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How to Select and Keep a Regular Cock Sucker on the Side  

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11/9/2017 12:02 pm
How to Select and Keep a Regular Cock Sucker on the Side

How to Select and Keep a Regular Cock Sucker on the Side

Be sure to check out my FAQ post here for more detailed aspects of what I interested in. AdultFriendFinder deletes odd words, phrases and n•mbèrz . Please forgive any odd sentences or constructions.




If you are busy with work, family or other activities, you might consider locating a regular cocksucker. For married guys who are not getting anything at home or single men who are between girlfriends, you local regular cocksucker can be a great addition to your sex life.

You can set up a schedule - once a week, twice a month, daily - whatever works for you to meet up and get swallowed. Situations are like this are great if you can’t spend time online, answering ads, swiping left or right, or if you just want to find an easy, no strings cum to swallow your load. You can train the faggot to do what you want, meet you without hassle and then get back to your life. Not all suckers are into this situation, but many are. A typical schedule is to meet weekly for about a half hour. Many times, this informal arrangement will last a year or two.

Below, are key points to consider when looking for a regular sucker.





1. Know What You Want. Looking for a quick blow and go Saturday mornings in your garage? Want a guy to watch a baseball game with and then swallow you? Searching for a sucker to meet you every Friday at your office after hours? Maybe you want a fag to worship you from head to toe twice a week. Or, you want to stop by every other day at his place on your way from work, taking a piss in his mouth, face fucking him and then going home to the wife and . Be specific and let your potential suckers know what you are interested in.



2. Host or Travel. Let your potential suckers know whether you can host — at your home, office, warehouse, garage, rental, etc. — or whether they to host and you to travel. Be sure you check on parking, access codes, and the hours the site is available if it is a business.




3. Suckers: A Typology

There are lots of different kinds of cock suckers. Find the one that works for you and your needs.

  • Blow and Go: The sucker comes over, blows you and goes. Often, the whole thing lasts 5 to 10 minutes. No reciprocation wanted or needed.


  • Hang and Blow: Usually with co-workers or neighbors. You guys hang out, chat and then, after a bit, you give the sucker “the look” and you take it somewhere else to get blown. Can be reciprocal.


  • BroJob: You both are “straight,” and maybe a little high/drunk. You ask your straight bro to blow you. Some guys will role play in this manner for the entire time they have a cock sucker. Let’s hang out is code for “Come over, get a little buzzed and let me gag you with my cock.” Can be reciprocal.


  • Full Service: The cocksucker will suck your dick, lick your balls, eat your ass, lick and suck your toes, play with your nipples, eat your armpits, etc. Usually, no reciprocation wanted or needed.


  • Sub: A cocksucker who will take all and any direction. Usually, this kind of faggot will only address you as “Sir,” or, “Master.” They are only there to serve you and your needs. Like a Full Service Cock Sucker, but will also wear a wig and panties if you provide it, clean your bathroom or be on a leash and collar. This is the guy you can write “cock sucker” on his forehead or play Gag the Fag with. You can make this as simple or complex as you wish. This sort of relationship takes some time to form, but can be very rewarding for both participants. No reciprocation wanted or needed.


  • Slave: Or, and very willingly, the lowest of the low. Usually naked or minimally clothed. Often restrained or bound. Cock is sometimes caged. Expects to both serve you sexually and wash your car or clean the kitchen. Can be given or traded to a friend. Sometimes ordered to sexually service others with no ability to say no. This cocksucker will never refuse being in a picture, being told what a piece of shit he is and how he does not deserve your cock. Not every encounter will necessarily involve sex. A complex interaction that takes a long time to develop. No reciprocation wanted or needed.





  • 4. Set a Schedule and Expectations. After you agree to take on your regular cocksucker, be sure you set up an agreed upon schedule -once a day, once a week, once a month - whatever works. Let him know if he needs to be discreet and park a distance away or if the fag should wear something special. Should your cocksucker get naked and crawl to you or just bring a six pack and an open mouth? After he blows you, should he immediately leave, hang out or vacuum the living room?




