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Basilikummen 47M
1006 posts
6/11/2020 12:39 pm

If I had to rely on my outer eye candy only, I'd have probably never caughty Wifey. She'll be the first to admit that when I first met her, she could catch pretty much anyone she wanted to, and that I did not fit her outer-candy preferences.

Not that I personally think of myself as unattractive. I have some attractive qualities.

I just also know that especially in photo-op only, World + Dog tends to see a short fat balding hairy troll.

Maybe one of the weirdest things about my particular brand of (lack of) sanity is that whether nature or nurture* (and by nurture I don't mean the loving care of family, but a series of horrific scaring traumatic events that no one should ever be put through) I just don't see people in the same way that society at large does. What I find attractive is all too often completely unique, not social norms. And that even then I know all too well how deceiving outer candy is and just don't put stock into it. If I take an interest in someone, it's always for what's inside.

But in that no one is perfect, I know that I can judge myself harshly still for having limits and deal breakers in the outer shell department. (Often not matching expected norms, but still ... I know some visuals are a thing too far for me. Especially rotted teeth, for example.) It's a shame. I wish I could "see" people without the filter of sight entirely. But we don't live in a chat room where only words matter. I still respect a great mind and a good heart, as a friend, but I won't always be intimately interested in being with the outer shell even when the gooey insides are delicious. In that, I'm a failure.

Even an herb as sweet as basil is nothing without its bite.
Lord Basil


superdick590126 65M

6/11/2020 1:14 pm

Would love to those sweet off your body and lick your pussy .\8


moema999 68M

6/11/2020 1:37 pm

well said..........................you gotta' talk, right?


wannaplay4198 57M
83 posts
6/11/2020 1:38 pm

OH My You look very tasty to me


merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
6/11/2020 1:51 pm

....I am smiling both inwardly and outwardly.... a while back I had written a very short story on my blog on this very subject.... lol .... lick away adventurers and bloggers....ay yi yi ......


Blackflag613 29M

6/11/2020 1:52 pm

looks like fun


Starsearch1965 58M
2263 posts
6/11/2020 2:24 pm

You say it well. It seems the older we get the more we look at the inner candy, the outer candy gets our attention but the inner candy is what keeps us coming back


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
6/11/2020 4:07 pm

The candy on the outside may look and taste amazing but it doesn't last as long as the candy inside.


Jacknight1273 51M
645 posts
6/11/2020 6:09 pm

I love you, you are the best


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
6/11/2020 6:25 pm

Hi Joy

thanks for taking me further with inner and outer eye candy

sure, that first look is part of the process

but, on here, sometimes, you've already made up your mind, regardless of what the package is when you first meet, face to face

there should be more to it than the appetizer

I always say

How about you? Did your own Outer Eye Candy preference have taste, or did they lack it without possessing the Inner Eye Candy? Did they leave you with a Bitter taste in your mouth? I am easy going, take me with your wit and keep me with it

hmm

be safe

Doja Cat - "Candy"

I can name a couple ways, baby, this shit might go
You just might forget that this was what you're getting high for
Men that like to do the things to remain that guy who
Need someone who's sweet and not gon' shoot to make that high note
And it's such a typical thing
Running over a billion men
Running through a difficult place
You don't need no blood on your hands, no
She's just like candy, she's so sweet
But you know that it ain't real cherry, know that it ain't real cherry
She's just like candy, she's so sweet
But you know that it ain't real, know that it ain't real
I can be your sugar when you're fiendin' for that sweet spot
Put me in your mouth, baby, and eat it 'til your teeth rot
I can be your cherry, apple, pecan, or your key lime

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Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/11/2020 8:34 pm

Tough question to answer.
I don't eat any candy...


pal334 69M  
45821 posts
6/12/2020 5:24 am

I agree, the reality is inside. Just eye candy while fun to see just does not add to longevity and pleasure to a relationship

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Weeload2 60M
1104 posts
6/12/2020 8:50 am

Candy or no candy I have always portrayed myself inside and out

~Weee~

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CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
6/12/2020 8:56 am

I'm sure I'm not typical, but when it just comes to looking at face and body pictures I actually am more attracted/turned-on by "older" ladies - 40s+, right on up. I think the experience and self confidence comes through somehow.

I'm not sure what the upper limit is, though there is one local 80 YO that I know for sure I find quite sexually attractive ( AND amazingly capable! )

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hogknot 57M
1059 posts
6/12/2020 9:09 am

How many licks to get to the center of a tootsie pop? 411 according to The University of Michigan.


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
6/12/2020 5:10 pm

Got any Sugar Free


LQQKIN4BJS 65M
44 posts
6/13/2020 1:16 pm

The best thing about being in my 60s, is women in their 50s look so hot.


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