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My Connection or the Site, Is this Happening to You??  

nicelipss66 47F
51480 posts
3/13/2017 11:55 am
My Connection or the Site, Is this Happening to You??

The last 5 or 7 days, Very often. when trying to navigate the site, especially here on the blogs side. when trying to answer comments, write a comment or when trying to make a post, when I click send, most times won't happen. it will just sit there and then a message will come back saying, " This Site Can't be Reached". sometimes I lose everything I was typing. feels as if the site is very slow.

I value you and your comments. I am usually on top answering every comment people make in my posts, but is painfully to do it this way. please be patient. work with me. don't think that I am ignoring your comments if you don't see an answer. is very hard to answer or comment this way.

I will email someone from the site to see if they can help us out, No need to get angry people, things happen



Are you having this problem?




SiteSupport is visiting and commenting this post. if you have any questions or concerns. please leave it here for them. communication is important. but please be respectful about it.

UPDATE...I spoke to someone from the site, they will look in to it, is Monday, everyone is busy. Please make sure you also bring it to the attention of the IT department. that way they are aware that there is an issue with the site loading up.

2nd UPDATE. SiteSupport chime in this post. they were nice enough to come by to give us an update. If interested. Please read their comment below, to see what they said in regards to this issue.





nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 11:56 am

I had to send this post twice cause it didn't work the first time, see what I'm saying hahaha


let_me_see1 64M

3/13/2017 11:59 am

Yes, the entire site has been strange the past week or so. I have had a hard time switching from one place to another and it has been running much slower. The things we all put up with for a little sex, eh? LOL

Cum follow my blog and feel free to leave a comment. It's what makes the chat interesting!


wannafts2 53M

3/13/2017 12:18 pm

Site is extremely slow this eve . . . Grrrrr


brandygirasol 54T
673 posts
3/13/2017 12:23 pm

Girlfriend- Thanks For Posting This Because It Reassures The Rest Of Us Experiancing Similar Problems With The Site Lately. Hopefully The Slow Motion Sluggishness Will Clear Up Soon. Have A Nice Day!


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 12:42 pm

    Quoting let_me_see1:
    Yes, the entire site has been strange the past week or so. I have had a hard time switching from one place to another and it has been running much slower. The things we all put up with for a little sex, eh? LOL
Sex is very powerful thing hahaha


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 12:43 pm

    Quoting  :

Hahahaha Thank you, well go make the post then, give me that tribute


altlooking 69M
322 posts
3/13/2017 12:46 pm

Having worked with several software companies. I suspect the problems are all tied up in the database. That's where pretty much everything is stored like who viewed you, who's online, who's on IM. And I further suspect AdultFriendFinder has a pretty out of date database software.

I've done software testing too. And this site is poorly tested. That's why they fix one thing and break several more. They rushed to get a mobile app out and that caused innumerable problems. Automated testing usually cures a lot of ills. Before a build is ever released to the public, automated tests can be run overnight and by the time everyone gets back in, you have a lot of hopefully positive results. Or you immediately know what got broke in the build that worked before. It takes a hellova commitment and excellent management to be able to suck it up and not release software that they know is broke.
Software developers, bless most of their pointed little heads, love to release "cool stuff" to amaze everyone with what their fingers can do on a keyboard. But I've been associated with a few companies who reigned in their code cowboys and told them no new functionality until everything in the existing version was fixed. And you know what, the companies made money! The consuming public really wants shit to work, a lot more than kool stuff on a website. Its hard to convince the code cowboys of that, as they inherently want to outdo each other with kool stuff. Fixing bugs is mundane work. Albeit getting everything to just work right can be real profitable. Got to be some tough managers to get the fixes done right, and quick.

End of my rant for today. But I can assure you that things did work better the many years ago that I joined. Part of that is ppl here were more serious about actually meeting and playing. Seems like in expanding the user base, AdultFriendFinder brought in a lot more voyeurs, fakers, and fantasizers.

