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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
15137 posts
8/7/2018 11:30 am
Strip Clubs


Men who go looking for a girlfriend in a strip club have always amazed me.
The girls who work in the strip club and there for the money.... it's not a singles club.... but still...... some men chose to attempt to date these girls......

AND ... they are HURT and FEEL USED when these girls move on to the next guy.....
after all his money is gone......

How do you feel about dating a woman you met at a strip club???

Would you date a woman you met at a strip club..???

Just want to see how a guy feels about this.....

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 11:32 am



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1salesman3 69M
7623 posts
8/7/2018 11:34 am

I would not.


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 11:37 am

maybe if you met her some where else.... but not if you meet her at work...

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funsnellvillecpl 66M/54F  
3901 posts
8/7/2018 11:37 am

not a chance in hell , been to a few over the yrs ( not many ) but have no interest


Sflguy04 66M
310 posts
8/7/2018 11:38 am

Nope, they are beautiful and sexy however still just entertainment


hotime585 72M  
153 posts
8/7/2018 11:50 am

NO WAY !!!


nwilm4u2 68M
454 posts
8/7/2018 11:56 am

Only if she wanted to be with me. With in most cases only in my dreams!!


OldrHarleyGuy 72M

8/7/2018 11:58 am

Used to hang out in the clubs in my younger years, back in my mid 20's. Met up with a beauty back then and we began dating on the side, that lasted for almost 25yrs until we had a misunderstanding about marriage and a couple of other things.

Would I go back again? Yes, but not for finding a dating partner at a club.

Would I date another girl from a club? Yes, as long as it's of with mutual interests and gratification, not just for the sex or money, if it turns into that, then it's simply prostitution and one can find that most anywhere anymore, even here on this site.


Riderprider73 50M

8/7/2018 12:01 pm

I can't see how you can date someone you met from a strip club. Yes, some of the women are hot and yes, I will admit, I would love to fuck them. But realistically, I can't see it happening.


_IKanCu2_ 105M

8/7/2018 12:04 pm

aaaaahhhhhhhh Yes. ][t has been over 30yrs. since ][ have been to any Club/bar.
Yes, ][ would date a woman from the S-Club/Bar "if" She] WAS that into (\/)e.
][t*z a work place for these "Entertainer*z" nothing more.
Some Men know this, the numb Horn-d0g majority don't, No sympathy/support from Me for them.
][ once knew a guy that got LucKy with a Lady from the club. S/-/e was 12yrs. his senior.
Only recently did ][ hear that S\-\e had just passed away. They made a Great Pair.
][ know /-/e won't re-hook up again, /-/e is still that into /-/er as S/-/e was him.
Yes,,, ][t does happen, What join*z a Man & Woman together is their business, BLeSSeD by God.
This ][ Know ~
]✨✨~✨✨ We are Sorry ,,, The GoDDeSS Yu have reached,,, ✨✨~✨✨
✨✨~✨✨ is Totally Out of Yur Area,,,✨✨~✨✨
Please,,, C/-/ecK Yur GoDDeSS*z ][mage,,,
,✨✨~✨✨ and Try Yur \\/\\/is//-/ again.,✨✨~✨✨
✨✨~✨✨ tY***✨✨~✨✨



luvs2grin 51M
358 posts
8/7/2018 12:17 pm

I dated a few strippers when I was young and in the army, and my eyes were wide open but it was all short term dating. If it's just a job and we met outside it, maybe but it would be the same as anything else - what's her character like. Because that's what is important, if you are paying for everything to keep someone interested, they are an escort and you are paying for their time. That never interested me.

It seems quite different now, a few months ago - I was at a strip club with a woman I was seeing and the dancer came on so hard she gave her phone number to her. Before we left I had to laugh after the "stripper" said to her, text me, it'd be fun to go shopping together. She had already talked about going out to dinner and drinking with us. I can't imagine that being anything but a hint: buy her things to take her home, which doesn't interest me or the woman I was with. We were just there to watch, then go home and have our fun!

Being married was as close to paying for sex as I want to get. Sex is way more fun when it's about mutual satisfaction and fun. Not a business deal. IMHO

That was one stripper/one time, and I have met others who were not like that, just there to work the crowd and go home. Nice women, most of the time.

And the snazziness or expense of the club doesn't matter at all, as everyone is different and some are more desperate for cash than others...


needsfun9988 55M

8/7/2018 12:25 pm

Better chance of finding true love in a strip club than the Browns winning the Superbowl!


rick315875 65M

8/7/2018 12:30 pm

I've never been to a strip club. A waste of money.


