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Does it matter why we are here????  

wanttolickyou225 62M
116 posts
10/14/2016 1:02 pm
Does it matter why we are here????


I have often been asked the question "why are you here?" In my particular case, it is due to a health issue my spouse has which has left her with no sex drive whatsoever....but in thinking about it....does it really matter?? What if I just answered that I was horny as hell??? I personally do not care why a prospective partner is here....I am just happy that they are....

Thoughts?????

wanttolickyou225 62M
423 posts
10/14/2016 1:02 pm

Happy Friday everyone!!!!


LiveLifeDoU 69F  
2199 posts
10/14/2016 1:19 pm

Interesting question. My first thought was that sure, it does matter as we all tend to gravitate toward someone who wants what we want. For instance, if I am looking for a long term, monogamous relationship and you are looking for some fun cyber sex or discreet sexual encounters, would it be a good thing for us to meet up, even if it's just on-line?
I am always asked why I'm here, what am I into, etc. And my answer changes with my mood at the time I am asked. Sometimes, I am horny as hell and just want some hot sexy chat. Sometimes I just want someone to talk to and someone who wants to talk to me...about sex, life, whatever. Sometimes I want to find someone local with at least a few things in common who might be interested in meeting in person...for a drink, coffee, movie, etc.
So yeah, it does matter why you are here, in my opinion.


wanttolickyou225 62M
423 posts
10/14/2016 1:39 pm

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As sexy as you are I am sure you get asked that a lot!!!
Chat soon!!


wanttolickyou225 62M
423 posts
10/14/2016 1:41 pm

    Quoting LiveLifeDoU:
    Interesting question. My first thought was that sure, it does matter as we all tend to gravitate toward someone who wants what we want. For instance, if I am looking for a long term, monogamous relationship and you are looking for some fun cyber sex or discreet sexual encounters, would it be a good thing for us to meet up, even if it's just on-line?
    I am always asked why I'm here, what am I into, etc. And my answer changes with my mood at the time I am asked. Sometimes, I am horny as hell and just want some hot sexy chat. Sometimes I just want someone to talk to and someone who wants to talk to me...about sex, life, whatever. Sometimes I want to find someone local with at least a few things in common who might be interested in meeting in person...for a drink, coffee, movie, etc.
    So yeah, it does matter why you are here, in my opinion.
Hi, Thanks for the comment...definitely gives me a different angle to look at the question from!!
Have a great weekend!


wanttolickyou225 62M
423 posts
10/14/2016 1:42 pm

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Hope you have a fantastic weekend Joy!!!


wanttolickyou225 62M
423 posts
10/14/2016 1:42 pm

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Thanks for yet another perspective!
Enjoy your weekend!


wanttolickyou225 62M
423 posts
10/14/2016 1:45 pm

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Thanks for the comment! actually I have had some success on here....and perhaps you are right, maybe I would get more attention with a picture...but I do need my privacy, to protect my family....thus, I guess I will just have to keep going as I am....


wanttolickyou225 62M
423 posts
10/14/2016 4:19 pm

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Thanks Countess....I guess we all have our reasons for being here...maybe I am too sensitive about being asked...it would appear from most of the comments that it is almost expected...Hope you have a great weekend!!!
Oh...Go Jays Go!!!!!


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
10/14/2016 4:38 pm

It matters if you are lookng for someone who is here for similar reasons.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
3/17/2018 2:04 pm

Yes as we are all here for different reasons. happy St Patricks day


wanttolickyou225 replies on 3/17/2018 4:14 pm:
We definitely all have our reasons!! Happy St Patrick's Day to you as well!!! Why don't we chat some time???? Soon???

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