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the Key to great sex
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the Key to great sex Now there are all sorts of pills, lotions, toys, books, magazine articles, conferences, self-help groups, weekly meetings, wives tales, magic lamps, what-have-you that discuss sex; how to do it, how to explore, different positions, different locations, physiological stimuli, mental engagement, the list is quite literally endless. What i want to talk about today is literally the most basic element to a pleasurable sexual experience. Ladies, I have a penis and if this doesn't work for you send your complaints to your local SJW (ie: someone who cares). LUBRICATION. Ah yes, lubrication; the grease to your wheel, the slip to your slide, the curl to your toe, the steak to your potatoes. There are, of course, myriad products to choose from ranging in price, color, sparkles, packaging, labeling, notoriety, occasionally function (apparently ky is essential), and general fluff. What none of these things provide is real lubrication - they provide synthetic substitutes; and if you aren't the type to try and milk a cow for some "all natural" lube maybe you should figure out what you're doing. Ladies, this is useful anytime you choose to pleasure your partner so it may pay dividend to pay attention. The body provides all necessary ingredients for premium lubrication; in all aspects of the body but today we are only focusing on one - you guessed it, your dick. Contrary to popular opinion, and likely popular demand, good lubricant takes awhile to make; you can't just spit on it, or squeeze something out of a bottle; and every time you shower you have to start over again - for those of you who work dirty jobs this is going to be a gigantic pain in the ass and i apologise for that but it can't be helped; good lubricant should be left on your cock in the same manner you leave oil on your tools in the garage; if you leave them dry they WILL get rusty. Onto the nuts and bolts of crafting a superior lubricant. This comes from many years experimentation with all sorts of techniques but the cornerstone of any great lubricant is about 50% spit and 50%sweat; and by sweat i mean the clear glaze slowly leaking from your phallus like an expectant flood after you've been properly stimulated. I've also notice spit will vary in consistency, and scent, quite considerably depending on diet, hygiene, and which side of the bed you woke up on. Ideally you want a liquid that is slightly more viscous than watery. If you're a mouthbreather now is the time to develop good habits. Once you feel prepared, and in the mood, massage your tool with a spitshine. Find your stroke, and if you need it some visual stimulation, and keep a casual & consistent pace until you flow over like an overfilled honeypot. You will have to reapply spit if it dries, this is normal. Once you've begun producing the other component to your lubricant, begin mixing the two; for some it will take some time to produce an adequate amount of sweat - this is normal, my only advice is to reapply spit to prevent the whole thing from drying out. If it does dry out you haven't lost time or effort, simply reapply spit and continue onward. Once you find your personal lubricant, you will find even masturbation is more enjoyable. So quit fucking yourself and put some time into it; if you slam your partner dry regularly you're probably beyond hope and should invest in a doll because that isn't going to last long. The best part of understanding, making, and using your own lubricant is that it mixes incredibly well with a properly lubricated female. If you do it right you can smell like great sex for the rest of the day, and possibly even save yourself a few dollars on cologne. Cheers~ |
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