Maybe tomorrow will be better.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 12:47 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes, but AdultFriendFinder is actually one of the best sites on giving freebies to people, no one, sites or not, wants to give anything for free now days, is normal, cause at the end of the day, is a business. problem is. that some people got so used to having so many free features in here, that now they expect them to be free. but we can't blame AdultFriendFinder for all that either, I mean. if someone likes something. then they should also put a little bit out. problem here is that some people expect everything free. so they can sound as cheap as they accuse AdultFriendFinder.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 12:56 pm

    Quoting  :

What Aragon?


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 1:01 pm

    Quoting wannafts2:
    Site is extremely slow this eve . . . Grrrrr
Hey, good to see you {=}


zeke53028 65M  
1135 posts
3/13/2017 1:01 pm

I've been on this site for about 15 years, I don't remember a time when everything worked properly. The really sad thing is, AdultFriendFinder doesn't seem to care.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 1:01 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh, I didn't see that post


Skeemac 56M
589 posts
3/13/2017 1:12 pm

Have had lots of challenges over the past week....especially on IM. Really challenging today....site refusing to load etc.


wannafts2 53M

3/13/2017 1:18 pm

And you x. . Had you a good wkend?


HamburgDave2 80M
16526 posts
3/13/2017 1:28 pm

Hi Thalia, to use a Military expression the Site is SNAFU! "Situation Normal All Fucked Up"

Visit my Blog Older but no Wiser and find out more


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 1:44 pm

    Quoting brandygirasol:
    Girlfriend- Thanks For Posting This Because It Reassures The Rest Of Us Experiancing Similar Problems With The Site Lately. Hopefully The Slow Motion Sluggishness Will Clear Up Soon. Have A Nice Day!
Thanks Honey, same to you love, Have a wonderful Monday


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 1:45 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you...


Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
3/13/2017 1:48 pm

noticed the slowness, I watch cams sometimes and they have been crashing regularly.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 1:51 pm

    Quoting  :

I mentioned the problem. hopefully they will look in to it.


wantaplay8 71M
5606 posts
3/13/2017 2:40 pm

I have had a few messages like that but not due to commenting. I was browsing the site when I got that message. When switching between the various departments and blogs there is some lag time. I think a download update for the security program I use might be the reason for the lag time. The lag time seemed to increase after the download.


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
3/13/2017 2:48 pm

I couldn't get on at all the other day. I just quit. about 5 hours later when I tried, it was fine. I let IT know the time of the glitch

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
3/13/2017 3:23 pm

Same here just today. Took 3-4 attempts to answer a mail. I got it to go on the mobile part.


wouldyalikecream 54M
69 posts
3/13/2017 3:48 pm

Yes I've been having the same problem the past several days... Had it happen when I signed in earlier as well


scott6250 61M

3/13/2017 4:01 pm

I've had that problem a few times.

"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
3/13/2017 5:41 pm

I've had some days lately where it takes a while to log in to the site. I have to re-boot on occasions.


SomewhereNTX 62M
1624 posts
3/13/2017 5:50 pm

Evening,

I haven't had that problem in a while thankfully. Hope it clears up for you soon.

Are you expecting to be affected by the snowstorm?

Take care,
H


Lonely16842 59M
883 posts
3/13/2017 6:05 pm

The mobile site was screwy for a couple days but it seems to have been sorted out now


luvexotic 62M

3/13/2017 6:08 pm

no problems for me


Shots30 48M
2312 posts
3/13/2017 7:27 pm

Stay with it dear, we all know we are all busy and sometimes can't always answer. I have had a very slow connection or response from the site the past few days, so maybe there is something going on and it's not just you.

Keep doing what you do!

Cheers!


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 7:34 pm

    Quoting SiteSupport:
    We have been experiencing sporadic issues on the site the past few days due to some network changes we are making on our end. SiteSupport wanted to chime in to let you know that we are aware of the issues and are working to resolve the problem. We apologize for any inconvenience and appreciate your patience.
Thank you Guys, I am glad that you made it here to my post. I am glad the word got pass on to you

I appreciate your update in this post. that way everyone is aware that work is in progress.

Thanks again....Thalia


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 8:08 pm

    Quoting altlooking:
    Having worked with several software companies. I suspect the problems are all tied up in the database. That's where pretty much everything is stored like who viewed you, who's online, who's on IM. And I further suspect AdultFriendFinder has a pretty out of date database software.

