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I Have Date  

TopTwentyPercent 60M  
124 posts
9/17/2019 1:26 pm
I Have Date

I have a date with the lady i met last Saturday night. As a general rule, i don't expect or even pursue sex on a first date (but I a very sure there would have been sex had I pushed). With AdultFriendFinder dates, i generally expect sex on the second date.

For background on this date, please read Seattle Excitement

This date will be at her house which will be about a 90 minute drive.

I am excited!
It is all about attitude, approach and presentation! What is your AAP?
Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
9/17/2019 2:45 pm

 Go for it.
I use it that three date rule... lol 😂


TopTwentyPercent replies on 9/17/2019 4:39 pm:
I am quite confident yet still being really respectful of further communication. Many busy women don't like to text and flirt prior to a date.

Thanks for your interest in all this....

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/17/2019 3:05 pm

 If there is no sex, then there was no date. But at least you hung out with her and got to know each other. I suppose getting to know her is somehow important to you.

Usually if a woman finds a man sexually desirable she lets him know almost immediately..... so a good tell would be , if there is no sex this next time, or the time after that [the 3 date rule]..... then you'd be wise to walk away , and not see her any more.


TopTwentyPercent replies on 9/17/2019 4:42 pm:
We have some different views of all this, but I do appreciate your questions and suggestions. I put a link to the description of our original meeting into this last post so you could catch up if you wanted to.

Thanks for dropping by and saying hello.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/17/2019 3:07 pm

 So far, how much money do you think you've spent on the woman?


TopTwentyPercent replies on 9/17/2019 4:46 pm:
Interesting question. In this case, I would say a very minimal investment save for my time and a couple of beverages. I am not a gentlemen that can win hearts and minds with my wallet. I get and sustain my dates the old fashioned way with brains, personality, and great health! I think once that is all sorted out, the highest quality women stick around and those that were expecting a "sugar daddy" move along leaving me a bruised ego but a healthy bank account!

Have a good one!

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/18/2019 12:48 am

 Good you have spent very little money on her, but don't buy her drinks either. She has her own 5 dollars from her own paycheck.

Stick to the "3 [intended] date" rule. No sex, by the end of the 3rd intended date, drop her. Find another.

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