Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now

Didn't I see you yesterday??  

secret_lade 49F
14311 posts
4/3/2020 2:33 am
Didn't I see you yesterday??


As you all know, I'm considered an essential worker and am still required to get up and go to work every day. I don't get time off with pay during this, I don't get to collect unemployment if I choose to take a LOA to keep myself safe, and now I get to sign in to come to work each day and fill out a questionnaire and have my temperature taken.

Fantastic!

What's worse??

Being treated like a fucking pariah by shit head customers because I go to work each day to service their shit head fucking needs.

To the guy with the mask on who yelled at my coworker to get out of his way so he could walk past...

Stay the<b> fuck </font></b>home.

I saw you at 3pm Tuesday walking toward me as I headed to the front of the store. You went out of your way to create a big scene to distance yourself from me as I walked past.

I saw you Wednesday Morning when we opened early for the Aged / Immuno-compromised customers to shop.

And I saw you AGAIN yesterday when you were yelling at the bagger who had bagged your groceries because she remained standing at the end of the turnstile, keeping her 6 ft distance from the cashier who rang up your groceries.

You fucking asshole, keep your fucking ass home. If you are so worried that we, the essential workers, are carriers of the contagion, you should not be going to the store every goddamn day.

STAY HOME!

We ALSO worry about becoming ill. We ALSO have families that we go home to that are important to us. We ALSO have FEELINGS!

I hate to break it to you, Asshole, but probably 100 people touched the products in your cart, many of them customers who were shopping in the store before you. They pick it up, read the ingredients, check out the health information, put it down. Someone may have sneezed while walking past it. As much as I hate to see it, parents still bringing with them as they shop throughout the store, touching everything with unwashed hands.

The least of your worries is a cashier who you have to walk within 6 ft of.

Your mask isn't going to save you when you're at home, opening up that box of cheese its that's been touched by someone with the virus.

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/10/2020 2:49 pm

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    First off thank you for working. I am not fan of shopping, but it is on a whole new level. Some stores have taken great measures, from cleaning, to marking spaces etc. Think what might good idea is arrows on floor to keep moving one way. I can only imagine what you see all the time. Thank you and have great day.
thank you... That means a lot. People are just crazy right now, they've lost all sense of manners and decorum.


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
4/10/2020 4:49 am

First off thank you for working. I am not fan of shopping, but it is on a whole new level. Some stores have taken great measures, from cleaning, to marking spaces etc. Think what might good idea is arrows on floor to keep moving one way. I can only imagine what you see all the time. Thank you and have great day.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/4/2020 11:58 pm

    Quoting jolielaide:
    I agree. You have that much panic and fear?? Keep it to yourself.
It's those people that get everyone else all riled up. Others see it and without thinking about it emulate that same behavior.


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
4/4/2020 4:40 pm

I agree. You have that much panic and fear?? Keep it to yourself.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/4/2020 4:24 pm

    Quoting  :

You are right... A little bit of grace can go a long, long way.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/3/2020 11:50 pm

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    Hi secret_lade

    thanks for sharing

    it's ok if you want to add some of the songs I post to your song list, then, you can go into your office, put your head phones on, and chill for a few minutes every day

    thanks for doing what you do

    it's important for all of us to do the best we can during this event

    it will get better

    times like these don't bring out the best in people as they cannot cope

    it's hard on everyone

    be safe

    "let good energy be your strong"

    Pharrell Williams - "Just a Cloud Away"

    This rainy day is temporary
    The contrast is why we got 'em
    'Cause sun shining through is just a cloud away way way way way way
    Way way way way way way (hey baby!)
    So what you blown a fuse (you blown a fuse)
    Well that happens to us all (that happens to us all)
    When I come with great news (i come with great news)
    The day could change (change) change (change) change (change) change (change)
    We've all, of course, been there before
    Been there cryin', fightin', the dark
    Let good energy be your strong
    Won't get away way way way
I know it will get better..... But I also know it is going to be even worse first. It's disturbing to see how disposable some customers view us as. We're dealing with a lot.... Product shortages, panicked people, monitoring for illness, a constantly changing work environment, insecurity and anxiety.....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/3/2020 11:43 pm

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    have to say more people are wearing masks and gloves yet as wife was picking out chop meat this woman walks over and stands inches away from her she not wearing a mask I say 6 ft way not inches cant believe people can be so rude we past her up a few more times shopping then I walk up to check out there she is loading her shopping bags. guess will meet again some day …..
The biggest complaint from our stickers is that customers don't think twice about invading their space. "I'm just going to grab this real quick...." Uh, no! We also are entitled to our 6ft safe space Ass hat.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/3/2020 11:40 pm

    Quoting  :

I had a couple ask me where our home fragrances were yesterday. As we were walking toward the isle I heard the guy tell his wife... You're right, we need to do this more often. Even if we don't buy anything, it's good to get out.

Really?!?


