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Blogs > gymrat1974 > ManwranglerJen

You could at least say hello first  

gymrat1974 49F  
1056 posts
8/12/2016 9:01 am
You could at least say hello first

I receive emails and IMs all the time from men asking me to meet them for sex. That's it. That's the extent of the correspondence. There's no introduction and no pleasantries. I'm always astounded when I receive these messages. I often have to tell people that I am not into randomly hooking up or even agreeing to randomly hook up without having ever met someone first. And then I'm not the least bit disappointed when I don't hear from them again. I'd rather that happen before any meeting than after. Truth be told, I'm not even sure that I would want to embark on any sort of relationship with someone who was prone to randomly hooking up with people. Beyond not being the safest activity in which one could participate, it doesn't even seem sanitary. Of course, I cannot honestly state that I have never hooked up with someone I didn't know very well, but I always felt a little bit guilty and dirty and shameful about these acts. This is all the more reason not to participate in such activities in the future. And I simply cannot imagine feeling desirous of sleeping with someone who didn't recognize those feelings and even feel the same way about things himself. I mean, do you really want to engage in sexual acts with someone whose screening process was limited to whether or not someone said yes? It doesn't matter what type of site we are on. A little decorum never hurt anyone.

ReBar100 57M
4167 posts
8/12/2016 11:14 am

 You are coming across people with no screen process at all, with the exception of they are picking you so they have good taste. Although no sense of decorum.
Rebar100
Just the right amount of wrong. Occasional participant in various ongoing blogging projects. Rather be naked. The Blog: [REBAR100]


iwalkstilts 48M
2869 posts
8/13/2016 5:22 am

 I agree.


gymrat1974 49F  
557 posts
8/19/2016 8:05 am

 Thank you.


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