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And.... She's off!  

secret_lade 49F
14127 posts
8/27/2020 5:51 pm
And.... She's off!


The Spawn is spending the week at her Dad's house and I'm left alone to occupy myself....

Perhaps I will start to regain some self esteem!

We were headed to the post office tonight when Michael Jackson's 'Thriller' started to play.

"Really, mom??"

Of course I start to loudly sing along and do the moves while I'm driving down the road.

Who doesn't??

The song was over and I was maniacally laughing along with Vincent Price when she finally decided she could take no more.

"Mom!! Stop!! You're SO embarrassing!!"

"How am I embarrassing? Nobody can see me but you!"

"That's the worst part.... Ugh!!!!"

What a shit...

"There are two things in life that I live for. Embarrassing my offspring and singing along with the radio. Guess which one is most fun??"

"Why are you so<b> weird...</font></b>"

"Because it's fun."

"

topherific 61M
5209 posts
8/28/2020 4:57 pm

anything i could do for your self esteem?


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:46 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Vincent Price's manic laugh is definitely the best part
I SO love that part! It's my favorite!!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:45 pm

    Quoting Notaname99:
    very early in her life, i told the daughter that the parents job is to embarrass the kid as often as possible. i repeated that phrase many times over the years. i never heard her say you are embarrassing me. she knew what my response would be. training is important.
Training.... I like that! LOL I'm going to have to start using that.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:43 pm

    Quoting FrustratedLvr:
    If nothing else, you gave her something to talk about with her friends.
    “ You wanna here what my stooopid mother did this morning”!
    Been through the teenager thing - twice. One each gender each with their own unique problems. Found it was much easier with “the boy”.
    It does get better trust me.
    Wait until they achieve their first real accomplishment as a true independent adult person. It’s a feeling of proud that is indescribable.
    “I made that person”!
She's my third and last teenage.... My only girl. She's so much more critical and mean than my boys were. I know exactly what you're saying though, about the accomplishment. It's such an amazing feeling....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:37 pm

    Quoting dogslife2live01:
    we fed them when they could not eat on their own
    we changed them when they soiled their diapers
    we patched their scrapes, and soothed their tears
    rushed them to hospitals in sleet, and snow, and bitter cold
    we sat in hot gyms to watch them preform crappy plays
    DAM IT! we deserve to make them squirm at our off key tones

    sing on my dear
    sing loud and proud
Don't worry... I will always be singing on. LOL Even when I no longer have kids at home to embarrass. LOL


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
8/28/2020 2:59 pm

Vincent Price's manic laugh is definitely the best part


Notaname99 64M  
568 posts
8/28/2020 9:05 am

very early in her life, i told the daughter that the parents job is to embarrass the kid as often as possible. i repeated that phrase many times over the years. i never heard her say you are embarrassing me. she knew what my response would be. training is important.


FrustratedLvr 61M

8/28/2020 5:43 am

If nothing else, you gave her something to talk about with her friends.
“ You wanna here what my stooopid mother did this morning”!
Been through the teenager thing - twice. One each gender each with their own unique problems. Found it was much easier with “the boy”.
It does get better trust me.
Wait until they achieve their first real accomplishment as a true independent adult person. It’s a feeling of proud that is indescribable.
“I made that person”!


mufdiver69er2 63M  
1953 posts
8/28/2020 4:22 am

    Quoting secret_lade:
    Funny how their selective memories work, isn't it! My daughter can remember song lyrics and dance moves but can't remember to take out the trash....
exactly !!

woop woop


dogslife2live01 71M

8/28/2020 3:55 am

we fed them when they could not eat on their own
we changed them when they soiled their diapers
we patched their scrapes, and soothed their tears
rushed them to hospitals in sleet, and snow, and bitter cold
we sat in hot gyms to watch them preform crappy plays
DAM IT! we deserve to make them squirm at our off key tones

sing on my dear
sing loud and proud

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:48 am

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    that's funny

    you know, I don't care about who sees me singing

    now, I do cut my own song list, so, I know what to expect

    but,, it is fun to just sing those songs that move you

    when my kids were younger they were introduced to wonderful music whether they liked it or not

    hmm

    thanks for sharing

    be safe

    Billie Holiday - "Time on My Hands"

    When the day fades away into twilight
    The moon is my light of love
    In the night, I am quite a romancer
    I find an answer above
    To being me consolation, you're my inspiration
    This is my imagination.
    Time on my hands, you in my arms
    Nothing but love in view, then you fall
    Once and for all, I'll see my dreams come true
    Moments to spare for someone you care for
    Our love affair for two
    With time on my hands and you in my arms
    And love in my heart all for you.
I only sing in front of my kids. LOL If we're all in a good mood, and having fun, they'll sing along with me. It's just my daughter and I now, I really miss doing things with my middle son too....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:44 am

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    If she only knew how many parents feel the same way you do about embarrassing their offspring and singing along with the radio. It's not weird at all! Perfectly normal. One of these days she will discover that herself.
One of these days she'll be embarrassing her own kids in the very same way! LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:42 am