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/3/2020 11:37 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    I worry about the people that are still out there working...like you...and me. But at least I'm not around the general public and people you described here. I just wish I could take advantage of the special times for the Aged / Immuno-compromised customers to shop, but I'm busy working during those hours. So even though my immune system is shot and I have asthma, I'll be out shopping with the rest of the hoards. Maybe I should carry a can of beans....just in case...
Yes, carry those beans!! Do you have any retailers that do curbside pick up? That way you wouldn't have to expose yourself to the masses.... I'm a little worried for you now.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
4/3/2020 9:12 pm

Hi secret_lade

thanks for sharing

it's ok if you want to add some of the songs I post to your song list, then, you can go into your office, put your head phones on, and chill for a few minutes every day

thanks for doing what you do

it's important for all of us to do the best we can during this event

it will get better

times like these don't bring out the best in people as they cannot cope

it's hard on everyone

be safe

"let good energy be your strong"

Pharrell Williams - "Just a Cloud Away"

This rainy day is temporary
The contrast is why we got 'em
'Cause sun shining through is just a cloud away way way way way way
Way way way way way way (hey baby!)
So what you blown a fuse (you blown a fuse)
Well that happens to us all (that happens to us all)
When I come with great news (i come with great news)
The day could change (change) change (change) change (change) change (change)
We've all, of course, been there before
Been there cryin', fightin', the dark
Let good energy be your strong
Won't get away way way way

To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog:

Good luck!!!


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
4/3/2020 6:59 pm

have to say more people are wearing masks and gloves yet as wife was picking out chop meat this woman walks over and stands inches away from her she not wearing a mask I say 6 ft way not inches cant believe people can be so rude we past her up a few more times shopping then I walk up to check out there she is loading her shopping bags. guess will meet again some day …..


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
4/3/2020 4:16 pm

I worry about the people that are still out there working...like you...and me. But at least I'm not around the general public and people you described here. I just wish I could take advantage of the special times for the Aged / Immuno-compromised customers to shop, but I'm busy working during those hours. So even though my immune system is shot and I have asthma, I'll be out shopping with the rest of the hoards. Maybe I should carry a can of beans....just in case...

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/3/2020 2:56 pm

    Quoting tickles4us:
    Fear brings out the worst in people. Just think what the future holds for the countries government's after all this and the resulting economic crash that is just getting going. How many people like Trump might get elected around the world by scared fools.
The one thing that's been bothering me most during all this.... Is, how is this going to effect the economy when it's all said and done. I might have some gripes and concerns, but every day I am thankful I still have a job I'm going to.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/3/2020 2:53 pm

    Quoting tickles4us:
    The refried bean can firing squad!
OMG! Love it!! Ha ha ha ha


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/3/2020 2:53 pm

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    Similar or same thing happening at every grocery store, department store or any other store that is open across the U.S. !!!! My daughter deals with it every day at her grocery store where she works as a checker !!
There's a special place in my heart for the cashiers. They're dealing with a lot of shit right now.... Between having to put quantity limits on items that are being hoarded and orders that are over $500 to $1000 because people are taking the shelter at home thing seriously.... Those cashiers deserve some recognition.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/3/2020 2:50 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    This is just the sort of arse piece who has hoarded enough bogroll to last a decade, probably 2 decades, because he's too selfish to share his space with anyone else........not that anyone else would have him! F'n prick!

    I for one am eternally grateful for the key workers who are risking everything to keep us all fed and watered. Thankyou McLade, you're a diamond!
well thank you, lindoboy, that was very kind. And, you're probably right.... I'm sure he has an entire closet filled with toilet paper. Toilet paper and masks....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/3/2020 2:47 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I've seen that asshole, too! Cutting me off while I was waiting my turn. Blocking the aisle with their cart! That's it! Where's my can of beans!!!!!
Yes! Where is that can of beans??? That fat little toad has a bullseye right in the middle of his forehead.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/3/2020 2:45 pm

    Quoting wanna4playU:
    you tell him! people are such inconsiderate assholes...it's not even funny anymore!
I was just talking about it with a few of my work friends. We are SO over it all... And, it just keeps getting worse. The more the media talks about it all, the worse the customers get. I know they're all scared and feeling anxiety... But, we're in that boat too.


tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
4/3/2020 7:46 am

Fear brings out the worst in people. Just think what the future holds for the countries government's after all this and the resulting economic crash that is just getting going. How many people like Trump might get elected around the world by scared fools.

Vive La Difference


tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
4/3/2020 7:41 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I've seen that asshole, too! Cutting me off while I was waiting my turn. Blocking the aisle with their cart! That's it! Where's my can of beans!!!!!
The refried bean can firing squad!

Vive La Difference


WyoCowboy7751 70M
2537 posts
4/3/2020 6:01 am

Similar or same thing happening at every grocery store, department store or any other store that is open across the U.S. !!!! My daughter deals with it every day at her grocery store where she works as a checker !!


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
4/3/2020 5:12 am

This is just the sort of arse piece who has hoarded enough bogroll to last a decade, probably 2 decades, because he's too selfish to share his space with anyone else........not that anyone else would have him! F'n prick!

I for one am eternally grateful for the key workers who are risking everything to keep us all fed and watered. Thankyou McLade, you're a diamond!


mc_justmc 63M

4/3/2020 3:55 am

I've seen that asshole, too! Cutting me off while I was waiting my turn. Blocking the aisle with their cart! That's it! Where's my can of beans!!!!!


wanna4playU 56M  
265 posts
4/3/2020 3:41 am

you tell him! people are such inconsiderate assholes...it's not even funny anymore!


Become a member to create a blog