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Foreplay vs. Intercourse  

chas69xxx 79M
30 posts
10/10/2016 3:12 pm
Foreplay vs. Intercourse


Another quest to increase my knowledge and satisfy my curiosity. I want WOMEN ONLY to comment. Any others will be deleted.

Which is of utmost importance to you? Foreplay with multiple orgasms, or intercourse? I've heard both ways from women, but never definitively.

Ideally, of course, the answer would be both, but my question is what if you had to choose between one or the other? Personally, I believe foreplay has become a misnomer. To me, it's simply another type of sex.

Let me establish parameters. Foreplay includes kissing, cuddling, intense make-out sessions, fingering, fondling, caressing, kissing, nibbling, licking and sucking. Blowjobs are an entity unto themselves and can be included in either arena, though I think they are mainly considered foreplay. This is irrelevant to me, as I can take it or leave it. While I enjoy them, they are far from my favorite activity.

My favorite thing is the total sensory perception of my partner's climax. I don't really care if I cum or not.


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chas69xxx 79M
31 posts
10/10/2016 3:15 pm

help me out ladies...


SilverPhenix 106F
332 posts
10/10/2016 3:30 pm

I vote for both and don't want to choose. One without another is not fulfilling.


chas69xxx replies on 10/10/2016 4:05 pm:
LOL!!! always an individualist. however, occasionally, both might not be possible for whatever reason. are you saying you would rather go "unfulfilled" than go without one or the other?

BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
10/10/2016 3:32 pm

Which is of utmost importance to you? Foreplay with multiple orgasms, or intercourse? I've heard both ways from women, but never definitively.

First, you need to separate out foreplay and orgasms, multiple or otherwise.

No woman likes sex without foreplay, it's pretty much like getting fucked with a sandpaper dildo. I'm sure that you are too much of a gentleman to do that to a lady. However, foreplay is about getting ready for sex and not every woman necessarily always wants an orgasm during foreplay.

I think the other problem with your question is that the choice you present is no choice. Why should a woman have to choose? Don't you think a lover should provide both?


chas69xxx replies on 10/10/2016 4:00 pm:
ok, that's why I gave MY definition of foreplay in my post. no one in their right minds would want to be fucked without ANY prep. this is kind of my point. the idea of foreplay has far outgrown simple preparation for intercourse. I guess we could keep the old definition of foreplay and introduce FIVEPLAY...

also, I have NEVER had a woman say she didn't want an orgasm at ANY time

lindafuckmejet 72F
10 posts
10/10/2016 3:39 pm

for me. I would choose foreplay with lots of oral and multiple orgasm's


chas69xxx replies on 10/10/2016 4:05 pm:
thanks for your response

vamosoque 44F
174 posts
10/10/2016 3:47 pm

    Quoting BrownEyedBBW:
    Which is of utmost importance to you? Foreplay with multiple orgasms, or intercourse? I've heard both ways from women, but never definitively.

    First, you need to separate out foreplay and orgasms, multiple or otherwise.

    No woman likes sex without foreplay, it's pretty much like getting fucked with a sandpaper dildo. I'm sure that you are too much of a gentleman to do that to a lady. However, foreplay is about getting ready for sex and not every woman necessarily always wants an orgasm during foreplay.

    I think the other problem with your question is that the choice you present is no choice. Why should a woman have to choose? Don't you think a lover should provide both?
I LOVE this answer!!! I choose to have BOTH and both MUST be MIND-BLOWING. No wonder I'm alone... LOL


chas69xxx replies on 10/10/2016 4:13 pm:
thank you for your response. see my reply to the above. i'm certain your being alone is due to your appreciation of your OWN qualities. NEVER settle, ALWAYS choose!

positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
10/10/2016 4:34 pm

Foreplay for sure. And I love afterplay, the cuddling, kissing and talking. It seals the deal.


chas69xxx replies on 10/10/2016 5:03 pm:
thank you for your response. I agree across the board

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