    5. How to Contact. Be sure you plan how to communicate, whether it be by text, message, chat, voice or email. Agree ahead of time and what the time frame is to get out of meeting up. If you connect on a website or app, be sure to get a “real” form of contact, so you can easily communicate when you need to, without logging in or remembering a screename.




    6. Give Feedback. Let your cocksucker know what he is doing works for you or not. Tell him you want more of this or less of that. Train him well and you will be rewarded.




    7. Evolution. Sometimes the Blow and Go sucker changes to a BroJob sucker. Or the Blow and Go becomes your sub cocksucker. Every situation is different. Be open and aware of changing roles and types.




    8. Happy Endings. You might get remarried, move or want a different kind of sucker. Don’t flake on your sucker or ghost him. Politely and firmly, let him know that his services were appreciated and now it is time to end this arrangement. Don’t string him out with false hopes (I might move back) or other promises. Be cool and clear. If you have a sub or slave cocksucker, you can pass the sucker onto a new Dom or Master- but check first.




    And my experiences –

    In college, I sucked off a single guy, about 15 yeārs older than me, for about 3 . He was low key gay, white, handsome and very professional. He lived alone. I would show up weekly to his condo and he would let me in, catch up with me briefly and offer me something to drink. We’d go to his living room and he would watch porn while I sucked him off. We might chit-chat a little bit but that was the extent of it. It was a more or less a blow and go situation. However, he did connect me with some accounting and legal types that had offices not too far from his condo. I’d blow them on occasion. It was good while it lasted, until he started splitting time between 2 homes and our schedules did not work anymore.


    The next guy was neighbor, a few blocks away, from the apartment I moved to from<b> campus. </font></b>He was married, Christian, with 2 daughters, and was about 10 yeārs older than me, total Dad next door. Super cool guy who would coach the basketball team and help change your tire. I would do yard work for extra money and watch their house while they were on vacation. The first time we hooked up his wife and daughters were visiting the grandparents. The husband was to join them the next day. I came over to get the keys, like I always did, to watch the house and be sure nothing had changed. He offered me a beer and we watched NASCAR on the big screen for a while. I got up to use the bathroom and came back out to see him with his pants unbuttoned and the zipper down. He was jerking off slowly and I sat down next to him. He never looked at or acknowledged me. I went down on him and he leaned back and let me go to town on his cock. I’d suck him off a few times a month, when his wife was out and the daughters elsewhere. He liked to be worshiped head to toe, so it was a Full Service cock sucking. I moved out of town after about 2 yeārs but we are still in touch.


    The neighbor guy hooked me up with the next guy. He knew I had an intense attraction to Black Men, so he introduced me to a co-worker of his in the town I was moving to. I met his friend and we did not hit it off but the co-worker said that he had a cousin that was going through a bad divorce and might enjoy a good blow job. I texted K. and he said to come over and that I was to refer to him as Sir. When I entered the house, I was to take off my clothes, fold them neatly, stack them on top of my shoes and then place them by the front door. I drove over, opened the unlocked front door and did as instructed. Sitting on the couch was a 6’3” tall, bald, nicely built, dark Black man. He had a goatee, was professionally groomed and was wearing a dress shirt, with a loosened tie. His pants and boxers were down at his feet. As he watched CNN, he said, “Come over faggot.” I walked over, got on my knees and sucked him for about 20 minutes. Then, he turned my face up to look at him, and keeping his dick in my mouth, and slowly pissed in my mouth. I swallowed it all and went back to sucking. I later figured out this was The Test. I repeated some variation of this scene weekly for about 2 and became his sole sub cocksucker. Usually, we would meet on a week night, after work. He would be un-showered, tired and focused on tv. I would not speak unless spoken to, kept quiet and swallowed whatever came out of his dick. When he was finished for the evening, he’d say something like, “Time to go home, faggot,” which were often the only words he would speak to me. On about 5 or 6 different occasions, he sent me over to 2 different guys’ homes to blow them. I had to take pics to prove I did it and send them to him. About 2 yeārs or so later, he became engaged. still in touch with and friends with him and his new wife, who has-and never will- no idea.


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