    I've done software testing too. And this site is poorly tested. That's why they fix one thing and break several more. They rushed to get a mobile app out and that caused innumerable problems. Automated testing usually cures a lot of ills. Before a build is ever released to the public, automated tests can be run overnight and by the time everyone gets back in, you have a lot of hopefully positive results. Or you immediately know what got broke in the build that worked before. It takes a hellova commitment and excellent management to be able to suck it up and not release software that they know is broke.
    Software developers, bless most of their pointed little heads, love to release "cool stuff" to amaze everyone with what their fingers can do on a keyboard. But I've been associated with a few companies who reigned in their code cowboys and told them no new functionality until everything in the existing version was fixed. And you know what, the companies made money! The consuming public really wants shit to work, a lot more than kool stuff on a website. Its hard to convince the code cowboys of that, as they inherently want to outdo each other with kool stuff. Fixing bugs is mundane work. Albeit getting everything to just work right can be real profitable. Got to be some tough managers to get the fixes done right, and quick.

    End of my rant for today. But I can assure you that things did work better the many years ago that I joined. Part of that is ppl here were more serious about actually meeting and playing. Seems like in expanding the user base, AdultFriendFinder brought in a lot more voyeurs, fakers, and fantasizers.

    Maybe tomorrow will be better.
Thank you for the in put


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 8:11 pm

    Quoting zeke53028:
    I've been on this site for about 15 years, I don't remember a time when everything worked properly. The really sad thing is, AdultFriendFinder doesn't seem to care.
Thank you Zeke, They are working on it, SiteSupport was nice enough to came by this post to give us an update of what is going on. hopefully it will get fix soon enough.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 8:13 pm

    Quoting Skeemac:
    Have had lots of challenges over the past week....especially on IM. Really challenging today....site refusing to load etc.
Hi Mac, well SiteSupport is in this post, they were nice enough to come by, make sure to tell them about, you can quote their comment they left here. is all about communication. I am sure they will answer to you.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 8:17 pm

    Quoting wannafts2:
    And you x. . Had you a good wkend?
Not as good as I wanted but was good lol>>!


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 8:18 pm

    Quoting HamburgDave2:
    Hi Thalia, to use a Military expression the Site is SNAFU! "Situation Normal All Fucked Up"
Hahahaha that is funny but true Lol


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 8:19 pm

    Quoting Looknfind18:
    noticed the slowness, I watch cams sometimes and they have been crashing regularly.
Hello my friend. SiteSupport commented in this post. they are working on it, if you have any questions you can catch them here lol


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 9:02 pm

    Quoting wantaplay8:
    I have had a few messages like that but not due to commenting. I was browsing the site when I got that message. When switching between the various departments and blogs there is some lag time. I think a download update for the security program I use might be the reason for the lag time. The lag time seemed to increase after the download.
Thank you for the info and feed back


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 9:02 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh ok papi, Thank you very much my friend{=}


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 9:04 pm

    Quoting wickedeasy:
    I couldn't get on at all the other day. I just quit. about 5 hours later when I tried, it was fine. I let IT know the time of the glitch
Hello sis, Thank you for your feed back, SitSupport is commenting this post. so I am sure they will see what people is saying. you can also quote them to let them know of any problems. their comment is below


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 9:05 pm

    Quoting  :

Hi, Thank you, luckily SiteSupport is working on it.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 9:06 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Same here just today. Took 3-4 attempts to answer a mail. I got it to go on the mobile part.
Thank you very much for your feed back in this matter. SiteSupport is commenting this post. I am sure they are seen what people is saying here.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 9:11 pm

    Quoting  :

Hahahaha, you are a mess...but talking about that, I was late for dinner with a neighbor today, he invited for dinner at 5. I kept looking at my clock in the kitchen. it had 3:45 I figure I had another hour, call my neighbor to tell me when he is driving home. he said, I am almost there, I said, why so early, you said 5, he said, you forgot to forward your clock, is 4:45 I was like OMG, I was not even aware of the time change Lol, luckily I just had to go one floor down, so I was only 5 minutes late Haha


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 9:13 pm

    Quoting wouldyalikecream:
    Yes I've been having the same problem the past several days... Had it happen when I signed in earlier as well
Thank you, SiteSupport is in this post, I am sure they are reading.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 9:14 pm

    Quoting scott6250:
    I've had that problem a few times.
Thank you for the feed back Scott, SiteSupport is aware of the problem. I am sure they saw your comment.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 9:16 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I've had some days lately where it takes a while to log in to the site. I have to re-boot on occasions.
Thank you for your in put my friend. SiteSupport is commenting this post, I am sure they are reading everyone.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 9:17 pm

    Quoting SomewhereNTX:
    Evening,

    I haven't had that problem in a while thankfully. Hope it clears up for you soon.

