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Married / attached As much as I try to avoid them, I can't at times avoid getting involved with a married or attached person. They either don't tell you - and if it says single on their profile, I actually assume they are and don't think to ask. Or they blatantly lie. Every person has their reason to be on here, single or not, and I don't judge them. But I really don't want to get involved in someone else's relationship, possibly hurting someone I don't even know and who's done nothing wrong to me. In my opinion, if your relationship sucks, you fix it or end it. I don't want to hear about the sad stories and how you're not getting any. So many times I've heard and read on here from attached guys who aren't happy at home, but have you actually considered what it's like for the 3rd person involved? To be left alone after you storm out the door back to your Mrs when you're done feels pretty rotten. It says on my profile I stay clear of attached people and I don't understand why some guys don't honour that and keep their distance. I know I'm "all about men" in this post. There'll be lots of women as well who do the exact same, but since I'm here to meet men and I have no experiences with attached females, I've left them out of this . x |
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I've read a lot of posts on this topic. Many are angry rants, I suppose intended to put dishonest players in their place. I'm skeptical that those rants are very effective. You've managed to discuss the topic clearly succinctly and with compassion while still asserting your own needs. I'm gratified to read a post that doesn't castigate all people who are seeking extramarital sex- I know and have known bloggers here who have what I consider a legitimate reason for looking outside their marriages for sex. For the most part I agree with your "fix it or ditch it" rule, but there are justifiable exceptions. I have a wonderful male friend on the site whose wife is ill and unable to have sex. He loves her and feels a duty to care for her, but he still needs and wants sex. I don't suggest that his situation is common- I have no idea how often that occurs- but it does happen. Good post! Short, sweet and to the point. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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One grumpy married person disagreeing with everyone on this blog 
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Who wants to be a side dish? I prefer to be the main course. When I encounter a "married/attached" man, I am always baffled at the way they are not able to take no for an answer. Of course, its always my loss....blah blah blah. Then I get asked why am I here. Nonsense. Ummm, sometimes I wonder why I am here but I am NOT here to help anyone cheat!!!!
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it is always better to be honest in a profile
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I'm a terrible liar, so I've never lied to anyone about being married. Some single guys think it's even hotter to be with a "taken" woman. Lucky me!! Have a great day, and be nice to one another.
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Well Said  Visit my Blog Older but no Wiser and find out more
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I am totally single and only interested in totally single people. I have no interest in attached people.
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Same here, I'd rather not get involved and be the third person in a relationship and all the issues that brings. Sadly there's a lot of women who declare themselves single. Well, initially they do. They create a single female profile then the text begins, "Looking for a third person to play with me and my husband", or "Husband knows I'm on here". So create a Couples profile then!
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