1234tomtom1234 58M
32 posts
8/7/2018 12:40 pm

I see nothing wrong with dating a stripper on an emotional level. If your personalities match up and you have great chemistry, what a person does for a living shouldn't change that.
Having said that I think the sexual aspect of the relationship might be unsatisfying. After spending the whole day being naked, propositioned, groped and rubbed is she really going to want that when she gets home. A mechanic always has the worst looking car on the street, a teacher never has children of their own and an athlete rarely watches their own sport for pleasure.
So if your looking for a great partner with a limited sex life I say go for it.


Story435 76M
3791 posts
8/7/2018 1:07 pm

No have never even tried to date a girl in a strip club. Only been two lol. I would say not a good place to find a date. Some of the girls are married.
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MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
8/7/2018 1:38 pm

Did I just read "being married was as to close to paying for sex...." WTH????


Gspotlicker4fun 64M

8/7/2018 1:54 pm

I wouldn’t date a stripper. They’re just after the dollar!


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
8/7/2018 2:16 pm

Of course I would - DID (briefly) actually.

But I didn't met her there, and I THINK I was more than a pay-pig to her. I ADORED hearing her stories!!

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:03 pm

    Quoting funsnellvillecpl:
    not a chance in hell , been to a few over the yrs ( not many ) but have no interest


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:04 pm



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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:04 pm

    Quoting OldrHarleyGuy:
    Used to hang out in the clubs in my younger years, back in my mid 20's. Met up with a beauty back then and we began dating on the side, that lasted for almost 25yrs until we had a misunderstanding about marriage and a couple of other things.

    Would I go back again? Yes, but not for finding a dating partner at a club.

    Would I date another girl from a club? Yes, as long as it's of with mutual interests and gratification, not just for the sex or money, if it turns into that, then it's simply prostitution and one can find that most anywhere anymore, even here on this site.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:04 pm

    Quoting _IKanCu2_:
    aaaaahhhhhhhh Yes. ][t has been over 30yrs. since ][ have been to any Club/bar.
    Yes, ][ would date a woman from the S-Club/Bar "if" She] WAS that into (\/)e.
    ][t*z a work place for these "Entertainer*z" nothing more.
    Some Men know this, the numb Horn-d0g majority don't, No sympathy/support from Me for them.
    ][ once knew a guy that got LucKy with a Lady from the club. S/-/e was 12yrs. his senior.
    Only recently did ][ hear that S\-\e had just passed away. They made a Great Pair.
    ][ know /-/e won't re-hook up again, /-/e is still that into /-/er as S/-/e was him.
    Yes,,, ][t does happen, What join*z a Man & Woman together is their business, BLeSSeD by God.
    This ][ Know ~

    ]
    ✨✨~✨✨ We are Sorry ,,, The GoDDeSS Yu have reached,,, ✨✨~✨✨
    ✨✨~✨✨ is Totally Out of Yur Area,,,✨✨~✨✨
    Please,,, C/-/ecK Yur GoDDeSS*z ][mage,,,
    ,✨✨~✨✨ and Try Yur \\/\\/is//-/ again.,✨✨~✨✨
    ✨✨~✨✨ tY***✨✨~✨✨



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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:05 pm

    Quoting luvs2grin:
    I dated a few strippers when I was young and in the army, and my eyes were wide open but it was all short term dating. If it's just a job and we met outside it, maybe but it would be the same as anything else - what's her character like. Because that's what is important, if you are paying for everything to keep someone interested, they are an escort and you are paying for their time. That never interested me.

    It seems quite different now, a few months ago - I was at a strip club with a woman I was seeing and the dancer came on so hard she gave her phone number to her. Before we left I had to laugh after the "stripper" said to her, text me, it'd be fun to go shopping together. She had already talked about going out to dinner and drinking with us. I can't imagine that being anything but a hint: buy her things to take her home, which doesn't interest me or the woman I was with. We were just there to watch, then go home and have our fun!

    Being married was as close to paying for sex as I want to get. Sex is way more fun when it's about mutual satisfaction and fun. Not a business deal. IMHO

    That was one stripper/one time, and I have met others who were not like that, just there to work the crowd and go home. Nice women, most of the time.

    And the snazziness or expense of the club doesn't matter at all, as everyone is different and some are more desperate for cash than others...