    Are you expecting to be affected by the snowstorm?

    Take care,
    H
Hello my friend, been wondering where you been the last 2 days hahaha

No, is not the storm, cause is been happening a few days back. but SiteSupprot is visiting this post. they are on it.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 9:18 pm

Great, Thank you


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 9:20 pm

    Quoting Lonely16842:
    The mobile site was screwy for a couple days but it seems to have been sorted out now
Hello my friend. That is good, is good to know.

How was your Monday?


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 9:22 pm

    Quoting Shots30:
    Stay with it dear, we all know we are all busy and sometimes can't always answer. I have had a very slow connection or response from the site the past few days, so maybe there is something going on and it's not just you.

    Keep doing what you do!

    Cheers!
Thank you for the comment and participation my friend. well, SiteSupport is commenting this post. they are on it. hopefully very soon the problem will go away.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 9:23 pm

    Quoting  :

Hi Azriel, Thank you for the feed back. SiteSupport is visiting this post. they are aware. they are working on it.


rubio197226 52M
1309 posts
3/13/2017 9:56 pm

si te pone travas no puedes escribir en las cam te reprime si no pagas jajajajj SEGUND


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 10:03 pm

    Quoting rubio197226:
    si te pone travas no puedes escribir en las cam te reprime si no pagas jajajajj SEGUND
Si, eso e escuchado


SomewhereNTX 62M
1624 posts
3/13/2017 10:40 pm

    Quoting nicelipss66:
    Hello my friend, been wondering where you been the last 2 days hahaha

    No, is not the storm, cause is been happening a few days back. but SiteSupprot is visiting this post. they are on it.
Morning,

Well I've been out and about having fun and working.

Are you expecting much snow from the storm? Talking to some friends who either have had or are expecting 10 to 20 inches. I am not envious. It's a bone chilling 70 down here and sunny.

H


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/13/2017 10:44 pm

    Quoting SomewhereNTX:
    Morning,

    Well I've been out and about having fun and working.

    Are you expecting much snow from the storm? Talking to some friends who either have had or are expecting 10 to 20 inches. I am not envious. It's a bone chilling 70 down here and sunny.

    H
They are talking about 6 to 7 inches, but that was a guy giving the weather, and you know, guys always increase a few inches, so it will probably be 4 to 5 inches Bahahaha


SomewhereNTX 62M
1624 posts
3/13/2017 11:10 pm

    Quoting nicelipss66:
    They are talking about 6 to 7 inches, but that was a guy giving the weather, and you know, guys always increase a few inches, so it will probably be 4 to 5 inches Bahahaha
Hi,

Know all about how we males have issues at times. Have to tell you sometime what I did to a poor waitress, maybe over dinner.

H


BIANCHI61956 68M
183 posts
3/14/2017 6:41 am

I am having a problem with this site......when viewing cams and try to chat the chat window greys out and a small window pops up asking to upgrade...............I wonder if anyone else is having the same problem or has one of the haters abused the available abuse button and shafted me?


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/14/2017 9:53 am

    Quoting SomewhereNTX:
    Hi,

    Know all about how we males have issues at times. Have to tell you sometime what I did to a poor waitress, maybe over dinner.

    H
Really, now I can't wait


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/14/2017 9:55 am

    Quoting BIANCHI61956:
    I am having a problem with this site......when viewing cams and try to chat the chat window greys out and a small window pops up asking to upgrade...............I wonder if anyone else is having the same problem or has one of the haters abused the available abuse button and shafted me?
That is probably a setting letting standards members know that in order to chat on cams they need to upgrade.


judias_06 46M
18 posts
3/14/2017 11:19 am

I've noticed a few issues here and there, but then again the net is always going sideways somehow somewhere. It always clears up eventually.

