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What is fair?
What is fair? So I was on IM today having a rare chat with a gentleman. He told me that he had found a party that was asking for single males. When he inquired he was told that single females and couples were free. Single males pay $80. The first thought that comes to mind is, what the hell? I understand that it does cost money to rent a hotel room. But at that price two guys or three at the most should be able to rent one hell of a room. Where is the rest going? So allow me to break this down on several levels. First, why is it just assumed or expected that it is correct to charge the man? Do we not have equality? I understand that many men make more money than women. There is a couple on AdultFriendFinder that clearly posts they will only talk to Gold members. I suspect that they feel it is their way of insuring great people. Just because you have money to spend on a gold membership, it does not make you a better person. So another way to look at this. You are a woman and are having a gangbang for you. Most men can cum once some twice. How many times can you cum? Me guess is several times more. So who is getting more out of the GB? Now in NO way am I suggesting that some how this leaves men off the hook. This does not mean that men now get in free and women have to shoulder the burden. How much is something worth to you? I gave a person I knew several years ago a car for free. The Dealer wanted to give me nothing for it so they needed a car at the time. Within a couple of months the car was backed into a pole and smashed the rear. Had the one door smashed in. Trashed inside and several others thing done to it. So to answer the question what is free worth? Nothing. So give a party away to women and couples it becomes worth nothing to them. Over charge the men and now they will feel they are entitled to something. Not to explain all the bad behavior of men here. But when you make one part pay the burden for everyone else what do you expect? There is a better way in my view. How about all pay some? Then all see a value. No one sex feels they are more special than the other because they are free or are supporting everyone else. |
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Another way to look at it is that the woman is a pro and this is another way to make money. Perhaps they are charging that much to keep some undesirable males out, but I'd have be cynical and say no
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Another way to look at it is that the woman is a pro and this is another way to make money. Perhaps they are charging that much to keep some undesirable males out, but I'd have be cynical and say no
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9/14/2016 2:34 am |
This is one of the reason that I have avoided the clubs, because the system is so unfairly rigged against the people that already in this setting have the least say. Now I could just be seeing the picture from the single male prospective, but if I am being asked to shoulder the burden solely because of my gender, what I hear is that you are asking everyone of my gender to just stay away. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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This is one of the reason that I have avoided the clubs, because the system is so unfairly rigged against the people that already in this setting have the least say. Now I could just be seeing the picture from the single male prospective, but if I am being asked to shoulder the burden solely because of my gender, what I hear is that you are asking everyone of my gender to just stay away.
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I thought the same thing also. But on your second point does charging more attract good guys? I say no. Just because you have $80 to get in or even more to go to several of the area Swing clubs, does not make you a great guy. How many of us know people that have money and are nasty and disrespectful? looking at a persons money is a terrible way to judge anyone in life. Almost any guy can find $80, and the most desperate would come up with the money just to be able to get into the room
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I like how we run the parties. Everyone chips in! THe reality is, the party is for everyone. Rather you chose to play or not is up to the individual, but our parties have more than just sex. Ofcourse, I usually comment, if you didnt get to play with June, its your own fault. LOL. June usually will play with anyone who asks her. I know that makes her sound desparent or easy, but the opposite is try. WHen she comes to play, she expect to play. And as our host pointed out, being a woman she can go and go and go. So it not uncomment for her to enjoy several people in a night. Again, who is getting the better deal.....the guys (especially when June shows up to play) or the ladies.
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