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donsv1962 61M

7/2/2020 10:00 am

I'm very careful about it all.

I want to take you into the fiery lair of steamy sexual delight on this hot sultry night.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
7/2/2020 10:22 am

I'm pretty much always surprised. Surprises are fun... sort of.
Then again, I'm pretty sure I'm full of shit in some respects as well. But if there's a connection, things have a way of working themselves out. 👍


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/2/2020 10:35 am

I'd have to stop and count, but suffice to say my "travel to meet" record is fairly extensive, on the order of 5 to 10. I've NEVER been disappointed!

I know it's not your point here, but I will also mention that being on-line ALSO allows us to be MORE honest, admitting to things done and/or preferences/attractions, that we might well be reluctant to do initially in a more face-to-face situation.

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Mr_Mercedes 61M
617 posts
7/2/2020 11:27 am

I have low expectations of meeting a real woman in this place, even if there is online chemistry; given my age, and the general untrustworthy nature of this place, and of course the current pandemic environment. It seems more like a vanity site or sex-worker/scammer site than an actual dating site. So I don't take anything at face value here.

I'm still reconciling the dreamer part of me with the realist, but I know where I stand and I can pretty much say I'm ok with it. It is what it is.

I would also like to say I appreciate you and your blog because you, and a few others here, do put your real selves out there, in a very straight forward, and honest way, and I say good for you all. But, sadly, I think you are a minority here.


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RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
7/2/2020 11:36 am

The site is only ever an introduction. If the omens are good and you choose to meet, the decision on how to proceed (or not) is surely taken at the meet. Granted, if a large distance is involved, additional pressure is applied. If the potential lover is not as advertised, then walk away. Dishonesty is no basis for any relationship, even a transient physical one. Those of us that write well and can read between the lines are at a particular advantage on such a site, however, we all know that not everybody is as straightforward and honest as we'd wish.


1salesman3 69M
7623 posts
7/2/2020 12:17 pm

I have never understood why anyone misrespresents themselves.


Weeload2 60M
1104 posts
7/2/2020 1:53 pm

I am always just me, both online and offline

As far as meeting someone personally, When ever hooking up in the past with someone that I meet online my experiences have been very satisfactory. Probably because of the honesty. My batting average is perfect so far lol

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Story435 76M
3791 posts
7/2/2020 2:29 pm

Hello Joy a hot on today!
The picks were them!
The ladies that I have been with were all that they said and no surprises at all.
They lived very close to me.
None of them lied about anything.
The ones I been with on another site lived farther away but they were all what they said they were. Never had a bad meet but you still have to careful!
Butch


insatiable_man2 65M
2032 posts
7/2/2020 4:31 pm

i would expect to meet the same person I am talking to. After some time you see the real even if you don't meet in person. But look out because sparks would fly lol.
i don't know if I would just take you in my arms and start to have my way with you! Any of many scenarios in my mind.
wait I do know lol
Licks Shortcake. Good night stay wet.


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
7/2/2020 6:30 pm

IF I was to meet some blogger in person....you for example....I would look "lighter" than many of my photos because my weight is slowly dropping...plus NO long "white" hair or beard!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
7/2/2020 7:45 pm

Hi Joy

thanks for taking me further with this Charles Dickens titled post

hmm

I did like that book

and, I like this post

So gents : That sexy lady online who you connected with above all others, and finally met offline, Was she what you expected? I've met two wonderful women face-to-face thru this site. Yes, they are exactly what I expected. But, as you know, I take my time, easy going. I'm not Russian, so why the rush

Were you, what she expected upon that first meet? I think I was, they each had pics of me, and several interactiongs online and by phone

Did the pics, the personality, the chemistry equate over and you got more than expected? I believe in reality, while I lust for heavenly creatures, I am a people person, and, I love "real", not fake, so, my expectations are set by various criteria being met, prior to the meet & greet

What did you expect on that first face face, if they lived out of town, out of province, out of State or out of country? like any relationship, trust is a big part of it, but, "buyer beware" also comes into play. I expect what I give, and, with the period of time before actual meet, one can expect the following: a) a breathing and alive woman; b) maybe, a deaf, dumb and blind melonlicious heavenly creature, but not always; c) a circus clown, or a rodeo clown, or a haunted hause clown, maybe even a comedian (all female); other criteria for her and my expectations are clearly stipulated in my Profile, and they have been met

If they were not what you expected at all and lied about everything and that includes their age and their body, did you still fuck them? As you know Joy, my sperm is sacred, I believe I am a descendant of the Incan dynasty, so, I have to ration it out to only the truest of all deserving women. So, no, if they weren't what I expected, I could not, in good conscience fuck their brains or eyes out. That would be such a waste of my essence

and, that's all I've got to say about that

be safe

Katie Pruitt - "Expectations"

Some days I can't get outta my own head
"You could start by getting outta bed", she said
One day, you know we'll both be dead
So why don't we do some living?
Some days I don't know who to trust
In the rain my spirit starts to rust
She said, "you're being way too generous...
With all the fucks you're giving"

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able202 63M
3108 posts
7/2/2020 8:03 pm

I have met some local ladies from AdultFriendFinder and we never exchanged pics. but when we met at Tim Hortons ( a first meeting place for coffee) she is quite what I expected and I guess I was too. (She didn't flee screaming) I think being honest about who I am and how I appear is the way to go. Or it could really bite you in the end. I am here for the fun and a good time and to offend someone or upset them is the farthest from my mind.
I am sure not all are of the same thoughts but they are easy to see......

Have fun and stay safe and healthy everyone...

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pal334 69M  
45821 posts
7/3/2020 6:18 am

So true, online causes some additional issues. When asked, I emphasize life is simpler with truth

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merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
7/5/2020 10:05 am

....honesty only... and completely upfront.... actually easy online.... avoids confusion and uncertainty later.....

....if and once you decide to meet, you can create the illusion in so many other wonderful and imaginative ways.... that keeps everyone wanting to come back for more.... and after all in the end, you will always be who you are.... wear it proudly and focus on those who like you for who you are.... you're gonna like the way you feel....


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