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VenusRedux2 49F
557 posts
11/22/2017 8:22 am

It's the holidays young lady! Everyone is frantic, work is insane, there's too much to do.

Why are you asking me these deep questions???

The reason I'm still here after all these years is .... hell if I know .... that requires a level of introspection I don't yet possess. Maybe if I make a trip out to Kathmandu and dedicate years of time to mediation I might find the enlightenment I seek. But the answer is probably "You're a sex addict, you're just in denial about it."

Why can't I get a vague fortune cookie enlightenment like "This too is kung fu"?

Ignorance is bliss. So no trips to Nepal for me.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
11/22/2017 9:01 am

Amazingly, what the site purports to be for and what I get out of it are completely opposite. I've gotten very little good sex out of it. Fortunately very little nasty behavior as well. I'm typing this as I'm getting ready to meet two west coast bloggers for lunch and a day at the zoo. That's what I get out of it, I approach it as a place to create an online friendship that turns into an in-person one, even if that's only once or twice a year.

So if I hit you up next time I'm in your neighborhood, don't be alarmed!


mindworker1970 53M
328 posts
11/22/2017 9:05 am

Hmmm...... I first used AdultFriendFinder when it was an alternative to Friend Finder that allowed mature conversation and photos. I had a few meets and then I found the woman that I was with for 10 years. After her passing I came back here and the site had changed... but some of the people here are still more honest than on other sites. Yes there are scam artists and worse, but they are everywhere. I have had some great conversations with some special people. And a few more meets. For all the problems and horrible stuff that happens here, it still works for me as a way to find interesting people.


Januaryman99 55M  
327 posts
11/22/2017 9:08 am

I've evolved in my approach to AdultFriendFinder, and talked about this with another member pretty recently. As a dating site, AdultFriendFinder is a terrible waste of time. Pure shyte. Sure, if the stars align, you can meet someone and have a great time. I have and will again. On the other hand, this place is chock full of interesting things if you just look around. People dropping their inhibitions and putting everything out there on full display. Some of the blogs are fantastic. And, many of the people are really nice and interesting to chat and interact with. If you're sole aim is to stick things other people's elsewheres, you're missing a world of interest and intrigue just a few clicks away. You have to weed through a steady stream of fakeness, though. But, if you approach it all respectfully, appreciating all that it takes for someone drop all facades and share their inner thoughts, or wriggle out of their Levis and pull their ankles behind their ears (at least the first time) - AdultFriendFinder can be a pretty engaging place.

Stop by my BLOG => Januaryman99


notsure1949 74M
10657 posts
11/22/2017 10:39 am

nice rewording pf Bohemian Rhapsody, on her it seems more like fantasy than reality, people chat, say things in email messages, and then never meet


lyavu 50F
1538 posts
11/24/2017 7:32 pm

Both


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