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Amazingly Sparse
Posted:Jul 15, 2020 1:26 pm
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2020 8:32 am

[SIZE 4]WOW!, I've never seen this area so empty and unused. That either means people are bored or have very little say.

I suppose staying busy during this crazy times is very important. The mind has stay busy or we will be driven bonkers. I hate it when that happens. So, I hope beyond hope that everyone is safe and healthy. That's more important then anything else.

We will get back that sense of "normal" again. But, kind of paraphrase a philosophical question, "What is normal." I suppose it's a matter of perception, but, I don't believe what will will see in the next year will be what we once had. Some things are going change. That's my opinion anyway.

The frustration for is that so many will not even try adhere the suggestions for safety. I refuse watch FOX news, in my view, it's become our national platform for propaganda and misinformation. I usually get my information from a variety of outlets, including written news sources, PBS News, The BBC and other areas I have learned trust.

OK, I've gone off on a rant. Sorry, I guess I'm feeling the frustration at of the misleading and twisted views. Especially when I read that there are still those believe this pandemic is a fraud. Tell that the 7,000 peoples families have lost a loved one due this "fake news." People are swallowing that bull hook line and sinker and all I can do is shake my head and keep moving forward.

That's enough. Sorry, I had get some things off my chest.

I hope everyone stays safe and healthy.

Posted:Jun 14, 2020 10:50 am
Last Updated:Aug 5, 2020 12:56 pm

I would like to thank the staff at AdultFriendFinder for helping me to get back on the site. I purchased a new computer and my address associated with this site was changed. This rendered it impossible to access this site.

Finally after many attempts, I was able to contact the staff and they allowed me to change my password under my new address.

So, hats off to them.

Posted:Jun 14, 2020 10:47 am
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2020 8:38 am

I know this is an adult relationship site. Since we are in the grips of a pandemic and extreme social unrest, I just wanted to state my pride in the reactions of the young people, not only in this country, but around the world. They have made a stand for something societies around the world have condoned for far to long.

May their stand and voices help to bring about the changes we as humans need.

Are People More Open Minded
Posted:Jun 26, 2019 11:38 am
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2019 11:29 am

I seem to have met a number of people who are very open minded when it comes to their sexuality. Is this a growing trend? Or are certain parts of the country becoming more sexually liberated?

These are questions that run through my mind as I have met more people who are either in an open marriage or relationship, which I feel is wonderful. Of course I understand that there are basic hurdles to overcome before crossing that threshold . Trust, respect and good communications being on the top of the list in my view.

Trust because you have to trust your partner to just enjoy themselves sexually and that's all. They will end the evening or the activity with you and leave with you.

Respect I think speaks for itself. Without it, you can't move to enjoy the fruits that might be offered in an open relationship.

Communication again speaks for itself. Without a good line of communication, respect and trust an open relationship just won't work.

However, that all being said, I have met so many more couples and people who are enjoying a more open approach to life. Recently, I met a woman, who on a monthly basis, has a ladies night where all the women enjoy a nude relaxing evening, talking about sex, enjoying each others company and drinking some wine. As the group progressed, it was suggested that one husband be invited on occasion in case one of the women felt the need for satisfaction as well as female.
To me, this is a wonderful approach to life. Relaxing, where the husbands know where and what the wives are doing. Respectful if allowing them this time and open enjoyment. By the way, that group seems to be growing and they have allowed a few single women to join their monthly gathering.

From others I've talked to, this seems to be occurring on a more numerous basis. Or perhaps, I''m just meeting people who are more into the open sexual relationships. Either way, I personally feel it's liberating.

Just my point of view I suppose.


Been Busy
Posted:Oct 4, 2018 1:41 pm
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2019 10:50 am

I have not posted in a long while. I have been busy and besides, I realized hardly anyone ever read my posts. That in itself can be depressing. Since I come in here to meet people, feeling kind of rejected is not something I'm really searching for.

So, I choose not to post. I have met some very nice people in here, visited their blogs and replied to their posts. To me, making a new friend is more important then trying to conjure up a topic to post.

Besides, I've never considered myself a very good writer.

I hope I see you in blog land or in a chat somewhere.

Where have the bloggers gone?
Posted:May 30, 2017 5:00 am
Last Updated:Jan 2, 2018 5:21 am

I follow or have been following about 20 or so bloggers for some time. For the last six or so months, only three of them have posted anything. I'm wondering if times are changing? Has writing a blog become passe?
Where have people gone? As you probably realize, I"m not a very talented writer and therefore usually enjoy responding to other peoples blogs while on occasion, like now, posting a thought or an image.
Anyway, I thought I'd post this simple note to find out if I'm missing something. I realize there are so many other options out there now and this is only one in a plethora of offerings.
So, here's to posting and blog friends.

