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Let's talk about sex  

Jadzia11 55F
145 posts
5/31/2021 12:33 pm
Let's talk about sex


I understand the basics of this website, I am not an idiot. We are all looking for something. Whether we find it or not is the question.

That being said I also am very aware there is a lot of conversation revolving around sex. I have no problem with that if it is what you want.

I however do not want it ALL THE TIME! I have no issues discussing sex and what I like and do not like. However, if you are serious about getting me into a position that it is going to happen between us, you need to be able to have a conversation about something other than sex once in awhile.

I am not a prude, so let me put this out there, if you read my profile and blog, you do not have to ask these basic questions and we can move on. For if you can stimulate my mind, my body is much more willing to follow.

I love sex, I enjoy having it on a regular basis (most of the time it is with one of my toys recently, I have 3). I do not really have a favorite position, I believe that as long as both are having fun and it feels good, there are multiple positions that we can do in the course of one go round.

Oral - I enjoy oral, both giving and receiving. My personal preference is that it leads to more activities that involve you being inside more than my mouth. However yes sometimes a blow job is not a problem to be given just for the fun of it. But be warned I may expect the same courtesy from you at another time.

Women want to get off just as much as men, so if you think I am only in this to get you off, you are grossly mistaken and if you cannot or will not put effort into my<b> orgasm </font></b>then I am going to lose interest in you really quickly. My blog, my opinion don't like it, don't read it.

Threesomes - I have had MMF ones and liked them very much. Have never done the MFF ones because I am NOT into women. I tried it once, was not interested and no desire to try again. Women are beautiful creatures but I am not attracted to them. Would I do one again, sure if I found the right 2 men.

Anal - Yes I have done it, am I a huge fan no. Will I do it again, possibly but it does depend on the situation. Honestly here is a place where size does matter to me. If you are huge IT AINT HAPPENING. That shit hurts if you are not careful. Typically I just do not prefer anal. Again this my blog and my preference, if you do not like that oh well, you are not in my bed right now to have that discussion with me.

Public/Outside Sex - Not a fan, there are times and places where it can happen outside, but you are not going to find me having it where there are a lot of people around. Now if you want to go for a walk in my back 40 for a natural experience, there is a chance that could happen. But be prepared for all of nature, there are critters and bugs out there. Another reason I prefer my bed.

Car sex - That too depends on the situation. I have absolutely had sex in a car, but it is not something I feel the need to do these days. In my opinion that is a younger persons game. I have a house and a super comfy bed that I would rather put to use. It also allows for more changing up of positions and activities that can be done. However, I have also given a blow job or two while on the road. For this I have to trust your driving. If you cannot navigate us safely down the road, I am not putting my life at risk for your pleasure.

Alternative Lifestyle Sex - I feel this covers a broad spectrum of sexual experiences. If you have read any of my previous blogs, you might have seen that I have been involved in past activities that have been both Domme and sub. I prefer being a sub. I was taken as a sub and taught how to be a responsible Domme and even lived that lifestyle for several years with a wonderful man. It was a lot of work. Not just the regular relationship work, but being a responsible Domme work. I loved the man and liked the role, but it was not something I felt 100% comfortable in and he and I discuss that a lot. It was NOT a one sided relationship by any means. Had he not passed away, I would not be here, but would still be with him. He was THE one. We all have that one.

I do not think for any other man I would be able to actively step into that role and maintain it again.

As a sub, I have very few issues. I know most of my limits, a few have been tested deeply and yes I know where that line is. Others have not been pushed, so those might in fact be softer limits, but I may not really know until I find the right man that can test them with me safely. Trust is HUGE in that type of relationship.

I know there are tons of other topics in the realm of sex that I have not covered and if there is an opportunity between you and I, and you choose to bring them up, we will have that conversation.

That being said, if you truly want to get in my pants on a regular basis, you had better be able to talk to me about things that are not just sexual in nature. Intrigue me, make me laugh, regale me with your life experiences and I will probably find you very attractive and want to take my clothes off for you when we are at the point where sex is the thing we are discussing.

Because once a man has gotten me to that point, I am all about the sex and not only will want to talk about it, will be wanting to get both of us naked to put into action all that we have discussed. You might just be surprised to here me whisper in your ear how much I want you to fuck me!

CoffeewBaileys 66M  
81 posts
5/31/2021 7:15 pm

thats tellin it like it is!
Sex is a great topic... but, ya know! Too much of a good thing can ruin a lot.
So you are spot on about that
Meanwhile, the confidence of knowing what you want and throwin it out front is to be admired.
Seems you've explored a lot...
but inside, you want much more.
and whats more, i dont think you are afraid to reach for it.

the sweetness of cream
the PERKiness of caffeine
the ambrosia-like elixir of....
Coffee~w/Baileys


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