU!
Sex,and songs to name but a few,
Never stop what you like to do!
Thanks for vids pics we all like!
Coffee date? I don't bite!
Joy brings Joy
Enough said💋


IVFalternative 53M
630 posts
1/19/2020 8:49 pm

To be disillusioned one must first have believed an illusion. When that illusion is stripped away and you learn the truth it can be painful but is actually a good thing.

Reality is often unpleasant but it does have the benefit of being....real!

Now if you can find joy in reality, that is indeed a worthy goal

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
1/19/2020 8:50 pm

You should be taking joy in "Lessons Learned", there have been several.
Even if you appear to have missed the most important lessons on the realities of humanity. Knowledge (which you've gained) itself isn't enough. In five years you should have been enlightened on spotting the jackasses that have left you with a 'jaded' conclusion. Filter them out, and you're left with the other 20% who are unlikely to disappoint you.


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
1/19/2020 8:55 pm

    Quoting countrygal848:
    I wouldn't say I'm jaded, however I have come to realize that some people use a site like this to express their most base feelings. No filters, be gross as they want because of the anonymity. If you were to meet those same people in real life, they would no doubt be polite.
Those that 'hide behind anonymity' are here because they can't function in public. And don't discount foreigners from countries that don't understand basic manners, remain on third world lists and continue to be male dominated politically corrupt shitholes


h4rry66 57M

1/19/2020 9:27 pm

I would love to teach you a few more positions from the book of love x


onmoretime2018 60M

1/20/2020 6:24 am

Joy, I truly enjoy your BLOG. While I do not write here often, because I do not come on AdultFriendFinder as much any more, I always look for your words and reflect.

Thank you


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
1/20/2020 7:17 am

I certainly am not jaded but I also have learned to be very aware on here as I am in real life. Door #1, or 2, or 3 sometimes it is best to walk on by

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SpunkyMonkeyz58 65M

1/20/2020 7:43 am

We have fo'nd here and 'n l'fe 'n general, that l'fe 's too short to allow others 'n that really do not matter and both of 's hav'ng near death exper'ences have embraced th's even more so as one never knows when o'r t'me 'n th's world 's 'p and sho'ld be enjoyed each and every moment. There w'll always be the jealo's, the haters and whomever, b't tr'th, when they have no 'dea of what and whom yo' are, then the'r op'n'on really sho'ld not hold too m'ch water o'r fr'end and th's 's j'st o'r two cents. Have an amaz'ng day XxOo Mmmm Prrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrfect Awroooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Meoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooows


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
1/20/2020 8:18 am

Only 5 Joy? ... Try 15 (admittedly on and off) now that's jaded!!


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
1/21/2020 6:48 pm

    Quoting  :

I had to laugh and small town life again... and share.
I've lived both and in between. The truth is, this site and a couple others have exposed worlds few could ever imagine. Including me and I've been no angel


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
1/23/2020 8:43 pm

    Quoting  :

Ya know . . . Author, that really would be an interesting in-person conversation with a date/potential/partner, etc. Not really something I'd want to read on line since that has much less of an effect. Guess it depends on how comfortable people are with sharing or how comfortable they make each other feel at that moment. But, thinking about it, such a discussion about adult revelations and even self exploration would be, at our age, like talking about sex when we were virgins.
just a thought - however weird


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
1/25/2020 1:31 pm

If only. . .
We were two thousand miles closer


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