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"Alpha" males  

Red_Elf 50F
578 posts
9/25/2016 12:05 pm
"Alpha" males


So, when a guy mentions he is an "alpha male," it does NOT strike me in any way as being appealing. For one, if you have to announce it, I rather view it in the same light as someone who feels they have to tell someone they are ethical...or they don't like drama. I see those people as the most likely to be the opposite of what they say...or the cause of drama...

It looks bad.

I immediately think "toxic masculinity," and "fragile ego."

These are the assholes who think I have to have a penis to have an original idea or have any credibility. These are the assholes that create unsafe environments. These are the assholes who run asshole companies and are assholes to their employees These assholes are people I want nothing to do with. NOT INTERESTED.

If you want to impress me...start with some fucking humility and then...only then...maybe I'll think we have something to talk about.

You can see all this at Urban Dictionary, fourth entry on the topic:

"The term 'Alpha Male' can be defined in both a classical and modern sense. The classical definition derives from the animal kingdom and represents a physical form of dominance over other males. The alpha male lion, for example, claims sexual rights to all females, fights off other male lions to enforce it, eats first after every hunt and dominates a vast territory of land for hunting rights.

In a modern/human sense, younger males (teens, early 20s) will subscribe to the classical form. Like a lion, they will often be the strongest, most intimidating, hit on all of the women beta males want, are usually the first to have new sexual experiences and often dominate a set territory in thier 'hunt' for new women, such as local nightclub scenes.

Older alpha males, however, will evolve the classical traits of stength, intimidation and dominance beyond the physical by gaining power over men through thier very means of living and professional reputation. A powerful business executive, for example, will hire, promote, demote and fire others according to how well they serve his own interests. Rock stars, famous actors and other individuals of 'power' hold very simular capabilities over others in thier respective professions.

Younger alpha males who cannot mature into the modern form will usually cling to the classical form of alpha-maleness for as long as possible."

Just fuck male dominance. NOT INTERESTED.

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boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
9/25/2016 9:09 pm

Usually assholes! Plain and simple!


Blueyesilverfox 48M
1 post
9/26/2016 12:07 am

Alpha Males always came across as trying too hard to be the strong dominant man, often to the point of being misogynistic. They also tend to have that double standard male attitude and are usually superficial and selfish. You can be a dominant strong man without the hubris. And a strong dominant man isnt afraid to relinquish control every once in a while to please a woman, especially since a confident man knows he can take it back whenever he likes


Red_Elf replies on 10/3/2016 3:50 pm:
Are you saying that a man can take it back even if she doesn't want him to? Because that's how it comes across...and...no bueno, Silver.

Fervent7 55M
457 posts
9/29/2016 11:32 pm

LOL. Good (and, more often than not, apt) descriptions, all.


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
10/19/2016 2:49 am

Is this at all inspired by current events?


Red_Elf replies on 2/8/2017 9:06 pm:
It's just what I see on profiles and I have a strong gut reaction to.

londonbridge1992 43M
356 posts
2/25/2017 12:37 pm

Interesting.


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