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All too true Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it
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couldn't agree more.....we are not dead yet!!!!
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The only people who I hear say that age is just a number are people who are only looking for people who aren't necessarily "age appropriate". And they also usually say some variation of, "hey, young(er) people should give old people a second look". No, they shouldn't. Do I think that people in their 40s, 50, and 60's can still be sexy, and great in bed? You bet. However, most people want playmates who are around the same age so yeah, the older you get, the shallower the pool is going to get. OK, I'm going to say this next part as gently as possible. Many (Most?) people get turned off by the idea of having sex with a couple who are old enough to be their parents. For someone who is 25, 35, even 40. At 64 and 67 you are old enough to be their parent. You can even push that to 45 in some cases. Flip the script and think about it this way, would you want to be in bed with a couple who are totally turned off by how you look? Furthermore, I'm sure this isn't your intention but, when you say, " Some might be worth a 2nd look", what you are saying is , "our/their/older person X desire for someone younger wants in a lover". Can you imagine someone telling you that you should meet up with someone who smokes or is a race that you aren't interested in? A person/people should only look at people who fit the parameters they are looking for. Sure it means that older couples (and fat middle aged ladies) don't get as many views but c'est la vie.
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This is a complicated subject, more so when dealing with couples. Hubby has no focus on age, but I put a limit of 15 years older/younger, with the option to change our minds situationally. If I could have conceivably given birth to you, or you me, I find that somewhat icky. If you are younger than my actual children, that is probably going to be a no for sure, older than my parents would probably also be a no, but that would have more leeway, not sure why, but it is what it is.
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I also have an age limit. I understand what Pepperstarr is saying, I feel that if I could possibly be your parent or you mine I will be uncomfortable in meeting for any sexual encounter. That being said, I do have people I talk to who I will always talk to who are outside of my age "limit". For chatting and conversation age has no limit.
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