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I am a married bi man My wife is 100% aware of everything I do. I do not play with anyone that is playing without their SO's knowledge. My new wife and I have both been hurt badly by dishonest spouses and do not want to hurt innocent people whether partners or worse children
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Many people will rationalize their wrong behavior because they want what it brings but don'r want to accept they are of questioanble character ,it is a reflex human trait to erase or change bad things so we don't feel horrible about ourselves when we do it .My ex was like this , she always had a bullshit made up excuse for her horrid selfish hurtful behavior ,she would not accept she was just a selfish immature callous and uncaring person since she saw herself as a super caring giving angel ,yet felt she was never good enough and everyone judged her .Then she assumed bad things and attacked or back stabbed to get revemge on the person who actually did nothing .this is mental imbalance ,anxiety depressive disorder, learning diability , and a.d.d. in action .they cannot communicate clearly, cannot be trusted or believed .I walked away .life is too short to be disrespected and treated like crap so someone else can do bad things to you so they feel better or are distrcated from the crap their life has become because they do not care to try to get better
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I dont know why pple say vows. May be that part should be scraped from weddings .
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The difference though between R&N and you is that they have crap characters and you do not. Maybe this is the reason it was so functional and enriching for them. Do you think that people like them are looking for the ideal love, like you do? I have another question. What happens in the case a guy in a fully verified and vetted open marriage and open relationship falls for you? Sex sometimes bring people closer, they develop feelings and desires. What happens if his wife or partner develops negative feelings about the new situation. Will it be ok for you even if she knows but does not act?
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... he wasn't like those guys, and admonished heartless cheaters, but...DUDE! Look at what the fuck you're doing. How many men who have affairs sell that line to themselves... that they aren't like those other cheaters? How it is they can face theirs spouses after they come home from a night (or day) of sex is beyond me. I just couldn't do it. Never have. Never will. Thoughts from the Garden...
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I'm an unrepentant cheating bastard. At least I would be if someone would have sex with me! I'm totally honest about it, except to the person I'm married to. I am cheating. I'm not going to justify it. I'm not going to rationalise it. If you don't want to have sex with a married man, I'll leave you alone. That is your choice, this is mine. Fair dinkum, mate!
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4/8/2018 9:27 pm |
its a fair pint and a think a tougher discussion that most give it credit for
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