Another picture
Posted:Feb 15, 2017 2:02 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2019 4:57 am
Here's a picture of Hawaii.
The place has a plethora of Sacred Sites to the Hawaiians. It is very important to respect them while traveling.

Posted:Feb 15, 2017 1:58 pm
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2017 1:24 pm
Every once in a while you take a vacation that leaves a lasting impression on you. I just returned from one such trip.
We traveled to Phoenix Arizona then out to the Big Island of Hawaii. There is so much beauty and landscape to absorb it's mind boggling. I never thought I would find such beauty in the desert, but I did and it's unique and has it's own magnificence. We traveled up to Sedona and looking at the rock formations makes you realize the wonders surrounding you. The valleys and mesa's and of course the red rock associated with the area.
One can not travel to the area without taking in the local cuisine which must include a taste of Tequila. I'm not normally a Tequila drinking, but did receive an education on the refinement process and the difference between a good and not so good Tequila.

The Big Island as it's referred to in Hawaii is just that. All of the other islands could fit onto this one and half would still be left over. The people are proud, positive and extremely happy.
An FYI, I didn't know this, there are 23 different climatic areas on the planet. The Big Island has 21 of the 23. From desert, to tropical forest, to mountains and cattle farms. I would strongly recommend a trip there sometime.
The magnificence is breathtaking.

That's why I haven't been around for the last twelve or fourteen days. Sorry for not responding like I usually do to your blogs.
I will get back to it.

Here are a few pics.

The First Time you Tried Oral Sex
Posted:Apr 9, 2015 5:24 am
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2019 10:49 am
Do you remember the first time you actually tried oral sex? I do.

I was dating a very attractive girl my senior year of high school. We had be in the car making out and doing some light petting before I walked her to the door. At that age, guys are always like a walking erection anyway. Just a known fact, I'm stating the obvious here.
Anyway, when we got inside the door, thinking we were alone we continued our passion. I was fingering her and started to work my way down her body. She had a dress on and had removed her panties. So it was free range roaming.
She was leaning against a chair, I don't know why we didn't sit down but we didn't. I was down on my knees with her dress raised and started to kiss the inside of her thighs and wondering if I was doing is right. Then I felt her rubbing her pussy against my face and figured something had to be going right due to her response. I found her lips, parted them with my tongue and had my first taste of a pussy. It actually drove me wild with passion as well as my girlfriend. She was trying to control the noise level. We weren't sure anyone was home. She was loosing control as I continue my oral passion.
That's when the bottom dropped out. Her older sister walked into the room and wondered what was creating the noise in the house. Ahhhhhh, I was on my knees, so I said I was looking for her earring. Of course I had to wipe that glistening sweet juice from my face.
We thought she had brought our reasoning. YEAH RIGHT! But, we hugged and kissed and said good night. I can remember driving home with her sweet sent on my face and her lingering taste on my tongue. What a night. I've never forgotten it. As you can tell.
Can you remember your first time trying oral sex?


Self Consciousness
Posted:Mar 26, 2015 5:36 am
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2015 1:04 pm

Are women more self conscious then men? I am asking this as an open question. To me, most men seem to be comfortable in their bodies. Regardless of how out of shape they've become. Women, in general it seems want to work at their bodies in a more determined manner.

Perhaps this is why I see mostly women in the spin, yoga, Zumba and workout classes at our local gym. The men still want to lift the weights, but that's about it. Are the men self conscious about taking classes while the women jump in to a more organized workout?

I do know that when you talk to a woman about bathing suit weather, they almost cringe at times at the thought of their body being viewed by others in a bathing suit anymore. While men, well, we don't really seem to have many issues on that matter. Just take a gander at the various male bodies the next time you're at the beach. They vary is size and shape, but they, for the most part are just being themselves and proud of it. I know, sometimes you wonder where the pride went.

I have a friend who is 54, attractive with a very nice shape. OK, it's outstanding. I mentioned if she ever wears a bikini or two piece bathing suit anymore. She laughed and said, "not on this body anymore." Are you kidding me! Do most women feel this self conscious about themselves? Of course there are always the exceptions, but I'm talking majority of women.

There are always exceptions, but I'm just asking in general.


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