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Am I a weirdo?
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Am I a weirdo? Because I don't like to masturbate. I've done it/ do it but it is not something that I, like, really enjoy. I usually do it to relieve some sexual tension after weeks of mental and visual stimulation ( yes women like visuals too). But it is still a lackluster task compared to the actual act of sexual satisfaction with a partner. Its 5 10 minutes of rubbing and touching, buildup, orgasm and then silence, loneliness. Idk maybe its just me. I feed off of others energy. That is why I can never be a passive participant and just watch. When I am with someone and the sexual energy is high my appetite can match theirs or surpass it And that is just with one person, I could not imagine if there were more LOL. But alone its one orgasm and I am over it. With someone present its like counting the orgasm with count von count (from Sesame Street). Blissful multiples. Why am I lonely you say? You're on a sex site, find someone to fuck you say. LOL yeah well unfortunately I have these 2 bitches named insecurity and anxiety. Sometimes they can be quite loud. Unfortunately there aren't many guys willing to speak louder than them. That is why I need that connection and that time to get to know someone ( see profile for more details). Anyhoo. I am a weirdo. I know it and accept it but can you. LMAO |
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Patience is a virtue and COMMUNICATION is key to easing my anxiety.
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hmmm well to each their own
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I think you'll find there are far more out there who can easily relate to what you've described. I know for myself, yep, I can easily identify with your thoughts, you're not weird at all.... I am though, for entirely different reasons though... Take care, have fun, enjoy your weekend and most of all, I hope you find exactly what you're looking for. 
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you do you girl
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Well Miss Lucky, at its most basic and the way work colleagues, clients, friends and family put it, I'm a square peg trying to squeeze in to the round hole that is life. Apparently I see, think, process and do things vastly different to the large majority. I don't know if I could succinctly put it in the correct ways, but, I'll try. I believe that mostly I am a man of opposites. There are many examples, but, you could easily attribute them to some people, it seems to be a total package thing. Some might have some of the traits and thought patterns I have, but, so far, not a single person in my life even remotely comes close to matching me. I think probably this example might be one of my weirder thoughts: I still feel guilty for not doing something to protect the victims on the planes from 9/11. The reason this get's classed as weird or strange is that I'm Australian and obviously knew nothing about the attack as well as certainly being in no position to help, but, it is the same drive that led me to the Army till I slightly crushed a vertebrae. I suppose there is also the fact I can be suggestive and flirtatious as hell, getting laughs along the way, but, when it comes to actually expressing an interest in a woman, I'm like the awkward bullied 12 year old (I know many suffer from this), but, if you saw it in action, you'd understand. I don't know if this adequately demonstrates the different reasons, but, all I can do is assure you it is not my opinion, this is from those who interact with me in the real world... and some during chats across the net. Thank you for the response too, I did enjoy the read on this topic.
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Patience and confidence.
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you are not alone, I feel the same way, you just put in to words what I have tried to to express , some will get what you are saying, and others will make comments about something sexual with no meaning to your blog, I guess we will have to start a club for this one, we already have two member, you and me lolol, but you aren't weird, you just want more than an orgasm
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6/24/2017 2:20 am |
You are not the only one in a situation that has become more and more common. I, for one, can relate to your situation. A solo act, like masturbation, is more common than you think. We are a social animal and as such seek the company of others. My imagination runs wild when alone but when he embraces me and plays with my body, I become alive and react to his touch in a way that completes me.
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You are only weird if you don't like sex AT ALL Come check out my blog
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6/24/2017 5:26 am |
You're not weird. You probably not one to sleep around and just need that special someone to be with
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No your not it's normal for such to happen ..
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That maybe what you think but I beg to differ, having always craved that "connection" more than the sex Erotica inspired by lust Boyhood Crush Athletic Cougar Deflowers Teenager The Work Experience Restroom Ecstasy The Lettings Agent Please vote and comment
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6/25/2017 11:46 pm |
I guess that there are some people who are truly auto erotic (preferred sexual activity is masturbation) the rest of us do it because it is better that the alternative. Everything is better shared, but of all the things that we humans share, sex is by far the one that gains the most from the sharing before during and after. But I feel the emptiness of being forced to choose to be primarily autoerotic, rather than in a healthy relationship because I am sure that there are no women anywhere that find me the slightest bit sexually attractive Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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Far from weird. And also, you are hot... no other explanation... good luck building the communication and let chemistry take over.... 
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You are not weird. Very far from it, it sounds to me that you view masturbation as being less enjoyable than sex. I would say this is a common view. I would totally be less interested in masturbation, if masturbation only resulted in one orgasm, while sex lead to multiple. I am sorry to hear about the two louds bitches that keep you from fully enjoying yourself.
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7/5/2017 2:44 am |
You said, "What? No way. Just from the profile pic I find you very sexy. That tattoo is doing it for me." Sadly nearly no one sees it. either tattoo, pretty much to see it we would have already have decided that we are going to be intimate and obviously that is seldom., The reality of my situation in Northwest ohio is that women have too many options and little desire to meet new potential casual friends, so unless I am willing to drive over an hour to have a cup of coffee with someone then I just don't get out much. Working long hours on the weekend and nights doesn't help but still women just are not interested in me at all. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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7/6/2017 12:03 am |
It is the same for men, maybe some day i will actually consider looking here again to meet someone but I have pretty much accepted that I don't have whatever it is that women are looking for and that I am not going to meet anyone that I am interested in being passionate with, or if I do, someplace like this is not where I am meeting them Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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No I do not think you are weird. When I was younger I wanted to meet and play. I had the same problems you do. It took me forever to get around to asking some one out. Most often by the time I did so they were taken. It is hard to want that connection but not be able to do so. I still have this problem not as bad but still here. I fell unsure about meeting women. I look at all my faults first and think , 'why would any one put up with that?'. I have been told I am a catch. Not a great catch but a catch, lol, like that helps hearing that.
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8/23/2017 8:44 pm |
if u don't like to do it I can help u out with that no problem lol
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8/29/2017 5:49 am |
your not weird you need the right guy to make every thing happen the right way then you will be happy you did lets have some fun together biker57111
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Could the insecurity and anxiety also be a reason that you don't care for masturbation? Do you dislike all means of masturbation equally?
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1/25/2018 10:34 pm |
You would only be weird if you had your body and did not like sex at all.
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2/28/2018 12:53 am |
Nope you are not weird at all. Quite normal as a matter of fact. I to am an oft practice of the fine art of self love. No question the tension is relieved but then as if almost as soon as you are done relieving yourself the tension beaker starts to fill and you become your very own bottle of shampoo - "wash, rinse & repeat." And you are also not alone with your bitches - they bother me too. Mine are named over compensation & bravado but they share the same DNA as your two. I can only say that it is the community of souls we form (even this eclectic AdultFriendFinder group) that make us human...weirdos for sure...but human nonetheless. If you would like to be human with me I'm all eyes. Great post dear. Terry
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1 post 12/4/2018 5:31 pm |
We all have our insecurities don't we. I finally put up some pics but might take them back down. I think most of the profiles aren't here for real connections just profits.I'm not sure if it would be worth becuming a member. Yes I spelled it that way on purpose.Time will tell for me what happens. You keep doing what you do. Sounds fine to me.
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your not weird. all people like to have someone to hold while having sex.if you were in alabama I would show you
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7/22/2020 10:55 am |
Hi geil alles gut einfach nur geil
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I don't think you are a weirdo. I think most of us are very much like you. Hang in there. 
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What will we name this club? 
Masturbationless club. Amasturbation club. LOL 
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