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Hubby wants Threesome
Hubby wants Threesome So Hubby wants us to get a girl and Freak and yes I want it too but not sure that it wouldn't cause problems?? Never felt this way before so the question is... Will it cause problems or will it just be 1 nite of Hot Naughty Exciting Fun?????!!!!!>>! |
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My boyfriend has the same fears. Here is what I told him and I hope it helps you as well. Love is love, This here is RECREATIONAL ONLY. Don't attach feelings to it. You have to go into this secure or it will cause problems. If one of you is a head trip, that will start inventing things to worry about...Like the all too common I've heard in the past...I saw you looking at his dick, when you weren't and don't even know what or when he's talking about or the if you fucked someone with me there what are you doing when I'm not there, lmao If you have someone like that DO NOT GO INTO IT!!!! Now if you both respect each other and can come to mutual agreements to do this, then keep those mutual agreements up, talk about what you are and are not willing to do. If you hook up with someone keep gauging each others reactions, meaning look at him periodically to see if you see any distress on his face. Come up with a word, touch, anything that will signal either one of you that the other one of you is uncomfortable, this way the person/people you are with don't know and you don't ruin the moment but you can subtly change the scene. You have to be completely open minded when it comes to bringing someone else in. 9 times out of 10 it WILL NOT go the way you envision it in your mind. Key is DO NOT ATTACH FEELINGS TO IT. It is recreational only and neither one of you will see anyone alone. And keep that promise. Good luck on your journey!!
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As the previous points out, communication is key. You have to be willing and able to talk about every aspect of the experience. That there is a difference between an emotional bond and a physical release. A roller coaster is thrilling, but who would want to live on one? Good luck. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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Only one way to know for sure...
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