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Khalil Gibran's "The Prophet"...on Women...Men...and orgasms  

Sayantanee4Chat 32F  
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8/6/2016 1:35 am
Khalil Gibran's "The Prophet"...on Women...Men...and orgasms
This is specially for the philandering husbands who claim that they are here because their wife cannot satisfy him
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If you really understand the thing, first make the woman’s whole body vibrate. Put on beautiful music, perfume; dance together. Let her be prepared. Her whole body has to be in a certain readiness, in a certain excitement.

Afire with desire and longing to meet and merge.

But men are afraid, because the woman is capable of multiple orgasms, and they are finished with one ejaculation. It's not an orgasm. Orgasm is something spiritual. If he provokes the woman’s whole body, then she will demand that she be satisfied. And till she is unsatisfied; she will remain continuously irritated, annoyed, angry, nagging the man. These problems are the by-products, because she is not satisfied.

There are millions of women who have never known what an orgasm is. A woman can know orgasm only when her whole body functions like a musical instrument. When her whole body starts dancing within – each nerve, each cell – only then she is capable of having an orgasm.

To make her whole body orgasmic IS the function of the foreplay. But men are always in a hurry. What is the point of wasting twenty or thirty minutes when the work can be done efficiently in three minutes? And many women have chatted with me on IM that when their lover /husband is finished, they have not even started. And once he is finished he turns, and goes to sleep.

He has used her.
His purpose is fulfilled.
He falls into sleep.
And over a period of time her sexual desire goes to sleep.
rm_sexy_soni_83 40F

8/6/2016 2:58 am

 absolutely great and truth about the depth of the real understanding of the women as a feminine soul that is made quite differently than the masculine soul. the moment and day men have the real love and intent to put themselves in the position of their female partner and be completely selfless in ensuring that women has to be put in the musical harmony like the harmony in nature she will not be in for the right music... however this means lot of effort and only someone who is selfless lover who want to give want to see other smile who want to see other to reach the true heights of ecstasy will take the plunge into it and make that extra and meaningful effort. sex is not a physical but an act of selfless love that transcends all physical boundaries and goes beyond the mere play but becoming non-different than the one u want to love...


manoj_p2000 37M
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8/6/2016 3:12 am

 hi , very good written here in ur blogs i think every word is true,


prem8623 45M
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8/6/2016 6:50 am

 very nice blogg


FunLover2017 52M
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8/22/2016 1:41 am

Why all women saying this? Wonder...


dombull_del 56M  
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8/22/2016 11:40 pm

 pretty true except that many times women use sex as a weapon to get their wishes fulfilled and that too is a big spoiler for great sex.


eroticroleplayer 42M
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8/24/2016 5:09 am

 I cannot speak for the men who finish first, cause I derive immense joy by seeing a woman hit orgasm after orgasm. it's something as a male I cannot have, I can ejaculate and probably hit orgasm once, and that's about it. A woman's body has many erogenous places unlike a male body. Call it foreplay, after play or whatever, but you have to explore that fine art every single time!


morein13 39M
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8/25/2016 2:43 am

 I Agree with that. Most of us men does the same.
So it's all about mutual satisfaction. It doesn't always end up with ejaculation.


Myluvspcl 40M
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9/10/2016 1:41 pm

 nice blog..really worth reading.


Myluvspcl 40M
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9/10/2016 1:44 pm

 well just to add..a man can still manage to make the lady have the orgasm after his ejaculation with his tongue/fingers.Just he needs to breathe a bit of fresh air and start again in 10 -20 mins.


pusherperfect 47M
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9/23/2016 12:18 am

 Nice post appreciate writing skill.


Ccuntfucker 34M
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10/13/2016 2:09 am

 what about single,s who complain that the woman had orgasm before he could ejaculate


elixirl09 44M

5/10/2019 12:55 am

 i think every word is true,


counterdreams 46M
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2/14/2020 3:57 am

 Its great to hear a woman's perspective. After reading this it is also that the way a man and a woman gets aroused is very different. Like you said it take time for a woman to get aroused.. there are many different ques that need to fall in place.. I think i am culprit to your story. what i perceive is that a long foreplay is a must for a woman to get into the mood . not to mention the setting , environment, efforts taken. As a man i would love to hear more practical clues from you to make sure you have excited your partner.. i understand that its different for different people but you have to try and see what works.
hope you can posy some pointer for us males here.


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