    Quoting mufdiver69er2:
    when mine was younger,she got treated to hootie and the blowfish with me in lead vocals..not a fan..but i got even..when she was able to do the soliliquy from dont go chasing waterfalls from start to finish..i would say..really? you can memorize that but not your multiplication tables? point and match..
Funny how their selective memories work, isn't it! My daughter can remember song lyrics and dance moves but can't remember to take out the trash....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:41 am

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Give her time, she will grow up and see the real light.... some day she will sing along!!!
I look forward to that day. LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:40 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    Embarrass them? Don't they realize that we're cool?
I know, right!! I tell her that all the time....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:39 am

    Quoting KX450F2016:
    My Daughter (technically step daughter before divorce, but still consider her mine) would be singing & doing all the moves along with it as well. She had the Michael Jackson Dance for the Wii
I remember watching the video on mtv all the time and doing the moves! LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:36 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    That's true...
    It is! 👍 😊
Yes it is!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:36 am

    Quoting clittywhisperer1:
    my daughter and 2 sons are all accomplished singers , they all sang in the vehicle in harmony all the time . It was way better than anything i could do lol.
I feel ya... I've pretty much got no singing talent what-so-ever. LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:34 am

    Quoting LadiesR2B1rst:
    Keep singing ! Chances are that will be one of her favorite things she will like when she thinks of you !
It's funny you say that... One of my favorite memories of my Grandma is one of her and I driving down the road and she was singing along to a song she had liked and 'car dancing'. One day, my daughter will be doing it as well, thinking back to me singing along to Thriller. LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:29 am

    Quoting Insideofu4funtwo:
    You need to make sure when you pick her up from dad's to play Michael Jackson again. I'm thinking Dirty Diana or Smooth Criminal. If you need any practice before you get her back, I'll wait for my invitation to come over and vocal coach you! I'll bring B vitamins too
How did you know I still haven't picked up those B vitamins?? LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/28/2020 3:24 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    OMG I can remember the first time I played my new Nickleback CD in my car- the entire parking lot at the mall could here me and I did not care
Whenever I hear Nickleback, I think about my oldest son. He would steal my CD's out of the cases and take them to school to listen to. I wouldn't even know they were gone until I went to listen to one... Nickleback was his favorite.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
8/27/2020 10:40 pm

OMG I can remember the first time I played my new Nickleback CD in my car- the entire parking lot at the mall could here me and I did not care

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Insideofu4funtwo 48M
6 posts
8/27/2020 10:34 pm

You need to make sure when you pick her up from dad's to play Michael Jackson again. I'm thinking Dirty Diana or Smooth Criminal. If you need any practice before you get her back, I'll wait for my invitation to come over and vocal coach you! I'll bring B vitamins too


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
8/27/2020 8:00 pm

Keep singing ! Chances are that will be one of her favorite things she will like when she thinks of you !


clittywhisperer1 59M
1415 posts
8/27/2020 7:42 pm

my daughter and 2 sons are all accomplished singers , they all sang in the vehicle in harmony all the time . It was way better than anything i could do lol.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
8/27/2020 7:29 pm

That's true...
It is! 👍 😊


KX450F2016 55M
193 posts
8/27/2020 7:20 pm

My Daughter (technically step daughter before divorce, but still consider her mine) would be singing & doing all the moves along with it as well. She had the Michael Jackson Dance for the Wii


mc_justmc 63M

8/27/2020 7:16 pm

Embarrass them? Don't they realize that we're cool?


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
8/27/2020 7:08 pm

Give her time, she will grow up and see the real light.... some day she will sing along!!!

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


mufdiver69er2 63M  
1953 posts
8/27/2020 6:51 pm

when mine was younger,she got treated to hootie and the blowfish with me in lead vocals..not a fan..but i got even..when she was able to do the soliliquy from dont go chasing waterfalls from start to finish..i would say..really? you can memorize that but not your multiplication tables? point and match..

woop woop


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
8/27/2020 6:36 pm

If she only knew how many parents feel the same way you do about embarrassing their offspring and singing along with the radio. It's not weird at all! Perfectly normal. One of these days she will discover that herself.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
8/27/2020 6:13 pm

that's funny

you know, I don't care about who sees me singing

now, I do cut my own song list, so, I know what to expect

but,, it is fun to just sing those songs that move you

when my kids were younger they were introduced to wonderful music whether they liked it or not

hmm

thanks for sharing

be safe

Billie Holiday - "Time on My Hands"

When the day fades away into twilight
The moon is my light of love
In the night, I am quite a romancer
I find an answer above
To being me consolation, you're my inspiration
This is my imagination.
Time on my hands, you in my arms
Nothing but love in view, then you fall
Once and for all, I'll see my dreams come true
Moments to spare for someone you care for
Our love affair for two
With time on my hands and you in my arms
And love in my heart all for you.

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