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tolerance and the box of crayons  

LiveLifeDoU 69F  
1163 posts
9/5/2016 10:19 am
tolerance and the box of crayons

First, I will give credit where credit is due....GymDandy created a blog about the Box of Crayons yesterday. Though I was not able to comment as he set it up so only friends could comment, I was able to read his opening blog...and some of the comments.
I can't contact Gym and ask permission to use his idea for this blog so I am hoping he doesn't mind.



In Gym's blog, he used the word 'tolerance' towards others, because we all do choose to live in the same 'box'....and there are a rainbow of different exciting, beautiful colors in the box. Each of us is unique.



We don't have to live in the same box. We do have the choice to leave the box or to just ignore the color next to us if we don't like that color.

Tolerance is a word used a lot in the blogs these days. The dictionary defines tolerance as 'the ability or willingness to tolerate something, in particular the existence of opinions or behavior that one does not necessarily agree with'.

I would add to that...it also means (for me anyway) to tolerate something you do not agree with, without using unkind words towards the other party.
It means respecting the other colors in the box enough to let them be their own color with no repercussions.

We are all different...unique....we all have something special to contribute toward the beautiful picture created with all the colors in the box.

What does tolerance mean to you?
Have you had a personal experience in your life, where you showed kind tolerance toward someone or they showed it to you?

I am inviting everyone to comment on this colorful subject on this Labor Day Monday....

however, I will be approving messages before they post so that there are no angry, hateful, bashing words here....from anyone
That is what blogging is all about...a safe place to let your views be known without all the anger in your face.

Take care and have a great day!


LiveLifeDoU 69F  
2199 posts
9/5/2016 10:19 am

required first post...


ranchomongo 70M

9/5/2016 1:23 pm

tolerance means just what you said.. i tolerate everything, i tolerate KKK and hate speech, i tolerate , all religions, i tolerate, people that don t believe in gods.
i ll tolerate people that are gay , lesbian , bi sexual, trans sexual.
that's tolerance.


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ranchomongo 70M

9/5/2016 1:56 pm

i have another thing to ask...
isn't there a saying , something about,
being a few crayons short of a full box.
yikes.


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Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
9/5/2016 6:26 pm

great post, we all should pay attention to this


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
9/6/2016 10:30 am

The willingness to tolerate something, like opinions or behavior that you do not necessarily agree with.

One question I would pose is: Are people who can’t tolerate a lack of tolerance in effect being intolerant?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


LiveLifeDoU 69F  
2199 posts
9/6/2016 11:47 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    The willingness to tolerate something, like opinions or behavior that you do not necessarily agree with.

    One question I would pose is: Are people who can’t tolerate a lack of tolerance in effect being intolerant?
In my opinion, and I can only speak for myself....if I try to communicate with someone and the only opinion they think is valid is their own and they start to bad-mouth me for thinking the way I do and not agreeing with them, to walk away is not being intolerant...it's being reasonable, taking care of oneself...you sometimes must pick your battles in life and when someone is as I describe above, it's not a battle to even meet in the middle...
I am still tolerant of their ideas, I just don't happen to agree with them and I am not going to get into a fight....

Thanks for the question! It's a good one!


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
9/6/2016 4:11 pm

I think it's fairly obvious what it means, so I'll say that one thing it does not mean is an indifference to harassment and abuse. I suppose that instead of defining tolerance here I'm simply defining the limits of my own tolerance. I don't care for word games or clever attempts to distract our attention with them. The notion that we must tolerate intolerance is absurd, as is the notion that my own objection to an intolerant act is the moral equivalent of that initial act.

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LiveLifeDoU replies on 9/6/2016 5:19 pm:
wow, very well put, kzoo! Seeing this from a different viewpoint...love it I may ask to steal some of this as you have put into words my thoughts exactly!

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
9/6/2016 6:22 pm

LiveLifeDoU replies on 9/6/2016 8:19 pm:
wow, very well put, kzoo! Seeing this from a different viewpoint...love it I may ask to steal some of this as you have put into words my thoughts exactly!

The comment is yours- I gave it to you freely.

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goodatpoetry2 74M
16552 posts
9/8/2016 10:00 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    I think it's fairly obvious what it means, so I'll say that one thing it does not mean is an indifference to harassment and abuse. I suppose that instead of defining tolerance here I'm simply defining the limits of my own tolerance. I don't care for word games or clever attempts to distract our attention with them. The notion that we must tolerate intolerance is absurd, as is the notion that my own objection to an intolerant act is the moral equivalent of that initial act.
I was just going to write something very similar, but Kzoo said it so well that I'm just agreeing with his statement.


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