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Honesty?  

playfultaurus71 52F
10 posts
7/5/2015 1:27 am
Honesty?
Why is it that even a site like this, where your reason for getting together with guys is purely physical at least to begin with, men cannot be honest? I have hooked up with a few really fun men who at the end of our first encounter say they would love to do it again and never respond to my invites! The least you guys could do is say this was a one time thing and leave it at that! Also if tou think you are sparing yourself some drama or us some emotional let down, think again, we hate being lied to and then ignored more then we hate being used and tossed aside! Although, both acts just make you look like a total jackass when you could have just been upfront from the begining!!
53MichaelLee06 70M
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1 post
7/5/2015 2:10 am

 Well said. It is easier to tell the truth and enjoy the human connection. When a new connection is meeting for the first time, if both of you are positive this encounter will be heart felt. If there is a lie a negative message is sent out, the encounter is not pure. The negative message that was sent out and the negative power will keep grown, which will lead more negative in your life. In other words, your world will start bing bad to you and only get worse. At this point you must settle the neg msg you sent out to get back to good thing. All you had to do is tell the truth.

MB, 39 yrs retired USAF


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
7/5/2015 11:10 am

 I always try to be honest without being mean or hurtful...following The Golden Rule
Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


playfultaurus71 52F
3 posts
7/7/2015 5:16 pm

 I agree and some peoples plane is permanently grounded...lol!!


playfultaurus71 52F
3 posts
7/7/2015 5:21 pm

 The strange thing is once men realize they can be open and honest with me and receive a better more affectionate experience they are very honest with me, I just hate those one's that tell me they had a wonderful time and we will definately do it again, then never contact me again and ignore me when I contact them!! I am not looking for long term just a good fwb relationship, but to be friends you have to start with honesty not deception!!


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