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:05 pm

    Quoting needsfun9988:
    Better chance of finding true love in a strip club than the Browns winning the Superbowl!
lol

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:05 pm

    Quoting rick315875:
    I've never been to a strip club. A waste of money.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:06 pm

    Quoting PreferNudity:
    Back in the day I paid a few girls' rents like they were my girlfriend. I dated a former stripper between marriages. She kind of clued me in on how it worked in her mind. She said there were a few guys that she looked forward to seeing walk through the door because they were nice, tipped very well and understood what was (or wasn't) going to happen. She said there were guys she knew she was going to extract every last dollar from because they had the idea they were going home with her (and who was she to give them any other idea?).

    I'm sorry... what was the question? Oh! I probably would not date a woman currently employed as a stripper.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:07 pm



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Isttime4us 64M/64F

8/7/2018 3:24 pm

so what's the difference between a strip club and AdultFriendFinder ? either way it's women using sex to manipulate men for their own personal gain


Horny_Cat68 55M  
582 posts
8/7/2018 4:46 pm

Never really saw the appeal of strip clubs, some of the women are decent enough looking I suppose, but all they want is your paycheck, so would I date one? Maybe, as long as I didn't meet her there, or know that's what she did. When I was younger though, I did date a Hooters girl.

I love the way you make me horny without even doing anything.


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
8/7/2018 4:47 pm

I swing so I would love and have dated Strippers.


luvexotic 62M

8/7/2018 7:36 pm

Not something I would do


A1Xpleaser 65M
417 posts
8/7/2018 10:22 pm

Not interested in strip clubs nor the women there. Guess I'm a bit pickier. Looking for a better standard.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
8/7/2018 11:06 pm

First, I would date a woman from this site, if any of them wanted to date me!
Secondly, Yes, I have dated a gal who was a stripper, I 1st saw her at the club that I went to a total of 4 times in my entire life, but we didnt meet there. It wasnt until a weec later that we met, while I was on my delivery route. I conversed with her at least 3 times when I was deliviering, and finally as ed her out, never telling her I new her occupation. We dated for over a year, and SHE told ME on our 1st date what her occupation was, no appologies, she just wanted to let me noe. She also didnt want me to visit the club, neither when she was worccing or not. We had a lot of fun in that year, but as most who DO go to such clubs noe, fresh bodies are required after awhile, and she moved to Chicago (450 miles from me) to continue her carrear. We lost trac about a year later when she moved again.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/7/2018 11:17 pm

Strip Clubs .... Variety pack.

Men who go looking for a girlfriend in a strip club ....Are taking a short cut, and even if he did find one, she couldn't see him outside of the club, because club managers don't want their girls dating [having sex with] the customer outside of the club. She could lose her job there.

Although, better if the male does not "Look" for the girlfriend". Men who are doing something right in their life, tend to have women looking for him.


The girls who work in the strip club are there for the money. ... The girls who do NOT work in strip clubs are looking for men with money [a successful man]. So really either way.

If you did manage to become bf and gf with a stripper...you would have to accept that she is grinding on at least 20 to 100 men a night. And some of those guys are looking a girlfriend.

.. it's not a singles club... ......In a way , it is a single club... even if the guy is married... or if the stripper is married [and has kids at home]. For twenty bucks [up to however much you want to drop on her], you're both getting the "Singles experience".
The funny thing is, the guy just spent 20 bucks on a chick, but instead of for drinks and dinner, he just paid her for what he really wants a woman for, then she goes away.... perfect.

The perfect scenario outside of a strip club? You meet a woman, she says, "Hi , I'm horny, lets fuck", and in a few minutes you're in bed together.

but still...... some men chose to attempt to date these girls...... ... Well sure. What's the stripper doing that a non-stripper is doing ? She doesn't have all her clothes on. That's all. Absolutely nothing different between a stripper, and the girl you just meet by chance any where else. They both want a man with money....they both will walk away when you have no money. So what the hell...... take a chance and see if she'll go out with you........ but of course, lots of clubs don't allow their women to date [have sex with] the customer outside of the club.

AND ... they are HURT and FEEL USED when these girls move on to the next guy..... ..... Good experience for the world outside of the club.. Women look for successful men. Women will move onto the next guy if you don't have what it takes.

after all his money is gone...... In what reality does that never happen? None. Women will seek a better man, [trade up], if those women can attract better.

How do you feel about dating a woman you met at a strip club? ... Pretty much the same as dating a woman from here, or any other place you meet her.

Would you date a woman you met at a strip club..? ... If she was there for a lap dance? Sure.
If she was the stripper? Sure.

Keeping in mind that "Dating" means "To have sex with", and "Dating" is typically not exclusive anyway. The guy who would have problems is the guy who wants a commitment and exclusivity from one of these girls.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/7/2018 11:21 pm

    Quoting  :

"Date" means "To have sex with". So men on this site do want to "Date" some of the women on this site.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/7/2018 11:25 pm

    Quoting MissCinders:
    Did I just read "being married was as to close to paying for sex...." WTH????
He's right. You married women are basically legal prostitutes, and if you get a divorce, you get a bonus check.


Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
8/8/2018 4:34 am

I did date a stripper one time, although I met her outside the club. She always separated work and play.


lyavu 50F
1538 posts
8/8/2018 4:36 am

Men think with dicks not brains .


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 5:55 am

    Quoting Isttime4us:
    so what's the difference between a strip club and AdultFriendFinder ? either way it's women using sex to manipulate men for their own personal gain
A huge difference..... I'm only on here to blog and make on line friends.... and for the most part... I keep my clothes on. meeow

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 5:55 am

    Quoting Horny_Cat68:
    Never really saw the appeal of strip clubs, some of the women are decent enough looking I suppose, but all they want is your paycheck, so would I date one? Maybe, as long as I didn't meet her there, or know that's what she did. When I was younger though, I did date a Hooters girl.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 5:56 am

    Quoting Leegs2012:
    I swing so I would love and have dated Strippers.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 5:56 am

    Quoting  :

Do you have more pics?

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 5:57 am

    Quoting LakeRidgeBBWSeek:
    First, I would date a woman from this site, if any of them wanted to date me!
    Secondly, Yes, I have dated a gal who was a stripper, I 1st saw her at the club that I went to a total of 4 times in my entire life, but we didnt meet there. It wasnt until a weec later that we met, while I was on my delivery route. I conversed with her at least 3 times when I was deliviering, and finally as ed her out, never telling her I new her occupation. We dated for over a year, and SHE told ME on our 1st date what her occupation was, no appologies, she just wanted to let me noe. She also didnt want me to visit the club, neither when she was worccing or not. We had a lot of fun in that year, but as most who DO go to such clubs noe, fresh bodies are required after awhile, and she moved to Chicago (450 miles from me) to continue her carrear. We lost trac about a year later when she moved again.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 5:58 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Strip Clubs .... Variety pack.

    Men who go looking for a girlfriend in a strip club ....Are taking a short cut, and even if he did find one, she couldn't see him outside of the club, because club managers don't want their girls dating [having sex with] the customer outside of the club. She could lose her job there.

    Although, better if the male does not "Look" for the girlfriend". Men who are doing something right in their life, tend to have women looking for him.


    The girls who work in the strip club are there for the money. ... The girls who do NOT work in strip clubs are looking for men with money [a successful man]. So really either way.

    If you did manage to become bf and gf with a stripper...you would have to accept that she is grinding on at least 20 to 100 men a night. And some of those guys are looking a girlfriend.

    .. it's not a singles club... ......In a way , it is a single club... even if the guy is married... or if the stripper is married [and has kids at home]. For twenty bucks [up to however much you want to drop on her], you're both getting the "Singles experience".
    The funny thing is, the guy just spent 20 bucks on a chick, but instead of for drinks and dinner, he just paid her for what he really wants a woman for, then she goes away.... perfect.

    The perfect scenario outside of a strip club? You meet a woman, she says, "Hi , I'm horny, lets fuck", and in a few minutes you're in bed together.

    but still...... some men chose to attempt to date these girls...... ... Well sure. What's the stripper doing that a non-stripper is doing ? She doesn't have all her clothes on. That's all. Absolutely nothing different between a stripper, and the girl you just meet by chance any where else. They both want a man with money....they both will walk away when you have no money. So what the hell...... take a chance and see if she'll go out with you........ but of course, lots of clubs don't allow their women to date [have sex with] the customer outside of the club.

    AND ... they are HURT and FEEL USED when these girls move on to the next guy..... ..... Good experience for the world outside of the club.. Women look for successful men. Women will move onto the next guy if you don't have what it takes.

    after all his money is gone...... In what reality does that never happen? None. Women will seek a better man, [trade up], if those women can attract better.

    How do you feel about dating a woman you met at a strip club? ... Pretty much the same as dating a woman from here, or any other place you meet her.

    Would you date a woman you met at a strip club..? ... If she was there for a lap dance? Sure.
    If she was the stripper? Sure.

    Keeping in mind that "Dating" means "To have sex with", and "Dating" is typically not exclusive anyway. The guy who would have problems is the guy who wants a commitment and exclusivity from one of these girls.
I always enjoy reading your responses.....

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 6:00 am

    Quoting lyavu:
    Men think with dicks not brains .
most of the time

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 6:01 am

    Quoting  :

Good point!!!

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Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/9/2018 7:33 pm

I enjoy thinking about your questions.


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