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Subspace and Orgasms  

aftrnoons 70M  
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10/28/2020 5:02 am
Subspace and Orgasms

Subspace is an altered state of mind. It is often described as floating in complete bliss and peace with the world blocked out. I think of it as the beginning and end of the movie, 'Gladiator' where he's floating along a field of grain. But how does one get there? How long does it last? What causes it?

The two ways I know how to get someone there is either intense prolonged pain (overload of adrenalin/other body counteractive pain drugs) or intense prolonged orgasms (overload of oxytocin). Not being into pain - giving or receiving (I'll give it you want it but it doesn't get me off) - I use continuous, non-stop orgasms that last for 3 to 20 minutes. Most women's orgasms last 3 to perhaps 8 seconds. It feels longer but if you time it? Nope, its pretty quick. But to have one that does not stop for 180 seconds, seconds - that's a different story.

The best length of time for me to give one is 5 minutes. She gets there and can stay there for half an hour or a bit more. A 20 minute orgasm though? She's there for at least 2 hours. Now when I say "she's there" that means she can't hardly move, nor does she want to. When she comes down from those clouds she's still not completely stable but, can at least sit up and walk straight. This time afterwards is called aftercare. No, you can't drive for a bit. So a 20 minute orgasm can keep you out of it for about 3 hours. A bit long for me to sit and wait, so, I prefer the 5, maximum minute (about 1.75 hours before stable).

The after affect can last for hours upon hours and even into another day. Without external negative influence it will gradually wear off after 1 or 2 days. Of course, a fight or some negative thing happening will quickly dissipate the oxytocin with other brain chemicals and you're back to normal.

What causes it? An overload of brain chemicals/hormones, etc. With pain (fear is also used) I believe it's probably adrenaline. With orgasms it's oxytocin. Oxytocin is called the "love drug" because it makes a woman feel close emotionally to whomever is giving it to her. It helps with bonding and trust and feeling close to someone. Every orgasm she has, it is released and is responsible for that wonderful feeling that orgasms give. Get an overdose of it and swoosh! You're taken to an altered state of being.

I love doing it. I enjoy giving immense pleasure. I enjoy getting a text the next day where she says her stomach and back muscles hurt and she just figured out it was from the orgasms. Arched back, pussy convulsing and clamping down so hard and sustaining that intense contraction, well, the muscles just aren't used to it. I enjoy discovering a woman's body - all her unknown erotic spots that make her pussy wet, nipples hard and takes her breath away. Yes, I enjoy that.

But it takes more than just mechanical knowledge. It takes trust. Just like the first time she squirts she thinks she has to pee but, no, hon, if you let it go you'll have a female ejaculation orgasm which is different that a clitoral or vaginal orgasm and is more intense and pleasurable. I whisper, "let it go." If she does she's shocked and then embarrassed. Yup, she's soaked the sheets. I have to tell her that it isn't pee - it is colorless and odorless. But she has to trust to let it go.

The same is true for the prolonged orgasm. Most often they're afraid they'll lose total control. Truth is, if you're in subspace you are 0% vulnerable because your mind is somewhere else. That takes trust let yourself go there and know that you're safe. So, it can take 3 or more sessions work up it. The oxytocin also encourages bonding and trust.

For me? Give her the various types of orgasms all at once, one right after the other. Pussy so contracted nothing can get in? Stimulate the clit. Clit a bit sore? Stimulate the pussy lips, if that g spot can get hit, do it, and back and forth keeping it going.

Mercy, I do so love success.

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