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The Discovery
The Discovery I didn't realize how mysterious the fact that I had an ex-husband was to my coworkers... That they've sat and pondered what kind of guy I would find myself married to. I was headed to punch in and get my intake screen this morning when I was stoped by a coworker. "I finally figured out who your ex-husband is." "You did? How did you figure it out?" "He was talking to your , out there, and I asked him if that was his dad. I talk to that dude all the time, I had no idea that was your ex-husband." "Yah, he's a pretty talkative guy." "So, yah, not what I expected you to be married to." I laughed and continue to the back to get my screen. I hear that comment often... He couldn't be ANY more different from me if he tried. People often assume that I would have been married to a guy in a suit, someone working in an office somewhere. They assume he's tall and sophisticated with a great sense of humor. In actuality he is short, shorter than I am now as he is experiencing spinal compression and bone loss from alcoholism. He works in rough construction so he is rough around the edges... Sometimes unshaved, always in work boots, and his sense of humor is lacking. Sometimes things are best kept a mystery. |
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Most of us have the “what was I thinking” past. I do know I was not the same at 22 as now. I hope I am more aware now.
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Isn't it strange how love never matches expectation McLade? He must be a good man. I guess we all have our demons.
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Most of us have the “what was I thinking” past. I do know I was not the same at 22 as now. I hope I am more aware now.
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Isn't it strange how love never matches expectation McLade? He must be a good man. I guess we all have our demons.
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Hi secret_lade thanks for sharing another layer I remember, a few years ago, we were at a Happy Hour with co-workers, and, this lady introduced us to her ex-husband everybody's mouth was open in astonishment this lady that we worked with was very bright, and career driven she got things done I did not picture her being married to a tall, dark and handsome individual I wasn't alone in those thoughts but, I didn't say anything the next day, she went around asking everyone what they thought of her ex It was funny opposites attract or something like that hmm stay safe Paula Abdul - "Opposites Attract" Baby seems we never ever agree You like the movies And I like T.V. I take thing serious And you take 'em light I go to bed early And I party all night Our friends are sayin' We ain't gonna last Cuz I move slowly And baby I'm fast I like it quiet And I love to shout But when we get together It just all works out I take--2 steps forward I take--2 steps back We come together Cuz opposites attract And you know--it ain't fiction Just a natural fact We come together Cuz opposites attract
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Always keep em guessing!!
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I have an ex wife!
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Expectations don't travel well as we age. I see my 'ex' now and I wonder wtf THAT was all about. Then I look at a pic of her and me when we first hooked up. I catch her smile and that look she had - back then. And it dawns on me... 😶
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The way you describe him he sounds like the 'dud' from the "Mystery Date" game. [image]
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Hi secret_lade thanks for sharing another layer I remember, a few years ago, we were at a Happy Hour with co-workers, and, this lady introduced us to her ex-husband everybody's mouth was open in astonishment this lady that we worked with was very bright, and career driven she got things done I did not picture her being married to a tall, dark and handsome individual I wasn't alone in those thoughts but, I didn't say anything the next day, she went around asking everyone what they thought of her ex It was funny opposites attract or something like that hmm stay safe Paula Abdul - "Opposites Attract" Baby seems we never ever agree You like the movies And I like T.V. I take thing serious And you take 'em light I go to bed early And I party all night Our friends are sayin' We ain't gonna last Cuz I move slowly And baby I'm fast I like it quiet And I love to shout But when we get together It just all works out I take--2 steps forward I take--2 steps back We come together Cuz opposites attract And you know--it ain't fiction Just a natural fact We come together Cuz opposites attract To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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5/13/2020 6:10 pm |
The way you describe him he sounds like the 'dud' from the "Mystery Date" game. [image]
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Expectations don't travel well as we age. I see my 'ex' now and I wonder wtf THAT was all about. Then I look at a pic of her and me when we first hooked up. I catch her smile and that look she had - back then. And it dawns on me... 😶 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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When we first met.... He was very handsome and very kind. I felt so lucky to have found him. It's unfortunate he allowed alcohol to take over his life.
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5/13/2020 4:16 pm |
I have an ex wife! Become an Apollorising58 watcher!
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5/13/2020 4:15 pm |
Always keep em guessing!!
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