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Anal Sex - How Important Is It?
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Anal Sex - How Important Is It? I wonder if I am like the only 47 year old anal virgin in the Universe?! ... This seems to have a great appeal to most men - being the first. I had a relationship where this was like his main focus. Actually, it was more like he was obsessed with it. Apparently, he seemed to think that it was okies to withhold my basic needs until I "gave it up". Well, it was a bit more graphic, but, you get the point. It made me feel like a business transaction - not very flattering. I think at this point in my life, there is a strong possibility that I will go to my grave an anal virgin. While I am okies with this, I do sometimes think bout sharing this with someone. The rite someone. For the rite reasons. I don't want to be "convinced" - "coaxed" - and so on ... What I need is to trust someone to such an extent as to explore this with - in my own time. The natural order. What I need is to want to share in this with someone ... On a scale of 1 to 10, where does anal fall on your scale? Would you give up a great relationship based solely on the anal sex factor? In Luv, Lite, Laffter ... |
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It doesnt matter so much to me if I do or dont its your choice if you want to
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How's trix? To answer your question, I'll give it 6-7. If it was "a great relationship" then no single item should be able to tear it apart. A sexual relationship has to be about trust. If we don't care about the other person, we can just as easily jerk off. Have a great day. Ciao, a presto, Bella. G
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Well you know doll it's something a lot of men love, and some women do too..its like some women can only orgasm that way. For me I think its more about who your with, and if you do have anal sex you must be extremely relaxed and he's got to know what he's doing. Anal sex is not something one can rush into so in saying that..thats my take on it.. my friend!!!Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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For the male, it is a completely different feeling. The walls are tighter making the pulsations more profound. IF done properly, MOST women love it. Be safe, relax and just have fun!
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Some women love it, some hate it. I only do it if she want's to. Doesn't matter if we do it at all or not.
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I am a 48 year old anal virgin. So you are not the only one in the universe.
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I am not a virgin, tried it, hated it, I find it disgusting and nasty. You owe it to no one if you don't want it. If he dumps you because of it, so be it. It is your body. Never let anyone dictate to you what to do.
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like most things there are people who love it, like it, can take it or leave it, or don't want it all. it's not something i have to have but when my partner wants anal i am more than willing to comply.
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IF you try it, have him use LOTS of lubricant and then BACK into him. That way you control the level of penetration. Be safe, relax and just have fun!
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Doesn't matter to me one bit, if wife or our girlfriend wants it I do it if not then I don't put pressure it. To me its what ever pleases her, so nope it wouldn't be a deal breaker
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anal sex is fine IF and WHEN a woman desires the experience. it cannot be forced or coerced. sex of any type is only meaningful when it is between consenting eager participants
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I always wondered hoe it be doing anal. But I am also ok not to do it. Given the chance yes I would.
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How receptive was he to you exploring him too?? I love it, be it rimming, fingers, toys or actual anal sex. It feels amazing and so, so tight.. But it has to be down with such care. It must be for and about both of you, not just him.. I am open to a woman explore there with me too. Something we can somewhat share the same feeling of... It is not an every time thing (requirement) for me, but I do want it to be on the menu every now and then..
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How receptive was he to you exploring him too?? I love it, be it rimming, fingers, toys or actual anal sex. It feels amazing and so, so tight.. But it has to be down with such care. It must be for and about both of you, not just him.. I am open to a woman explore there with me too. Something we can somewhat share the same feeling of... It is not an every time thing (requirement) for me, but I do want it to be on the menu every now and then.. In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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Do you like receiving and/or giving other anal play? Fingers, toys, rimming?? I just enjoy all of it. It doesn't have to happen every time, but I do enjoy when I am eating a woman's pussy to also rim her ass and finger her ass if she likes that..
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Do you like receiving and/or giving other anal play? Fingers, toys, rimming?? I just enjoy all of it. It doesn't have to happen every time, but I do enjoy when I am eating a woman's pussy to also rim her ass and finger her ass if she likes that.. In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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I happen to love it. Then again, as you know, I am on the masochistic side  But I was lucky enough to have someone who was able to talk about it first, my fears and worries, and who really eased into it (pun intended). These days my orgasms are heightened when I have my ass played with and even though it took me a long time to try it, I'm extremely happy that I did. 
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I happen to love it. Then again, as you know, I am on the masochistic side But I was lucky enough to have someone who was able to talk about it first, my fears and worries, and who really eased into it (pun intended). These days my orgasms are heightened when I have my ass played with and even though it took me a long time to try it, I'm extremely happy that I did. In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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I do agree - tho men can be extremely fickle. Yes, woman can too ... In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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