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69PussyLuver 58M  
8 posts
10/9/2020 6:31 pm
Disappointing


When I first joined AdultFriendFinder back in 2005, it was a lot of fun. Quick online, then meet in person. If we it off, we fuck. Plain and simple. No hassles. For the first 3 years, I was averaging 2-3 dates per month.

I actually met a woman from Sex Search, who dated for about 4 years. Sex Search used be as good, or better than AdultFriendFinder.

Now, however, the dating scene or "hook " scene has changed.

Seems as though women only want the "Perfect people or perfect body". Women want men who are elite, the hottest, best looking men. They refuse even consider anyone who does not meet their very high standards.

I have been rejected or turned down by women, and couples here, due my unattractive "face". They say they like my body, and even my personality, but do not like my face.

One reason is, the ratio of men women is extremely high. So, they can wait until the perfect guy comes along. As for couples, the vast majority are seeking women, not single men.

Recently, I had 3 women, who I know quite well, view my profile here. I wanted their honest opinion. They love my profile! 3 women said, they cannot understand why, my inbox is not full of<b> messages </font></b>from women and/or couples.

Unlike some people AdultFriendFinder, I am not here for endless chats, or view you " cam". I am only interested in meeting in person. That may explain the low amount of<b> messages </font></b>I receive.

Unfortunately, the flight attendants I used hook with, have been furloughed. Once the airline industry resumes a somewhat normal flight schedule, my female flight attendant friends will be working flights and trips.

At this point, I have say, my return AdultFriendFinder has been a disappointment. Not sure I will renew my current Gold Membership beyond December. Until then, I will continue meet women in other ways.

Thank you for taking the time read my post!

lunchandconvo 50F
2038 posts
10/10/2020 12:34 pm

i had a lot of messages and meets on my old profile when i was 40 than i do on the current profile at 50. i am in the same town i was in at 40. i don't know if it's just my age now. that i've fallen off a search.

my long time friends on here know there is a specific "ideal" i have but it's when nothing is happening but sex. if am dating someone i am looking at a variety of factors and not just what size condom he wears. i made this profile a little brief and to the point. i realize a nude might not convey the profile name but i am comfortable with my body and showing it on here. i know for some people that is going to be a factor on if they want to contact me.


69PussyLuver 58M  
49 posts
10/10/2020 3:34 pm

Lunchandconvo;

Thank you for taking the time to read my blog, and to provide an excellent comment.
Yes, for many, age is a factor. People seem to want younger people. Having said that, as you say, when dating someone, there are many factors to consider.

Hopefully, you will connect with some interesting people. Thank you again for writing!


lyavu 47F  
1374 posts
10/11/2020 3:37 am

Why don't you just find one person and keep them around that way u don't have to stress ur self looking all the time . Don't you get tired hopping from one pussy to another? u nust enjoy shopping.


69PussyLuver 58M  
49 posts
10/11/2020 4:28 am

Lyavu;
Thank you for taking the time to read my post here. I greatly appreciate it!

In regards to your question, due to the nature of my work, it was very difficult to maintain a long term relationship. Most of our pilots and flight attendants had the same issues.

I used to work 3-6 day trips. Meaning, I was away from home for 3-6 days at a time. Then, come home for 2-3 days, and go back to work another trip. That's how it is working as a commercial pilot, or flight attendant.

Most pilots I know have been separated, or divorced. The reason? Away from home for half a month. Their wife, girlfriend, or boyfriend wanted him or her, to be home every night.

So, to "keep" one girl around, was not going to happen. However, I did have 3 female flight attendants, I met on a regular basis. So, that worked out well.

Unfortunately, all three flight attendants have been furloughed. Until the airlines are able to resume a normal flight schedule, the airline industry will continue to go through a very challenging time.

Now, as far as finding one woman from AdultFriendFinder, that has proven to be very difficult.

As I said in my initial post, women want the perfect guy and the perfect body. I workout, I have lost 40 pounds over the past year or so. I am in good, but not perfect yet, shape. Due to a permanent disability to my right leg, I have had to change the way I work out. But I am finding ways to reach my goals.

I am actually a decent, well respected person. I have many long term friends, I have met during my airline career. Over my career, I have received many testimonial letters, from our passengers, thanking me for a pleasant flight. Or, if I had helped them in some way.

So, we will see what happens here. Is it possible to actually meet one "special" woman from AdultFriendFinder? Maybe. We will see.

Thank you again for writing!


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