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Blogs > gymrat1974 > ManwranglerJen

A moment in time  

gymrat1974 49F  
1057 posts
3/18/2017 2:42 pm
A moment in time

Sometimes you discover you would rather have been a friend than a one night stand. Consider all options before you proceed.

Sure, I know most of us are here for one reason and one reason only, and once we've satisfied that, we can move on to the next one. Some of us are a little deeper than that, though. Sex is everywhere. No, it really is. You can always find someone to fuck you. But can you find someone who has pretty eyes? Or a great smile? Or a sarcastic wit? Someone with whom you wouldn't mind having a cup of coffee? Someone you could be friends with whether the clothes ever come off or not? Consider what you're likely giving up for the sole purpose of<b> getting off. </font></b>You can't un fuck someone, but you can always call or text someone just to say hello again...and maybe you'd find that you even want to one day.

boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
3/18/2017 3:45 pm

 Very very true! I like to think of my partners as an investment! I want the relationship to grow and grow!


gymrat1974 49F  
557 posts
3/18/2017 4:00 pm

 I agree. I don't like one night stands. I don't know why you'd let someone get that close to you just to never speak to him again. I prefer to maintain some sort of friendship at least.


Steve1xxx5 57M
Ask me for a photo

3/18/2017 5:04 pm

 I much prefer to get to know someone first, and to see them more than just the once. That way you get to know what each other likes most, and both can enjoy the encounter more as each knows they are pleasing the other, not just themselves


gymrat1974 49F  
557 posts
3/18/2017 5:15 pm

 This is definitely true.


iwalkstilts 48M
2869 posts
5/29/2017 12:40 pm

 I prefer friends over one night stands. Sex is usually better with someone ya know and always better with a friend.


gymrat1974 49F  
557 posts
5/29/2017 4:43 pm

 I thought he and I were friends. I am sure he just saw an opportunity and took it.


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