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Just recently I chatted with 2 ladies via email on here and we exchanged some responses and then silence. Doesn't hurt much to say "not interested" and be on your way but that's how it is. I messaged a few other ladies and they were nice enough to reply not interested and others just never bothered to reply. As for friends on here, it happens. Sometimes there are issues going on at home or work and tough for them to be online anymore.
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Thanks I often wonder the same thing
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I will agree with hinj1 for the feeling I get if I left a comment on a post and then days later all other comments have been quoted or responded apart from mine. But will try once more, to make sure, as some get too many comments to possibly respond to all! And a big amount of comments discourages me somehow at commenting at all. May be it shouldn't, but I don't want to be an extra weight to the poster. On those occasions I also try later, another posting maybe without 300 comments. Now, if you are just contacts, the silent treatment is a fast way to make you not interested. Having friends do that should not be troubling. Just a faster way to lose interest. I agree that some value our friendships, here or real life, but surely after a couple of not answered back messages, for me, if my friends can do that, why be friends in the first place? Whatever is going on, as a friend I would need to know. If not, then maybe they are not as good friends as I thought of them.
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5/4/2017 12:31 pm |
In my case I went silent when the site decided to obliterate my profile. I used to be sexslave59 but all of a sudden they decided to shut me down. No reason given and when I inquired about it they said I did't exist. I've been on here for over 6 years and some of my quotes are still visible. Decided not to deal with their service department and re-created my profile.
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There is a huge difference between friends and acquaintances.With friends there's a good chance you'll know the reason. I think this parallels responding to messages.No is owed a reply on why they've gone silent.With the ease of multi profiling they'll probably re surface.Which would make me think this is all that their life consists of . Using more than all the road!
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