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Lmao
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Stretching it a bit Priceless!Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH
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lol
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They are all trying....trying....trying....to get noticed. Ya gotta give em credit ~~ toooooo funny tho ...lol ~~
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1/4/2020 6:24 am |
That is some funny shit
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1/4/2020 6:25 am |
what does it all mean
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1/4/2020 6:39 am |
Loved this
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Well at least the 2nd one had read your profile and strung a sentence together  ,, and was polite! ... a rare moment in time!
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The things guys come up with . . .
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First, this is YOUR blog and you're free to do and say as you please. I respect that. However, since it's publicly accessible, I will give my input and say that I do think at times you are a bit abrasive and critical to those who contact you. Yes, there are plenty of male (and sometimes the occasional female) idiots who contact me daily, most of which do not bother reading my profile, waste my time, waste my effort and make irrelevant contact with me, which I do wholeheartedly agree with you, on those posts which you stress reading, comprehension skills and lack of laziness/ignorance to those paying Gold members who should be reading and following basic guidelines. I politely guide them to read my profile, but usually get ignored, blocked or retorted on as well. And like you, it's those bad apples that I publicly expose for their behavioral issues. However, at the very same time, we can't be part of that same problem of the massive divide and discord in society by automatically reaching for that block button by default....or by exposing genuine people who may be gently pushing a few of our buttons, taking a chance at slightly inquiring of bending a rule and yet seemingly coming off quite polite and respectful. * "Hi. Feeling fun?"(Aguy4uplay) - I get dozens of comments like these. I don't honestly see how this justifies public exposure. I don't see anything rude here at all, retaliative or otherwise. We can beat him up that he probably didn't read your profile or respond back to you, but I don't see this grounds for exposure. There are some REALLY bad men and interactions out there....this isn't one of them. * (Bigtoungemann142) - A for this guy, we should credit him for at least having the decency to open and read your profile prior to contacting you. He seemed genuinely polite and he was merely asking a reasonable question pertaining to being over your age limit by a single year. He also hinted a bit of humor in there, which I will credit him kudos for, since most women do enjoy a man with at least a mild sense of humor. Again, I don't see him as being justification for public exposure. Now, it's hard at times to sense 'vibes' or 'attitude' via text at times, but your reply back to him did seem a bit unnecessary by denying his 'one year overage' and then by criticizing him upon his misspelled words in his screen name. I think there has to be a certain balance here and we, as women, cannot also be part of the root or underlying problems around here, as well. Let's stop reaching automatically for that block button. It's killing human to human interaction to the point where it's non-existent anymore, and ironically, that's contrary to what the entire purpose of this site is supposed to be about, regarding social media, chatting, flirting, mingling, asking questions, taking chances, etc... . We need to stop calling out petty offenders and save the public exposure, reporting and block button for the truly vile, rude, malicious, childish, retaliative and dangerous offenders out there who absolutely deserve it. The female community on site has become strong and more and more I see women beginning to take a stand for ourselves by exposing the violators, showing proof via screen shots, flood emailing?IM'ing the offenders, exposing poor behavior on their profiles, etc... and that's a good thing! We cannot rely on the management of this crappy site to enforce morals or to change social behavior, but we as women have that power.....if we do things in the right manner, to the right offenders and for the right reasons. So if you were polite to someone, gave them a few fighting chances to correct their issues through guidance and were reasonable, but they got rude, retaliated, ignored, blocked, reported, retorted, accused, became childish, etc... then those are the ones we must expose. As for very many of your other blogs, I wholeheartedly agree with you on most of them (and a few like these, which I personally feel as if you're being overly harsh for no reason, sarcastic/snarky or in some way being equal to the problem). Like I said, a large portion of this site pertains to social media activities (including communications between members), so I think that's paramount to keep in mind when members contact us and so is a bit of patience. If we're not a "people person" to at least some degree of basic, respectful and cordial demeanor, then we shouldn't be on here. Nevertheless, I respect what you do. I have been doing much of the same kind of blogging and exposure for many, many years now and have hundreds of offenders on personal files and black lists. These are critically important to share back to the community in a movement which helps keep this a better place for all....especially for those very few women who are actually in the market seeking others. I enjoy your blogs. Keep up the amazing work for those offenders! 
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