Thanks for the friend request too, I've always enjoyed reading your posts.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/14/2017 11:56 am

    Quoting judias_06:
    I've noticed a few issues here and there, but then again the net is always going sideways somehow somewhere. It always clears up eventually.

    Thanks for the friend request too, I've always enjoyed reading your posts.
You are right, eventually it gets fix. no need to panic, is nothing major.

Thank you Judias, Glad that you enjoy my blog. I see you also follow it. I thank you for that too{=}


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
3/14/2017 2:09 pm

I had trouble getting on here over the last 3 days. They solved the problem


destinedforlust 56M
190 posts
3/14/2017 2:37 pm

Yes the site has been unreachable at times my messages have disappeared but they eventually come back but the most aggravating thing is the chat hasn't been working and I cleared my cache multiple times.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/14/2017 4:42 pm

    Quoting Leegs2012:
    I had trouble getting on here over the last 3 days. They solved the problem
Nice, good to see that is working for you papi.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/14/2017 4:46 pm

    Quoting destinedforlust:
    Yes the site has been unreachable at times my messages have disappeared but they eventually come back but the most aggravating thing is the chat hasn't been working and I cleared my cache multiple times.
Hey papi, Thank you for your feed back. SiteSupport is visitng this post. I hope they read your comment in here. Thanks for participating. is important to come forward, so SiteSupport has an idea of what is a problem out there.

I hope they get an answer for you in here


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/14/2017 4:47 pm

    Quoting swadegardner:
    I have found that JPEG images are the most computer friendly. If the image is not JPEG then you have to open with paint and resize it and convert to JPEG. Quality is lost when resizing. Not sure if this helps at all sweetheart.
That does help, thank you for the tip hot man{=}

Btw, love your new profile picture


spicyfunguy 61M
205 posts
3/14/2017 5:26 pm

I have problems on this site all of the time. sometimes when I am chatting the messages do not go through or do I get the messages from the other end. it sucks because being a standard member, it costs me points to do anything and I cannot tell you how many points are wasted because of glitches in this site. it really takes the fun out of this site but there never is an issue taking the money. I lose so much in both points and $$. not fair


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/14/2017 6:21 pm

    Quoting spicyfunguy:
    I have problems on this site all of the time. sometimes when I am chatting the messages do not go through or do I get the messages from the other end. it sucks because being a standard member, it costs me points to do anything and I cannot tell you how many points are wasted because of glitches in this site. it really takes the fun out of this site but there never is an issue taking the money. I lose so much in both points and $$. not fair
Makes sense, if your message never makes out, I guess the points are taking anyways. cause of the glitch, but hopefully it will be taking care or fix asap by SiteSupport. I hope they read your message and chime in if they have anything to say or add in regards to your message.


SomewhereNTX 62M
1624 posts
3/14/2017 7:49 pm

Well lovely lady I guess that just leaves one question.

Your city or mine?


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/14/2017 9:03 pm

    Quoting SomewhereNTX:
    Well lovely lady I guess that just leaves one question.

    Your city or mine?
Mine, that way I have field advantage


SomewhereNTX 62M
1624 posts
3/14/2017 10:00 pm

    Quoting nicelipss66:
    Mine, that way I have field advantage
The gentleman will gladly grant the lady the home field advantage at the earliest opportunity. It be most enlightening to discover how the lady plays her advantage.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/14/2017 10:07 pm

    Quoting SomewhereNTX:
    The gentleman will gladly grant the lady the home field advantage at the earliest opportunity. It be most enlightening to discover how the lady plays her advantage.
Nice, I like that....papi, go check my "I need a handy man post to nail down" post, is from today, not sure if you saw it already haha


kwin533 42M
35 posts
3/25/2017 9:56 am

my isp is not very good so I have those problems most of the time.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
3/25/2017 11:04 am

    Quoting kwin533:
    my isp is not very good so I have those problems most of the time.
But I think, in part is the site server, cause it is happening to a lot of us, I have great connection everywhere else, but today, I been struggling here. pages don't seem to download all the way.


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